7 Common Mistakes Women Make When They Like a Guy (And How to Avoid Them)

I stumbled upon this hilarious and insightful video by LDM with PK on YouTube titled "7 Mistakes Ladies Make When They Like a Guy," and I couldn’t stop laughing from the very start. But let me tell you, the content is no joke-it’s packed with real talk and valuable lessons for women navigating the tricky waters of dating and attraction. PK keeps it 100! Here's a summary of his key points, plus a few thoughts on how to avoid falling into these common traps.

1. Not Doing Anything

PK starts strong by saying, “This video is not for girls, it's for women!” And one of the most common mistakes women make when they like a guy? Doing absolutely nothing. Many ladies believe if a guy is interested, he’ll do everything to pursue them. While that may be true in some cases, not all guys have the confidence to make the first move. Believe it or not, a lot of men are shy or even scared of approaching women. A small gesture from your side, like a smile or eye contact, could be the nudge they need.

Be accessible and approachable you’re in the same space as the guy you like, don’t rush off after church or a work event. Stay a bit longer, smile, and make casual conversation. As PK says, just saying “Hi, what’s that book you’re reading?” can be enough to start something.

2. Doing Too Much

The second mistake PK points out is overdoing it. You know what I’m talking about-liking all 300 of his Instagram posts, constantly texting, or worse, showering him with gifts. Chill! As PK humorously put it, "You're buying him a whole car, sister, slow down!" When you do too much, you’re essentially chasing him, which could make him lose respect or even take advantage of you.

Instead, keep it balanced. Let him chase a little. If he's interested, he will show it. You don't need to overcompensate or throw yourself at him.

3. Not Being Ready to Walk Away

This one is tough, but it’s crucial. Even if you really like a guy, you must be willing to walk away if things aren’t going the way you’d hoped. The truth is, in any situation, the person most willing to leave holds the power. If you’re too emotionally invested, you might ignore red flags or let him treat you in ways you don't deserve. PK makes a good point when he says, "If you're not ready to walk away, you'll lose control of the situation."

4. Fantasizing Too Much

Ladies, we all have been there—letting our imagination run wild and picturing our dream wedding with someone we barely know. But fantasizing too much can lead you to fall in love with an idea of a person rather than the actual person. PK gives a great example of women falling for “bad boy” types or fantasizing about impossible traits like a guy being both super spiritual and a bit of a rebel. It's easy to create an ideal man in your head, but real-life relationships are about getting to know the person behind the fantasy.

5. Submitting All Protocol

PK stresses the importance of not throwing away all your relationship protocols just because you like a guy. Whether it's physical boundaries or not giving him money, don't let emotions cloud your judgment. Relationships require respect, boundaries, and a sense of self-worth. If you start crossing lines too early, you’re setting a precedent for the entire relationship that could be hard to break later.

6. Falling in Love Before You Know Him

It’s easy to be swept up by someone’s charm, looks, or status, but don’t confuse that with real love. PK reminds us that you can be attracted at first sight, but love takes time. Get to know the person’s character, values, and how they treat you before jumping to conclusions about your feelings. Falling in love with an idea instead of the real person can lead to disappointment down the road.

7. Cutting Off Accountability

The final mistake PK points out is cutting off your support system—friends, family, or even mentors—just because you’re infatuated with a guy. It’s easy to isolate yourself, but remember, these people love you unconditionally and can offer a valuable outside perspective. Sometimes, in the haze of new attraction, you might overlook potential red flags, but your support system can help keep you grounded.

PK’s advice is both funny and real, and I can’t stress enough how much these tips can save you from unnecessary heartache. If this content resonated with you, go ahead and check out his video on YouTube—it’s part of a larger series on relationship mistakes that’s packed with gems. Trust me, you’ll laugh, learn, and come away with some solid tools for your next crush.

Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe to his channel at LDM with PK on YouTube and maybe even share this post with your friends. We all could use a little guidance when it comes to navigating the confusing world of dating.

Happy love life, ladies.