Love story and life reality

What happened to Ma Jin Yu and the truth has been and is being interpreted by many people. Domestic violence should be true, not forgivable. The story of her "flash marriage to love" has also become a "stepping stone" for many people to lament and despise: after receiving such a high education and having such a rich experience, what's the use, not still being overwhelmed by love?

But, is love overwhelming, and not only Ma Jin Yu a person's? The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you're doing.

--Look, I first thought of the female celebrities, then those male celebrities, huh! Are they not overwhelmed by love? Do hormones have to be divided into higher and lower?

This is a question that deserves some thought, although it is also an almost obvious one - why do women tend to lose their minds in front of love and "jump off even if it is a cliff"?

Summing up countless emotional articles, in fact, the principle is one, to borrow the words of Ms. Ai Xiaoyan, that is, "human society's long tradition of male-dominated indoctrination, has broken the wings of countless women." Beauvoir said that sex is an acquired form. We have been admonishing women for thousands of years to survive by pleasing men, how can women treat men like dirt? And even if the wheels of the times have rolled to 2021, the prevailing or romance drama, even if it is a workplace drama, still has to include love scenes. The domineering president is willing to saddle up for the beautiful woman, affectionate, dedicated and gentle. This routine, how can not go to impress those who love brain?

This is the most confusing part of love: in each other's world, you are the most important existence. I love you, so you are my world.

Who doesn't like that feeling? It's the feeling of a baby enjoying and controlling the world! Men conquer the world, women conquer men. The same, behind the "I can control" sense of self-satisfaction.

One of the human nature is lazy should be true. The instinct to survive makes people naturally tend to avoid harm. If someone can shelter me from the wind and rain, why do I have to build walls and bricks to build your own nest? If someone is willing to provide me with unlimited tender home, why do I have to go self-sufficient, not tired ah?

However, the reality of the story is always a little more relentless than the love story. In the words of Lao Tzu, "the rain is not the end of the day, the wind is not the end of the day". Guardian God as a moment can be, a lifetime? Since people have a lazy nature, men will also be lazy ah! Not to mention the biological differences determine the male than female more prone to "variables" in the relationship, this time, the "care" of women how to live?

Many romantic dramas stop at the dreamy and beautiful wedding, because it is really the happiest and brightest moment. When the main scene from love to marriage, once the dazzling encounter "unsustainable" development, the reality of three meals a day plus raising offspring, trivial, dull, and even differences and arguments through the field. This time, the prince also began to get impatient, he was impatient, in fact, how life is so troublesome. And live in the dream of the princess or Cinderella had to experience the feeling of "heartbreak": why everything has changed? In fact, not change, is to come or come. And already.