How To Stand Out From The Competition

“Quick question, how [can I] stand out when a lot of guys want her, [and] she’s the only fine girl in a workplace flooded with men?”

— Ger Main

A CRITICAL DISTINCTION

Women are creatures of FEELINGS and EMOTION—

—not LOGIC and REASON.

Unlike men, with women, it’s all about PERCEPTIONS.

“Whether or not you are objectively her best viable option is not the point. As long as it’s her subjective belief, that’s all that matters.”

— The God Pill

The reality is that you must always be perceived as her best available option.

Again: you must always be PERCEIVED as her best available option.

Notice I didn’t say you must actually be her best option; she must only PERCEIVE you as such.

This means ensuring your MUSCLES, MONEY, GAME, and GODLINESS are on point.

It means understanding intergender dynamics and masculine/feminine polarity on a DEEP intrinsic level.

It means utilizing covert communication to control the frame and assume a position of masculine leadership and headship AUTHORITY.

It means acquiring the ability to flirt, display value, and trigger gut-level ATTRACTION.

The best way to attract the woman of your dreams is to become the man of your dreams.

So if you’re lacking in specific departments, work on them.

Remember, men look for reasons to qualify a woman; women look for reasons to disqualify a man.

In other words, men play to win; women play not to lose.

You’re only as good as your WEAKEST LINK.

“A woman’s standards are like a house of cards: kick out one from the bottom, and the whole edifice crashes down.”

— Red Pill Maxim

MEN HAVE THE BURDEN OF PERFORMANCE

“Women don’t care about your struggles; they hang out at the finish line and pick the winners.” — Red Pill Maxim

The cold hard truth: unlike women, men have no intrinsic value.

Men must CREATE their value; women are BORN with it.

Men must BECOME; women just ARE.

“The measure of a man is his ability to create more resources than he consumes.”

— The God Pill

Again: men must CREATE their value.

So work on yourself.

Create… Grow… Improve…

Become something.

Strive for EXCELLENCE.

Become the type of man she would CHOOSE to be with.

Get it?

Got it?

Good.

Now… Let’s say you do the WORK.

You’ve made something of yourself.

Your money, muscles, game, and godliness are on point—

—and you’ve become the BEST version of yourself.

You’ve never felt better.

Here’s the BAD NEWS:

Your journey has only just BEGUN…

All your hard work only gets you to the TRYOUTS—

—but you DO NOT get the prize; you do not get the GIRL.

You only qualify to ENTER the competition against all the other hopefuls who also qualify.

In other words, you are no longer INVISIBLE to her; you’ve merely become VISIBLE—she sees you now.

You’re a blip on her radar (along with thousands of other flashing “blips”).

Congratulations—you’re a CONTESTANT!

Pause for a moment and let that sink in…

All that strenuous effort…

All the endless TOIL, STRUGGLE, CREATING, and BECOMING…

All that leveling up, hard work, and ACHIEVEMENT—

—and now you are merely… COMPETING?

That’s right—you are a CONTENDER.

Welcome to the Big Leagues.

"A common misconception among men occurs when they compare themselves to their peers. They say I'm better looking than that guy or more talented than this guy. But your competition is not the men in your neighborhood, town, or city—it's the World Wide Web. So whether you're looking to publish your book, become a YouTube sensation, or get the girl, you are not competing against your peers but against the top... and cream always rises to the top."

— The God Pill

HOW IS THIS FAIR?

“I did the work, so why shouldn’t I get the girl? I deserve to. I’m better than that other guy. Why do the jerks and losers always prevail? Life’s not fair!”

Listen: Fairness means you get an OPPORTUNITY; fairness doesn’t mean you get an OUTCOME.

Fairness means you get an INTERVIEW—

—but you are not guaranteed a JOB.

The reality is that we each have more or less the same OPPORTUNITIES.

—but we all have different OUTCOMES.

"Fairness means you get an opportunity; fairness does not mean you get an outcome. If hard work is all that’s required, we would all be guaranteed success. But hard work gets you to the dance, it doesn’t guarantee you a top spot. Hard work gets you the tryout; it doesn’t guarantee a position on the team. So remain steadfast and strong, be sober-minded, and endure always.”

— The God Pill

"Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one receives the prize? So run that you may obtain it. Every athlete exercises self-control in all things. They do it to receive a perishable wreath, but we an imperishable. "

— 1 Cor. 9:24-25, ESV

Case in point: All over the world, millions of men practice MMA (mixed martial arts).

Some of them are very, very good at what they do—

—but only the select men who get NOTICED are invited to major promotions like the UFC.

Only a handful make it to the big leagues.

Despite all their strenuous effort, training, hard work, and talent, most MMA practitioners OUTSIDE the major promotions are still INVISIBLE to the masses; they are UNRECOGNIZED.

No one even knows their names.

Only once these trainees attain a certain level of COMPETENCY and PRESTIGE will they be on the public radar—

—and only once they enter the UFC do they get to COMPETE for the title of “Ultimate Fighter.”

Before this, they aren’t even a CONTENDER; the championship belt is not even an OPTION.

They are INVISIBLE—

—and so it is with you and your female dating prospects.

“Just like an old woman is invisible to most men, young men are invisible to most women.”

— Red Pill Maxim

LET’S GET READY TO RUMBLE!

Are you ready to strap in and strap on?

Are you ready to take the NEXT STEP?

You know what you have to do…

Remember: we all start at LEVEL ONE.

Right now, you are INVISIBLE.

Step one is to become VISIBLE.

So level up your game.

Build your money, muscles, game, and godliness.

Get your life on point and make a dent in the universe.

Before you can compete, you must be COMPLETE.

Today is the TRYOUT.

Next week, she’ll notice you at the PLAYOFFS—

—but she's not yours until you win the CHAMPIONSHIP.

Sometimes all that hard work pays off.

Sometimes…

“In our modern time, equality is nothing more than a pretense. Equality is defined by what? Outcome? No. We have equality of opportunity, but there is not—and never will be—equality of outcome.”

— The God Pill

Remember:

"Action doesn't guarantee success, but you can't succeed without action."

— The God Pill