
Most elderly persons, shy away from discussing sex-related issues. For many, sex-related issues are weird and open discussions about this topic are unheard of, and this has created the opportunity for different persons to sell different false beliefs to adolescent and teens.
Many young people remain unaware of their sexual health. The complex emotional state of teens and the stigma around these topics relating to sexual health has also had several other negative effects on most young people such as unwanted pregnancies, and contraction of sexually transmitted diseases.
Most young people are also ignorant and have a lot of misconceptions about their sexuality, and this moulds their beliefs.
Educating people about sex and their sexual health teaches people about how their bodies work and that of others. Sex education also teaches people to respect other people’s bodies and their boundaries through the enlightenment of people on right and wrong touch. Sex education also involves educating people about STD, and this helps them take the right measures to avoid contracting these diseases.
Although sex education is important, most people’s tradition and beliefs do not permit them to talk about these things, so, you would find a lot of myths about sex. Some of these myths include the following.
MYTH: Periods Are Impure
In most traditions, menstruation is impure and dirty, so women on their periods have many restrictions. In these traditions, women on their period cannot cook because their food and whatever they touch becomes dirty.
However, menstruation is a natural occurrence in women and girls within the reproductive age. It is the periodic discharge of mucosal tissues and blood from the vagina and uterus, and it is a process that occurs after an average of 28 – 35 days.
MYTH: A Bride Must Be A Virgin
In some cultures, virginity is the gold standard for measuring the decency of a woman for marriage. However, virginity is a social construct, and the hymen can break at any time due to a physical activity like cycling, intense exercises and gymnastics. In some cases, some women do not have the hymen from birth.
The belief that the hymen breaks during first penetration and that a woman must bleed during first sexual intercourse is baseless.
MYTH: Babies Automatically Develop
During childhood, most children asked their expectant mothers about how babies come about, and the common replies were babies come from the sky, or God sends them down to a woman’s womb. Most children grow with this belief into adolescence.
MYTH: Condoms Affect The Desire To Have Sex
It is a common belief for most couples that using condoms reduces pleasure during sex. However, using condoms allows a lot of couples to focus on foreplay without having to worry about STDs and unwanted pregnancy.
MYTH: No Transmission Of STI During Oral Sex
Untrue to popular beliefs, you can contract an STI during oral sex. The truth is, if a woman takes in sperm orally, she cannot get pregnant, but she can contract STDs like HIV, and herpes.
MYTH: Pulling Out Before Ejaculation Is A Sure Method Of Preventing Pregnancy
Some people think that when the man pulls out before ejaculation is a 100% guarantee that the women cannot get pregnant. However, even before ejaculation, the pre-ejaculation fluid may consist of sperm cells, which may result in pregnancy. The pre-ejaculation fluid may also contain organisms that may cause an STI.
If you want to get a better method of preventing pregnancy or want to know more about your sexual health, If you are residing in London, you should visit your nearest sexual health clinic in London to book an appointment with a specialist.
About the Creator
Freya Jones
Freya Jones is a part-time blogger and full time consultant of Sexual Health. She is really passionate about sharing vital information on Sexual Health issues and treatment options through her interesting posts.




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