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Tip for coffee date

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By Yousuf KKPublished 3 years ago 3 min read
    1. Choose a comfortable and cozy coffee shop or café as your meeting place.
    2. Dress casually but neatly to make a good impression.
    3. Arrive on time or a few minutes early to show respect for the other person's time.
    4. Greet each other with a warm smile and a friendly handshake or hug, depending on your relationship.
    5. Approach the counter together and order your preferred coffee or beverage.
    6. Find a comfortable seating area where you can chat and get to know each other better.
    7. Begin the conversation by asking open-ended questions to encourage the other person to share about themselves.
    8. Listen actively and show genuine interest in what the other person is saying.
    9. Share anecdotes or stories about yourself to foster a sense of connection and openness.
    10. Avoid controversial or sensitive topics unless both parties are comfortable discussing them.
    11. Use humor to lighten the mood and create a relaxed atmosphere.
    12. Offer to pay for your own coffee, or if you feel comfortable, you can offer to pay for both.
    13. Keep the conversation balanced, allowing each person to contribute equally.
    14. Be respectful and considerate of the other person's boundaries and personal space.
    15. Wrap up the coffee date by expressing gratitude for the enjoyable conversation and suggesting future plans, such as meeting again for another coffee date or trying out a different activity together.
    16. Choose a comfortable seating arrangement that allows for easy conversation, such as a table for two or a cozy corner with comfortable chairs.
    17. Maintain good eye contact with your companion to show interest and engagement in the conversation.
    18. Avoid distractions such as constantly checking your phone or allowing interruptions, giving your full attention to the person you're meeting.
    19. Be mindful of your body language, conveying openness and friendliness by sitting upright, leaning in slightly, and nodding or using appropriate hand gestures during the conversation.
    20. Take turns sharing stories and experiences to create a sense of reciprocity and mutual understanding.
    21. If you're unsure about the other person's preferences, ask for their input when selecting snacks or treats to accompany your coffee.
    22. Explore shared interests or hobbies to find common ground and foster a deeper connection.
    23. Be respectful of different viewpoints and opinions, maintaining a non-judgmental attitude during discussions.
    24. Allow moments of comfortable silence, as they can be a chance to reflect or process thoughts before continuing the conversation.
    25. Offer compliments or genuine praise when appropriate, acknowledging the other person's qualities or achievements.
    26. If the conversation steers towards more personal or emotional topics, approach them with empathy and sensitivity, creating a safe space for sharing.
    27. Be conscious of the time spent together, ensuring that the coffee date doesn't exceed a reasonable duration to avoid any potential discomfort or pressure.
    28. Before concluding the coffee date, express your appreciation for the conversation and the time spent together.
    29. Offer to walk your companion to their next destination if it feels appropriate and safe to do so.
    30. Follow up with a text or a call after the coffee date to express your enjoyment and interest in continuing the connection, if desired.

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  • Mariann Carroll3 years ago

    Just have fun and be yourself on a date is my recommendation, cafe date will overwhelm me. If you have fun and be yourself the date will be extended and there will be most likely a second date .

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