How to ALLOW the Universe to help you!

This revelation revealed itself to me a few years ago now. I’ve really had to work on myself, but once I was ready to release all the things/habits/people that no longer served me, I started to see small positive changes happening in my life.

Then a magical thing happened! Because I thanked the universe for the small changes, it started giving me more good stuff!!

And then it literally started to snowball! You know when things start to go wrong, one thing after another and it gets worse and worse and you find yourself in despair, stressing over all the bad things happening, and it’s impossible to see a future that is clear and free of all these troubles.

Well this is what’s happening:

Something goes wrong; you get up late, burn the toast, spill your coffee... grrrr you’re already saying to yourself “Great, I’m going to have a crappy day now...” so you go out and your car won’t start! And you say to yourself “See! This day is just getting worse..”

And then guess what? It does.. you slam the car door shut and run to the bus stop, breaking a heel on your favourite shoes... it starts to rain, and so the day continues, with more negative thoughts followed by negative experiences...

What you think about, you attract. And the more you reaffirm the negative, the more the universe says “ok... if a bad day/worse day is what you’re focusing on, it must be what you want! So, here you go, here’s more of what you’re thinking about...”

Get it yet?

So here’s the “NEWyou”

Get up late... oops! Ok, maybe the universe wants me to put myself into high gear today by giving me a sense of urgency to get up (you know that panic and rush of adrenaline you get when you realise you’ve got half an hour less to get ready?!).

So you say “Yes! I’m ready to use this adrenaline to give me a boost to my day and get more done! Thank you universe for this extra energy, I’ll make this a successful day!”

So guess what happens? Now you suddenly have a smile on your face, hope in your heart, and positive energy in your thoughts.

You smell the toast is done and catch it just in time, and inside you say ‘Yes! Perfect timing!’

You almost spill your coffee but your reactions are on point and you avoid a disaster... your head says ‘Yes! I’m so awesome!’

So calm and happy you go to the car, which won’t start... but you say ‘ok, maybe there’s a reason I have to get the bus today?’

So you accept the detour as you know the universe always has a plan for you. You pop back into grab some trainers, and calmly walk to the bus stop with anticipation of what the universe has planned for your day!

At the bus stop you see someone else that clearly doesn’t normally get the bus, and start chatting to them. You sit next to each other on the bus and during the conversation you realise you can both help each other with a particular situation...

Or, you sit next to a gorgeous guy, who you discover is single. You start chatting and end up arranging a date!

Then your day just gets better and better!

Obviously you need to practice this, and trust me, it’s not easy! We cannot stop the negative thoughts entering our heads, but we can consciously turn those thoughts upside down and kill any negativity before it has any effect on us. If you believe and trust, you will start to see changes immediately.

Just thank the universe and expect more good stuff to come!!

Wishing you all a wonderfully positive day, week and new life!