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How to make him love you

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By Uche silasPublished 3 years ago 4 min read

How to make him love you

Introduction

If you want to make him love you, all you have to do is accept that he might not love you back. That's right: sometimes guys don't really like girls and they just want to sleep with them because they've never met anyone else who was as attractive as you. But don't worry! There are plenty of ways for a guy to tell if he likes or loves someone and there are many things that can help boost his feelings towards you. If this doesn't work out, don't take it personally; he may have just been trying something new since he hasn't had any luck with previous relationships in the past (or maybe even none at all). Either way, let me give you some pointers on how best possible communicate with your boyfriend about these things so that your relationship can flourish into something beautiful!

Know yourself.

Knowing yourself is the first step to making someone else love you. It's also important because it will help you understand what makes you happy, how much money and time you need for happiness in your life, and how much patience and understanding from others are needed for them to get along with each other.

Knowing your strengths and weaknesses helps determine whether or not someone else is able to meet all of their needs (or even any). Knowing what makes YOU happy will give insight into how well someone can fulfill those needs as well as help them see if they're compatible with another person based on personal traits that may present themselves differently depending on who they'd like more than another person would...

Be genuine.

Be genuine.

It's no secret that men are attracted to women who are honest, open and genuine. But they especially love women who can make their own decisions and don't try to be someone they're not or pretend to be perfect just because it'll make him happy. Don't fake interest in things you aren't interested in just because he needs reassurance that you care about his career or whatever else happens to be on his mind at the moment—and if he asks why exactly this is important for future plans (or even now), explain it clearly without making excuses or sounding defensive yourself!

Develop a strong sense of self.

Develop a strong sense of self.

If you want to make him love you, then develop a strong sense of self. Know your strengths and weaknesses, be confident in yourself, be comfortable with who you are and what makes up the person that he loves—and know that he'll appreciate this about you! He'll feel proud and secure when he sees how happy it makes him to see how proud and secure his woman is.

Hone your skills.

Hone your skills.

If you want to make him love you, the first step is to learn how to do something that makes him fall in love with you. For example, if he loves cooking and can't get enough of it, then learn how to cook! Or perhaps he loves music and wants someone who plays an instrument well or dances well. Learn those things too! If he likes magic tricks (or card tricks), then learn how skillfully perform one of those tricks for him so that when the time comes for his birthday present or anniversary gift from "him" (you), it will come from his heart instead of just being something practical like a new smartphone case with his favorite superhero printed on it (which would be cool but also pretty impersonal).

Ask him out first!

There are a few reasons why you should ask him out first. First, it will give him the opportunity to say yes or no without pressure from you. He can decide whether or not he wants to go on a date with you, which is great because if he says yes, then that means that all of your hard work has paid off!

Second, by asking him out first and telling him why (that's called "the bigger picture"), his mind will be opened up so that when he does ask for another date later on down the line - whether it be once every two weeks or every month - he'll remember what made them fall in love in the first place: their chemistry together! That way when they do finally get together again after months apart (or years), there won't be any awkwardness between them anymore . . . just good fun times together :)

Just relax, be yourself, and go for it!

To make him love you, you need to be yourself. Your guy will not like a fake person or someone who is trying too hard to please him. Be confident and relaxed in the relationship, while being honest with your feelings and thoughts.

If he loves you, he will support your decisions even if they are not always in line with his own preferences; however, if he doesn't care about what's best for both of you then there is no point in keeping things together because eventually one of them will get hurt by this lack of honesty on both sides which may cause further problems down the road (and trust me – we all know how painful it can get!).

Be patient when trying new things out together because sometimes things don’t always go according to plan but at least try! Don’t give up hope just yet! A lot can happen between now and then so stay positive :)

Conclusion

These tips should help you in your quest to make him love you. If you’re successful, I hope you enjoy the benefits of a loving relationship with your man—and vice versa!

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