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The Underground Never Grows Old

Middle Age, New Wave, and the Refusal to Fade Away

By Lee KolinskyPublished 3 months ago 3 min read
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Some People Never Give Up

They spend their youth on the outskirts of the norm—never quite fitting in, never quite finding a place, but always passionate about their beliefs and full of energy. Even decades later, they still refuse to conform. Instead of fading into the routine of middle age, this group of rebels has carved out a space of their own—an underground refuge where Peter Pan syndrome isn’t a diagnosis but a declaration.

For this group of unsung heroes, life was never meant to walk a straight line. The world tells them to settle down, to embrace the dull glow of predictability, to stop chasing the thrill of life and accept the mundane. But they won’t listen to the “Man.” They won't be silenced by normalcy. And why should anyone be normal? Having character makes you stand out. The sideline is for the boring.

A Scene That Age Can't Kill

New wave music—the long-lasting scene that never left the building in parts of suburban America—is still here and making its way back. It’s a Generation X scene that can’t and won’t be ignored. This group of people still has the industrial echoes of Trent Reznor and the melancholic synths of Depeche Mode coursing through their veins.

This isn’t nostalgia. It’s survival.

Stepping onto the dance floor for the last 40 years isn’t about reliving the past—it’s about reclaiming something the world tries to take away: a sense of being part of something, no matter how different your opinions are or how wild you dress. It’s about being accepted for not accepting the world at face value. The music draws them together.

The songs’ messages and sonic rhythms give hope when no one else does. It’s not pop music rhetoric. These songs reach deep into the soul, into that place for those who feel deeply and look behind the velvet curtain—those who ask, What does it all really mean? Why do I feel this way?

The Soundtrack of Rebellion

This isn’t just a love of ’80s and ’90s alternative—it’s an identity. It’s the underground that never sold out. The same beats that fueled teenage angst now power middle-aged liberation. They’re not trying to be young again; they’re proving they never stopped being themselves.

You Can Dance if You Want to

And people do. You can always find those who want to enjoy life and have actually realized that 50, 60 or even 70 is only a number—not an indicator that you must be an “adult” in the conventional sense. They still chase the night, even if the night ends at 10:30 p.m., not 5 a.m. Because they still have to get up and go to work in the morning.

The DJ is Spinning Along

Many of the old venues are gone, but the spirit hasn’t vanished. And the DJs know their crowd. They are standing right beside their Gen X club kids. The records may not be turning in the old school sense, but the laptop does the trick. These DJs who once packed clubs now play to smaller crowds in restaurants or bars. And if you get a good summer venue, the music of Depeche Mode or The Smiths can be heard in outdoor spaces.

Why? Because some people never give up. And they never will.

With a great scene on Long Island and New York City, a certain resurgence seems to be on the horizon. The people who have been carrying the torch for 40 years may have finally found a new generation enjoying the same music. It can be found at underground parties, tribute shows and vinyl revival nights. At the same time, bands once labeled nostalgic— The Cure, Duran Duran and Devo—are filling venues, drawing both original fans and new listeners hungry for that unmistakable sound.

The messages bring out the human side of people who never quite felt they belonged. But the reality is that they do belong and these New Wave bands spoke to a generation that helped them understand that being different is a good thing.

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About the Creator

Lee Kolinsky

I am an award-winning screenwriter and copywriter focused on creating great stories that people can relate to. My films include Send No Flowers, Junkie Heaven and Generation Change among others.

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  • Marie381Uk 3 months ago

    Very brilliant writing Thank you for sharing ♦️😊♦️✍️

  • WrittenWritRalf3 months ago

    You gotta fight for your right to party! I still have a problem with authority and definitely with being told who I am, what I do, where I go, what I like. I am who I am and that’s all that I am … toot toot

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