8 Signs a Woman Is Getting Old

Have you ever felt that way?

As time goes by, there will always be a moment when you suddenly feel older, or when you have a few fine lines on your face, or when you lose your passion for many things and people.

We are often afraid that the dream has not woken up people already to middle age, a little attention is called "aunt".

But the years are relentless, and confronting aging and aging is a rite of passage for everyone.

Do you have these 8 Signs of Early Aging?

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I like to be alone

When we are young, we love lively, do not want to be stuck at home all day, always want to go out to feel the prosperity of the world.

Holidays and weekends, either with friends to sing K, or with girlfriends shopping and drinking.

At that time we thought, flying carnival outside is not live up to the time.

But as the days passed, we imperceptibly changed, and the willingness to go out weakened with each passing day.

Rare spare always want to stay at home, a person reading, a person cooking, a person watching drama, a person drinking tea......

Many things that used to feel lonely, now are not so quiet, but also a little more quiet and comfortable.

It's true that you don't like to have fun when you're older, but it's also true that you're comfortable spending time alone.

We are more and more like to be alone, enjoy their own dialogue with their own, even quiet daze also deep quiet years.

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The mood swings are down

Since when?

Once felt angry, no longer point the anger in the heart;

Once feel hate people, have already lost the stink that people despise;

And injustices that were once intolerable now seem trivial.

Many events are silent smaller, no longer as before, while crying, while laughing.

Time seems to have planted a tree in our hearts, the growth of rings at the same time, the tree is thriving.

The branches and leaves are more and more thick and lush, and the heart is more and more abundant.

So, we no longer mad for little gains and losses, no longer sad for bad people and bad things.

Mood swings are less, life is more lovely than ever, and there is a charming fragrance everywhere.

These calm and easy, are the gift of time to us!

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Subliminal circle reduction

We often hear that "it's easy to have more friends". When we are young, we believe it and strive to expand our network in the hope that others will help us in the future.

Until time and again to see the indifference of human beings, only to see a cruel truth:

People are unreliable, no matter how close the hot relationship, can not guarantee you a critical moment.

Put expectations on others, will only indulge their laziness, let life into boundless confusion.

As we get older, we subconsciously shrink our circle, stop pandering, stop trying to fit in.

Although the number of friends is decreasing, the quality has been significantly improved, two or three friends, you warm the heart.

Use the rest of your energy to improve yourself and your life. Make yourself strong, and fear no one coming and going.

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More and more concerned about family

Some say:

Everyone has a deeply attached memory about his hometown, each deeply attached, there are parents' exhorts, sprinkled with stars on the roof, but also the wisping smell of oil smoke in the kitchen.

People's attachment to their hometown and parents is deep in the bone marrow.

But when we were young, we were so busy running out that we forgot about our parents and home.

After being beaten by society, he looks back helplessly and finds only his family with him.

The deep connection is awakened, and we care more and more about our families:

A little spare want to call their parents, ask them about the situation;

Brothers and sisters always pay special attention to the dynamic, looking forward to a little more understanding;

I always worry about whether my grandparents are healthy and looking forward to more company.

Women are more emotional, and get along with the family bit by bit, every parting will be long forgotten.

The world is like a knife, everything is unpredictable, only the blood relationship will not be diluted.

When a person realizes the importance of family, it is a sign of her maturity.

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Start saving money

Saving money is the real sober adult.

I used to think that money was just currency and should be used for transactions.

If you like lipstick, you can buy it. Want to eat dinner, want to eat; If you want to take a trip, go.

Spending money is never planned. Once the salary arrives, it is immediately used to satisfy all kinds of desires.

Working year after year, receiving money month after month, the account balance is very small, neither able to deal with emergencies, let alone dare to talk about resignation and dream.

After eating the pain of no money, tasted the helplessness, we finally understand:

Have savings to have confidence and security.

Spending is less reckless, but more rational and planned, spending where you should and saving where you shouldn't.

Looking at the balance gradually rich, the face unconsciously emerge satisfaction and peace of mind.

Even if one day no longer work, life shut down, will no longer worry and panic, still can lie down.

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Dress for simplicity and comfort

I was talking to my best friend a while back, and she said,

"Now often wear a few sets of clothes, basically are simple and comfortable, suddenly do not love those colorful."

I feel the same way about that.

Although there is a wide variety of clothes hanging in the closet, most of them have been put into cold storage, especially the more sophisticated styles.

Somewhere along the line, my favorite clothes unconsciously changed to loose, soft T-shirts or jeans.

Color to black and white gray or khaki, not so bright and dazzling, but appears simple atmosphere.

After experiencing countless trends, we no longer blindly chase fashion, but pay more attention to our own love and experience.

People's aesthetic will follow the mood changes, when the mind continues to mature, without excessive dress can also show confidence style.

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Care more about skin care and health

"Stay up late, wear the most beautiful makeup" is the slogan of most young people.

When we are young, our skin is full of elasticity, our bodies are full of vitality, and we don't care about anything but pleasure.

But time flies, the green leaves will turn yellow, everyone's face will also appear wrinkles.

As we watch our skin sagging, we must face the reality that aging is approaching and accept the loss of collagen.

Anti-wrinkle, light spot has become the most concerned topic, we began to carefully choose suitable skin care products, meticulous care of their skin sooner or later.

Skin care is not always young, only hope that the wind and frost across the traces of a little less, older come later.

In addition to daily skincare, exercise and fitness have also been enhanced, early to bed and early to rise, and a diet focused on light nutrients.

Though less capricious, life becomes regular and rhythmic, and the whole person becomes more energetic.

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Live more freely and freely

Before, we do not understand the sinister people, always nervous to live in the evaluation of others.

In order to cater to others, we dare not laugh, dare not cry, even the feelings of the heart are not easy to reveal.

But now we are different, although the age of the knife in the face left a little trace, but also gave us more power.

We break away from the layers of useless webs, brave to be true to ourselves, and live more freely.

Nod when you like, reject when you resist, praise when you agree, and alienate when you dislike.

We stop worrying about the approval of others and just focus on whether we are happy.

In fact, age is not a woman's most powerful capital, mentality is.

When you complete the project of separation from the outside world, all right and wrong will be as light as a wisp of smoke, silently dissipated in a flash of the fingers.

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Through the long road, we often sigh: "Light and shadow like an arrow of time, a youth turned to miss."

As a woman, especially sensitive to the changes of time, looking at the changes, have to admit that the early old has become a reality.

But don't be sad, the old is not the beginning of the downhill, but a woman really mature starting point.

Faded green and immature, less ignorant, our heart is more assured and quiet.

The past hardships and twists and turns have turned into experience and wealth, paving the way for a smoother road ahead.

If you stop and think about it, you will see:

Originally, the early old age is also a good time!

May we reconcile with age and live the rest of our lives gracefully and calmly.

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~This is Antoine, and I hope you find pleasure in each of my articles~