Beauty

Beauty is a tool of deception, it's voice very calm yet so arrogant . It gets you to narrate ' you deserve so much better than what you currently have'.

Such obscurity makes you lose everything you have entirely acquired

The moment you begin to magnify beauty beyond your actual personality arrogance starts to leads you off trail . It manuals another page of flavours in front of you. You will start to think what you currently have is not worth it .. I see it with most beautiful ladies ! Immediately after the voice of ego starts to whisper in them

"you are so beautiful "!! They think dating a low life guy is embarrassing and not worth it. They yearn to have a man who has it all !! ,little do they know man are like bees ,they are attracted to petals ,but what they eat and take is the nectar .Beauty is like petals, it draws near man (bees) . Like petals in winter they fade out ,fall down and only leave the plant surviving. Personality is your mother plant, it is the one which makes you stay. JUST like any other marriage has hot, stormy and rainy seasons. it's only the wise ,masterminded and the virtuous can handle the change of seasons .An argument arises, the man makes her wife kiss some blows, A beautiful lady says I am beautiful and I deserve someone better , with more money, and all sorts of luxury.. An ugly woman , says the marriage I have been given was not because I was worth , but because I worked hard for it and got to deserve it ,and I shall do everything to get all that is lacking from it. She saves her marriage with dignity not with appearance.

Nectar is the essence which a good relationship and a good marriage,

Note the sweetness of nectar steals attention of both flies and bees . A woman of virtues is desired by everyman . Beauty is not one quality of a marriage candidate ,but rather morals, hard working, responsibility and dignity are hold in account.

There are flies coming your way because you are a virtuous somebody ,you have a taste to make a good wife!! ,They abuse ,use you ,pregnant you and then later say "I was with because I wanted to have fun " . The deference between a girl and a woman is the level of how they handle matters and take responsibilities .Man of resolution are not in search of little girls after luxury , partying,beauty therapies , they are aimly wandering for a woman of great vision and responsibility ..

Note Dont let beauty tell you lies with a capital later " L" it's lies are capitalized .they leave you aimlessly wondering for a life of existence rather than a life of substance.

On the same line of thought, the world has become a colorful place but the problem is too much color blinds the eye. If color in this case resembles beauty then our boys are in trouble. There isnt anything wrong with beauty ( or color) but there is everything wrong some times with how it is perceived. It is usually perceived blindly and foolishly. In beholding beauty, the problem is, we rob our selves of the finer details about things and people to the point that we find ourselves in shock after we have been decieved yet "the God is in the details" .Only when it puts us in a place of great discomfort then shall it be easy to discover the deception and the damage we have exposed ourselves to. To be a little more precise, beauty doesn't really decieve but we decieve ourselves when it comes to beauty. Imagine beauty doesn't convince a girl on the mirror to stop dating broke guys as she feels she deserves better because of her beauty but the moment she looks at the mirror , gazing at her beauty ,she allows herself to begin to decieve herself until she is fully convinced. Beauty in that case did not decieve her but it only facilitated the deception. Beauty is God's creation but it isnt meant for the foolish to look at because they will foolishly look at it until they foolishly fall into traps. Beauty is a feature meant for the wise, they know how to appreciate it better. You can imagine a tremendously beautiful girl with great wisdom and intelligence who meets a boy with vision. Beauty in both worlds is the inevitable byproduct. Wisdom edifies beautiful. Are you beautiful? Get wisdom. Are you looking for a beautiful girl, get wisdom.

Mix ups are there is every relationship, and don't tell yourself you deserve to have someone to handle you better .. Vitalize your marriage, relationship with your family and friends. ...