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Let's create self-control, self-discipline, consistency, true momentum in life

For self grooming, it is necessary to focus on connecting the words with your actions

By Wajiha KhanPublished 4 years ago 3 min read
Let's create self-control, self-discipline, consistency, true momentum in life
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Your words should correlate to your action. It's an important key to connect the word with an action. It enables a person for getting in control, staying in control, and scaling up your life.

Your words define what you say and what you’re going to do. On the other hand, action is what you end up actually doing. It’s what actually ends up happening.

When we don’t have a strong enough connection between word and action, then there is a chance of some mistakes.

The most frequent mistake is that we say we’ll do something, and we don’t end up doing it. We say many tasks but sometimes due to negligence or may be unintentionally we could not able to complete that tasks. So people count it as a mistake. Many habitual things in which there is a chance that it may not be fulfilled but still people claim to do that and when they couldn't complete them, they are accused to not meet their words with actions. Every time we didn't do what we said, we virtually lied to ourselves. It's a kind of dishonesty, and It's hard to take yourself seriously and believe in yourself. In this way, you become skeptical of your ability to control.

Other mistake that could be happened is when we stop using our word at all because sporadically, we discourage ourselves for so many times. We begin to give up and say very depressing words and consider our words and action. Furthermore, we start to quit ourselves and don't want to involve in any matters of life. But it is the biggest mistake of a person.

To tackle with this situation, we should focus on establishing connection between word and action.

To become consistent and proving yourself, make yourselves able to reach your goals, set goals and then achieve them. When people determine their goals and know the destination where they have to reach, then it becomes obvious for them to achieve them. So set the consistent approach and then reach to consistent destiny.

The guidance isn't to be confused with “Just do it” in such a case that we've given ourselves something too testing to even consider doing, then, at that point, “Do what needs to be done” is futile.

Try to give a piece of advice to yourself that you can do it, and then try to focus on conversion the “can do it” words into the “do it” action. If you can't be able to accomplish much, at least try to do partial.Try to practice this advice and be consistent on this practical formula. It will definitely help you to make yourself consistent.

For human being it is little difficult to be consistent all the time, but a little effort surely helps a person to make his or herself consistent.

As you get better at this, you can give yourself more. Then we scale up and groom up more.

Always try to make life simple and don't get yourself in complex life rules. Otherwise it will drag you from your goals of self grooming and consistency.Focus on the lifestyle with the words and actions connections is the main key to create confidence, consistency and momentum in life.

It's a long-term game for a person. Self-consistency and self-grooming take time to establish in human personality. These habits take you all year to establish a good momentum in life.But if you work hard on these elements and improve yourself, you can develop these habits for the rest of your life! Every time we didn't do what we said, we virtually lied to ourselves.

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