The ambiguity between boys and girls mostly starts with borrowing these three things

There must be many sleepless nights before a relationship is confirmed and made public.

Some people say that the ambiguous period is precious, because the kind of careful expression, vague love adds a lot of romance to love. But there are also many people who think that the ambiguous period is an excuse.

Many men and women are ambiguous, so that women can feel his love but refused to express, through an ambiguous layer of yarn irresponsible, wasted feelings.

Of course, there are also many married men and women in life can feel other heterosexual ambiguity, if not stopped quickly will lead to disaster.

Ambiguity is a kind of omen that love is about to begin, but also a warning of wrong emotion. Sometimes the feelings between men and women are not all wrapped by love, there is also friendship, friendship above, lovers are not full.

The courtship phase is a key step in the successful transition from friendship to romantic relationship.

That indefinable friendship is a window when one day someone is the first to confess their feelings, feelings can be a logical step into the next step.

Some emotional line is not necessarily ambiguous, ambiguous premise is that two people have good feelings for each other, do not reject, otherwise it can only be called wishful thinking.

Some people don't know how to determine how someone feels about them, and they foolishly think they've met true love, only to find it futile.

In fact, the ambiguity between men and women is easy to judge, most of the three things from the start.

I. ‍ Borrowing clothes and other items from each other during the process of getting along

When the relationship between men and women is in the ambiguous period, they will always borrow some items to enhance their feelings and deepen the bond and connection between each other.

When the weather is cold, if the woman wears thin, the man is willing to take the initiative to lend his clothes to the woman that shows that the feelings between men and women are not simple, at least one side of the heart love. Because only like a person will pay attention to the details, will worry about her cold.

Ordinary friends get along with each other more careless, it is difficult to consider so careful things.

In the same way, when a woman borrows clothes from a man, it shows that she trusts him and wants to be surrounded by his clothes.

This is a unique expression of affection in the ambiguous stage.

The behavior of borrowing clothes during the courtship period indicates that the relationship will soon come to a clear point.

Clothes are close to the skin of the person's body more personal things, ordinary friends will not borrow clothes, only two love each other, will borrow a person, a person willing to give.

Borrowing clothes is only the behavior of the surface, in fact, the real connotation is to borrow warmth. When the weather turns cool, men are willing to give their clothes to women, which means they are willing to use their own body temperature to warm women.

Clothes this kind of object is also exactly a kind of connection between men and women in the ambiguous period, there are also, one after another, two people's feelings will be able to quickly rise.

Two, sad sad, borrow each other's shoulder to rely on

Shoulder means a sense of security and rely on, when a fragile sad time can not scruple to lean on another person's shoulder, that the relationship between the two people is close.

If a woman is sad, a man is willing to lend his shoulder to a woman, that he is serious about the woman's love.

Only when a man really loves a woman, he wants to give her to rely on and protect her, and he can always be inspired in his own desire to protect.

If a woman is willing to lend a man's shoulder, it means that this man is very important in her mind, because women are generally protected. If a woman is willing to give a man a rely on, it can only mean that this man is her heart to love.

And men are good face, if he can show his fragile appearance in front of a woman, that he wants to be together with the woman's determination.

Relying on the shoulder is a very ambiguous very close to the feelings of men and women, once the ambiguous men and women have this body movement, they will appear in the heart of each other's feelings will be subtle changes.

Before that, they may just talk to convey their feelings, but after physical contact, both people will gain a sense of security in the relationship, which is to silently confirm that the other person loves them.

Three, ‍ heart try to borrow time to let each other to accompany themselves

Everyone has a plan and arrangement for their own time. When you want to borrow time with your partner and ask him to accompany you, it shows that you regard him as a very important person.

When he is willing to spend time with you, it proves that he cares about you too. One of my readers, Youyou, shared with me an incident during her courtship with her boyfriend, Da Liu.

At that time, Youyou's boyfriend was very busy at work and worked overtime every night. Youyou once had a cold and a headache and sent him a message asking if she could accompany me. When she finished, Youyou fell asleep. Knowing that he was busy with his work, she was not hopeful.

As a result, he was awakened by the doorbell of his home. Standing at the door, Liu asked Youyou breathlessly if she was better from her cold and if she wanted to go to the hospital for an intravenous drip.

Originally big Liu worried leisurely oneself a person at home so asked for leave with the leader to come over.

Youyou said that it was because of that experience that she was more convinced of Liu's intention to her, so she bravely confessed to Liu.

The way a man manages his time shows how important it is to him.

This is the question of whether the game is more important or the girlfriend is more important.

A man's willingness to spend time with a woman during an affair is a sign of his intentions.

In short, single men and women can rapidly develop their feelings in the ambiguous period, and finally confirm their love. If married men and women find the above three situations, they should pay attention to it, which is the beginning of ambiguous. Don't for a moment of passion, fall into the whirlpool of ambiguity, take the original happy life.