My Start in Manifesting

When I turned 33 my life took a surprising turn. Up until that point my life had been riddled with trauma. I grew up with alcoholic and addict parents whose neglect caused me to develop a belief that I wasn't worth being loved. And because I held this deep seeded belief, I found myself if a long term abusive and narcissistic relationship that took whatever little good identity I had and teared it to shreds.

But 5 years ago at the age of 33 I managed to find the courage to leave. It was like one day I decided there had to be more to life than this. I was seeing more and more content around narcissism and saw how my relationship was impacting me, and not in a good way. So I left.

I didn't have any kids to think about luckily and even though I didn't have any friends or family that could help me I had connected with a crisis counselor to help me get out and get on my own.

It wasn't too long after that I learned about manifestation, stumbling on books like "The Secret" and others that taught the principles of manifesting.

Fast forward 5 years and my life has dramatically changed. I attribute this to manifesting. Staying consistent in the belief that God or the universe or the higher being has more to give me in this life. I have found a loving partner with whom we bought a house together recently. More importantly I have learned to love myself through this process.

I have found happiness, adventure, laughter, good friends who are like family. I have found freedom. Yet I know my journey has not just been for the sake of me. I want to share what I know to help others also find freedom and courage. Especially middle aged women who feel there is no recovery for your life, I want you to know there is hope - speaking from experience.

So in this blog I will share my experiences. I will share the experiences of friends and fellow manifesters who see results and live the life they desire. Because even though this is a secret, it shouldn't be. I want you to know that no matter how tough life has gotten, ther is a light at the end of the tunnel. You can find happiness.

If you are ready to embark on this journey yourself, if you want to learn more about the principles of manifesting or even if you're wondering if its real, then follow along. I'm not here to make the decision for you, I'm only here to share the principles and techniques that have changed the lives of myself and countless others. And to present to you the real life stories of change so that you may be inspired to achieve the same.

Whenever I wanted something to happen, I manifested it'

-Jim Carrey

Please ask any questions you have, let me know any and all comments as long as they are in the spirit of curiosity and truly wondering about this with an open mind. For now I'll leave with a few of the quotes from one of the greats, Mel Robbins:

Passion is not a thing. It's a state of mind.

You have been assigned this mountain so you can show others that it can be moved.

Every phase of your life and career will require a different you. Using the Rule, you’ll become the person you’re meant to become in this next phase of your life.

It’s okay to be scared. Being scared means you’re about to do something really, really brave.

Small things are not small at all. They are the most important things of all. And they add up.

Signing off, Melissa