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How To Become More Confident in Just 90 Day

A Step-By-Step Guide to Win in Life

By Mathis Raja OfficialPublished 3 years ago 5 min read
How To Become More Confident in Just 90 Day
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Introduction

Confidence is a vital part of life, but it's not something that anyone can just "get." Confidence can be learned and strengthened through building small successes over time. It doesn't happen overnight, but the good news is that we don't have to wait around for the right moment to start building confidence either! If you're ready to boost your self-confidence in just 90 days, keep reading.

Track your goals and achievements.

It's important to track your goals, as well as their achievements. This can be done using a simple Excel spreadsheet or an app like goal-tracking website EverydayHero (which I use). You can also keep track of your progress by writing down key points on paper or in an online journal.

The benefit of tracking your goals is that it allows you to see how well you are doing with each one and what areas need improvement. Tracking also helps motivate yourself because if there's something that needs doing but isn't getting done yet then when the time comes around again next month it will be easier for you because now there are already some things checked off from last year's list!

Give yourself a daily goal.

The next step is to set a daily goal. This might be something as simple as "I will brush my teeth" or "I will meditate for 10 minutes." Just make sure you're setting yourself up for success, rather than failure.

If your goal is brushing your teeth, don't try and do it every morning at 6 am (and then again at 8 pm) if it's making you feel guilty about not accomplishing more during the day. Instead, commit yourself to spending some time each evening on this task—and if that doesn't work out? Don't beat yourself up over it! It's okay if things don't go perfectly every time; sometimes we'll get distracted by other tasks during our day and forget about our goals altogether until later on in the evening when we have more energy left over from our productive activities earlier in the day.

Learn about confidence.

There is no better way to learn about confidence than to simply ask other people. How do they feel when they're in front of an audience? What are their secrets for feeling confident? You can also find great advice online, whether it's in a book or through blogs or websites that focus on confidence strategies.

If you have time and money, consider going on a trip somewhere where there are lots of people who know how to be confident (like an island) so that you can learn from them firsthand—and maybe even pick up some new habits along the way!

If all else fails try joining forums like Quora where experts will help guide your journey towards finding inner peace and inner strength by showing what works best for them personally; but remember: there's no one size fits all formula here--so don't get stuck trying something until it doesn't work anymore because then what happens next might surprise even yourself!

Set attainable goals for yourself.

To become more confident, you need to set attainable goals. These are the things that are challenging but not unrealistic. For example, if you want to start a business in one year and make $100k per year after taxes, it's not going to happen overnight. But if your goal is simply “I will develop an online course by next month” then there's no pressure on yourself whatsoever!

You could achieve this goal by spending an hour or two each day working on your course design until finally coming up with something that works well enough that people would actually buy it (or at least give it a try). Once this happens then all those sleepless nights spent worrying about whether or not people will like what they see won't matter anymore because now there's proof that what started out as just an idea has actually become reality—and all from just 90 days!!

Take control of your destiny and make things happen for you.

You can’t control what other people do, and you can’t control the actions of others.

You can only control yourself and your reactions.

The biggest mistake people make when trying to become more confident is that they try to force themselves into a situation where they need confidence in order to succeed. This isn't how it works! If you want more confidence, then start taking action towards getting it!

Don't compare yourself to others.

You're probably familiar with the saying: "Comparison is the thief of joy." While it's true that comparing yourself to others can make you feel bad, it's also a waste of time. When we look at other people and try to figure out what makes them happy, healthy, successful and so on, we tend to get distracted from our own goals and aspirations.

Instead of comparing yourself to others in your field or industry (or even at home), focus on what makes YOU happy—and then work towards achieving those things!If you are serious about gaining confidence and self-esteem in the next 90 days then start by identifying what would make YOU feel confident right now; then work towards achieving those goals!

Not focusing on what other people think of you is one of the best and fastest ways to increase your confidence.

Not focusing on what other people think of you is one of the best and fastest ways to increase your confidence.

You just need to be yourself and surround yourself with positive people who will support you no matter what!

If you want to learn how to become more confident, then start by focusing on your own happiness first. It’s easy for us all though because we tend to worry about other people’s opinions more than our own. We forget that there are many things that matter more than what others think or say; such as figuring out where we belong in life, making friends who understand us and appreciating ourselves for who we are!

Building confidence with small wins is the best way to grow self-esteem and self-worth over time

One of the most important things you can do to build your confidence is to get started on something small. Small wins are a great way to grow self-esteem and self-worth over time, because they aren’t about being perfect—just better than you were before.

Small wins can be as simple as setting a goal and achieving it.

Conclusion

If you follow these tips and tricks, soon you will feel confident. And when your confidence grows, so does the quality of your life.

You'll be able to accomplish anything that comes your way without having to worry about what others think of you!

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About the Creator

Mathis Raja Official

"Financial enthusiast & affiliate marketer sharing my journey through finance, blogging, & YouTube videos. Helping others make the most of their money & reach financial freedom."

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