Light up the lighthouse of life, so that the heart is no longer tired

Chatting with friends about a topic, "Why are there people who are always so calm and confident?"

They are mature and calm to deal with the various situations that arise in life, not because of some views of others or trivial words and internal panic doubts about themselves, they are like a vector, both full of strength and clear direction, always moving steadily forward in life.

From the surface, this kind of people seem to be born to know what they want to do, no matter how the outside world changes, any situation, they are able to calmly and steadily make the appropriate decision, the perfect solution to the problem, live a beautiful life.

Careful analysis, calm and confident people have a great characteristic, is a clear and definite outlook on life. They have a clear perception of the purpose and meaning of life, and know "who I am" and "why I am here".

It determines the goal of people's practical activities and the direction of their life path, as well as the value orientation of their behavioral choices and attitude toward life. Life view is an important part of the world view and is subject to the constraints of the world view. Life outlook is mainly reflected through three aspects of life purpose, human ecology and life value - Baidu Encyclopedia

In Pony Song's book "The Top Student in the Circle of Friends", investment genius Mavinya confirms his life purpose at the age of 10 - to become like Warren Buffett.

The slogan often shouted by Luffy in the manga "King of Thieves" is: "I am the man who wants to become the King of Thieves!" (The correct interpretation is to become a man like the King of Thieves)

As the line in "Shaolin Soccer": "If a person does not have a dream, what is the difference with a salted fish?" Born as a human being, why do we need to clarify our outlook on life?

The University says: "Knowing stopping is followed by determination, determination is followed by quietness, and quietness is followed by peace."

In Hu Shih's "What is the Meaning of Life," his childhood friend Zhu Ziping asks Hu Shih, "Xiaoshan, you are a man who studies philosophy. If you raise a wife and feed children like I do, do you think you have been a man for a lifetime?"

In fact, whether it is raising a wife or feeding a child, being a lifelong person does not need to be something that has a specific "meaning"; what really matters is whether you think what you are doing is meaningful. If not, you will be like Zhu Ziping, doubting your life, feeling uneasy about what you are doing, your mind is not quiet and unsettled, and at the end of the year, you find yourself in a muddle, just eating a year's worth of food, up ten pounds of meat, and exhausted.

When you have chosen a goal in life that you think is meaningful, you will "know stop", such as sitting in the clouds, see the summit of the mountain you are climbing, although not "will be the top, a view of the mountains", but in the heart has a direction.

One of the functions of this outlook on life is to erect a lighthouse in the sea of the mind, to light up the front, so that life is no longer confused.

With a goal, there will be small goals, such as "first earn it a hundred million".

Rice is eaten one bite at a time, and water should be drunk one sip at a time. The goal is the direction, but whether it can be achieved in the end is closely related to the steps to achieve the goal.

Goal-oriented, we start to develop a plan, receive feedback in practice, and constantly amend the plan to make the big goal smaller.

When we understand what we want to do in life and know how to do it in reaching our goals, we will often be spoiled and have no regrets, and "know how to stop and then have a decision".

The second function is to make us clear what we should do in the long road of life and know how to do it.

In the matter of reading, many people's biggest problem is "how can I quietly read?"

However, many people just buy a few best-selling books in a hurry at the bookstore, take home and put it on the shelf, the category of the book is unknown, the author of the book is unknown, why do you want to read this book also do not know, the book in the hands of course can not read.

Life is the same, when we do not have a goal, not even a small goal, every day is just a routine work life, in life when encountered a variety of problems, the heart is as chaotic as a big head like a bucket, often by the outside world's influence and act chaotic, certainly not a quiet heart.

Third, a clear view of life can make us have a strong resistance to external interference. This is "fixed and then can be quiet", the wind and thunderstorms do not confuse.

There is a Buddhist term: "light peace", which is divided into two kinds, "light peace of mind" and "light peace of body".

When it comes to "light peace", my greatest practice is the use of sticky notes. We all have the experience that there are so many things to do in a day, so many that we can't remember them, and we often forget what we have to do, and at the end of the day, many things are not done, and it's like a heavy stone in our heart.

But after using the sticky note list to list out all the things you need to do, let the list remember what you need to do for you, you only need to deal with things one by one, and then your heart will be at ease.

The effect of the fourth, peace of mind, is to remove those chaotic interference, lifting the heart of the boulder, which there is the problem of tired heart.

In the fast-paced life now, it's time to stop and ask yourself carefully, explore your outlook on life, and determine a good goal to start again.

Inspirational article 2: May you and I all in their own little world, shining

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Since writing, I have asked myself the same question many times: do I write because I like to write, or because of something else?

So far, it has been many years since I started writing prose to new media, but there is still no standard answer to this question. However, I am very sure of one thing: I enjoy the process of writing, thinking of topics and writing into essays, which used to be a one-person orgy, but now is a group of people's growth.

I am grateful that my words can bring strength and warmth to some people, and I am happy that I have such a hobby that I can keep doing.

A friend once asked me, "How long will you write?

I think, maybe until the moment I can't hold the pen, as long as I still like it, I will not stop writing.

Those who know me, know that besides writing, I also like to draw and play the guitar, which have been my companions for many years and have been my pride growing up.

Sometimes, it takes days to play a piece of music, and it is common for my fingers to be worn out; writing an article also requires me to sit in front of the computer for a long time, often feeling back pain.

But every time, the joy after a work is completed, is the result of the accumulation of all the processes, I enjoy.

Maybe that's called enjoying it.

In their own little world, immersed, intoxicated, glittering.