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Planning Ahead So My Kids Don’t Have to Struggle Later

At 65, I’ve learned that peace of mind comes from being prepared, so my children won’t face stress or debt when I’m no longer here to help.

By Mark BakerPublished 8 months ago 3 min read

At 65, I’ve seen enough to know that life doesn’t always go the way we planned. I worked hard for decades, raised two kids, saved what I could, paid off the house slowly over the years. Retirement isn’t fancy, but it’s peaceful. And more than anything, I want to make sure my children don’t have to scramble or struggle when I’m gone. I’ve buried loved ones before. I know the toll grief takes, and I know how quickly the costs add up sometimes even before the funeral home picks up the phone.

Last year, my neighbor across the street, a good man, Vietnam vet, just a few years older than me passed suddenly from a stroke. He didn’t have anything lined up. His daughter ended up putting the cremation on her credit card, and I could see the weight of it in her face at the service. That really stuck with me.

So I started looking into final expense insurance. Not the kind of thing I’d spent a lot of time thinking about before, but now it felt important. I didn’t want to leave a mess behind. That’s how I came across finalexpensequoter.com. I’d seen the name a few times while browsing, but it was a quiet little site, nothing flashy, just straightforward. Which, honestly, I appreciated.

I figured I’d just take a look and compare final expense quotes, maybe get a ballpark idea of what this would cost me. What surprised me, though, was how simple it all was. I didn’t have to enter a pile of personal details just to get started. No pushy pop-ups or sales gimmicks. Just a clean, simple way to see what I’d be looking at for coverage.

Within a few minutes, I saw a few plans that looked like decent monthly payments I could actually manage, and coverage that made sense for my situation. I didn’t want anything over the top, just enough to cover cremation, a small service, maybe leave a little behind to help with leftover bills. I wasn’t trying to “invest” in anything. I just wanted peace of mind.

After I compared a few plans, someone from the agency called me. I expected the usual hard sell I’ve been around long enough to know how these things go but it wasn’t like that at all. The woman on the phone was calm, soft-spoken, and actually listened. She asked me questions about my health, but nothing invasive. And when I told her I wanted to think it over, she didn’t pressure me. She gave me her direct line and said I could call anytime.

That made an impression on me. These days, everything feels automated and impersonal, but this didn’t. It felt like someone was on the other end who understood what this really meant, not just another policy, but a way of taking care of the people we love when we’re no longer around.

I ended up going with a small whole life policy that doesn’t require a medical exam. Just a few health questions over the phone. It was affordable and permanent, which is what I was after. I’ve had it now for about six months, and everything’s been smooth. No sudden rate hikes, no strange fine print. Just what they promised me from the start.

Now, I’m not saying finalexpensequoter is the only place out there. There are plenty of companies who sell these types of plans. But for me, it came down to trust and simplicity. I don’t need bells and whistles. I need honesty and clarity and that’s what I got.

If you’re like me, getting up there in years and starting to think about how you’ll leave things behind, I’d say it’s worth checking out. Nobody likes to think about the end. But doing a little planning now could spare your family a lot of heartache later. And that, to me, is worth every penny.

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