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How To Control Your Emotions

By Abdullah TariqPublished 3 years ago 3 min read

Once upon a time, in a bustling city, there was a young woman named Maya who struggled to control her emotions. She would get angry at the smallest things and let her emotions control her actions. One day, Maya was in the middle of a heated argument with a coworker when her boss called her into his office. He told her that her behavior was unacceptable and that if she didn't learn to control her emotions, she would be at risk of losing her job.

Maya was devastated. She had always prided herself on being a hard worker, but her emotions were getting in the way of her success. She knew she needed to do something about it, but she didn't know where to start.

Determined to make a change, Maya turned to the internet for answers. She read articles and watched videos about how to control emotions, but nothing seemed to work. Frustrated and feeling hopeless, Maya decided to reach out to a therapist.

The therapist listened intently to Maya's concerns and then offered her some advice. "Emotions are not bad," the therapist said. "In fact, they are an essential part of being human. However, it is how we manage our emotions that makes all the difference."

The therapist explained that emotions are like waves in the ocean. They come and go, but it is up to us to choose how we respond to them. She suggested that Maya practice mindfulness meditation to help her become more aware of her emotions and to develop the ability to respond to them in a healthy way.

Maya was skeptical at first, but she decided to give it a try. She started by practicing mindfulness meditation for just five minutes a day. At first, she found it challenging to focus her mind, but with practice, she found that she was becoming more aware of her emotions and was able to pause before reacting impulsively.

Over time, Maya noticed that her emotions were not controlling her as much as they used to. She was becoming more patient, understanding, and compassionate with herself and others. She also found that she was able to communicate her feelings more effectively, which helped her resolve conflicts in a more constructive way.

One day, Maya was at a social gathering when a friend said something that triggered her. Maya felt anger welling up inside of her, and she knew she had to do something to calm down. She excused herself from the conversation and went outside. She took a few deep breaths and then began to practice mindfulness meditation.

As she focused on her breath, Maya began to notice the sensations in her body. She felt the tension in her shoulders and the heat in her face. Instead of trying to push the emotions away, she acknowledged them and allowed herself to feel them. She noticed that as she did this, the intensity of her emotions began to subside.

When Maya returned to the gathering, she was able to engage in conversation without letting her emotions get the best of her. She felt proud of herself for being able to control her emotions in a challenging situation.

Maya continued to practice mindfulness meditation and other techniques to help her manage her emotions. She also started to read books about emotional intelligence and attended workshops on the topic. She found that the more she learned about emotions, the better she was able to manage them.

Over time, Maya became known for her ability to stay calm in stressful situations. Her coworkers noticed that she was more patient and understanding, and her boss praised her for her improved behavior. Maya felt like a different person, and she knew that it was all thanks to her hard work and dedication to controlling her emotions.

In conclusion, controlling emotions is a journey, not a destination. It requires dedication, patience, and practice. Learning to manage emotions is not about suppressing them, but rather about acknowledging them and responding in a healthy way

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