How to be Successful and get whatever you want?

Everybody wants to be successful. Everyone wants to taste the feeling of being successful at least once in their life. You won't find anyone in this world who doesn't wanna be successful. The definition of "success" can be different for different people.

Some want health, some desire wealth, or some may need happiness to be called successful. This is also no surprise that though everybody wants to be successful, unfortunately, only a handful of them are able to climb that mountain. So, "How to be Successful?" Well, let's get to it.

The Biggest Reason for Failure

There are already millions of reasons for failures, but I am gonna tell you the biggest one and I will also tell you how you can avoid making that mistake.

Now before I proceed, there is this slight roadblock between you and me, that is gonna try its best to stop you from learning anything new here. Wanna know what it is? It's you only. Your own thoughts and preconceived notions are the biggest roadblocks that are hindering you from learning something new.

For so long, we used to believe that the Earth is still, and that it is the Sun that is rising and setting, only to be proven horribly wrong. The point is that if even what we are seeing and perceiving can be absolutely and totally false, then what are your petty little beliefs in front of it.

As long as you hold on to your older beliefs, you may pretend to listen and understand, but you are actually not. One needs to look at something completely unbiasedly, in order to understand what it's actually saying. But we are too quick to judge when we hear something new, based on our previous belief system.

Photo by Etty Fidele on UnsplashSo, whatever advice you may get here, might sound like utter bullshit to you and completely nonsensical. And of course, you are free to take it behind the barn and shoot it in the face. But all I can ask from you is to read it with an open mind.

Now, where was I? Oh yeah, the biggest mistake one makes.

So, the biggest mistake anyone can make is to look at the seeds all day long and pass the judgment that they can never transform into a tree.

If you ask a 4-year-old that whether this tiny-looking minuscule seed can one day become into a huge, gigantic, fruits-bearing tree, then he will straight away yell, "Of course not!"

And she isn't entirely wrong about her answer, since she can argue that this seed is sooo small while the tree is so enormous; the seed has no fruits or flowers, but the tree out there bears tasty fruits and colorful flowers, the seed has no trunk, branches, or roots emerging out of it, unlike a full-blown tree.

Stop Acting Like a 4yr Old

That's what we are doing in life, acting like a 4yr old. We don't actually realize this simple fact that, however immense the stress has become; it was once a teensy tiny minute SEED. Now, while every seed has the potential to eventually become a tree, but not every seed becomes one.

The number one reason being the lack of fertile soil. You can plant as many seeds as you want in a barren land, but it won't yield any results. The point being, just like that seed, we all have the ability and the potential to grow into something we never thought we would.

Never let anyone tell you that you can't grow. And if they do, all you gotta do is laugh. Because you will know that they probably are thinking like that 4-year-old. Now that you all are a seed, what is that fertile soil you need, without which, no matter how much water and sunlight you provide, you will never flourish?

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