How I Found My Soulmate on Coffee Meets Bagel: A Journey from Swipe to Forever

Online dating was something I never thought I would try. The idea of meeting someone through an app or website always felt a bit artificial to me. But as time passed and my busy life made it harder to meet new people, I started thinking maybe I should give it a shot. Little did I know, this decision would lead me to find the love of my life.

The Reluctant Start

It was a quiet evening when I finally decided to create a profile on Coffee Meets Bagel. I had heard about it from a friend, who said it was different from other dating apps. She explained how it wasn’t about swiping endlessly through thousands of profiles, but instead about receiving a curated list of matches. The idea intrigued me—after all, I was looking for something real, not just a fleeting connection. But even then, I wasn’t sure what to expect.

I spent a couple of hours filling out my profile—choosing photos, answering questions, and writing a bio. I made sure to be honest and showcase who I really was, but it still felt strange. "Is anyone even going to like me?" I thought, feeling a bit skeptical. But then, the first notification came. My Bagels (matches) were waiting.

The First Match

Her name was Emily. Her profile picture showed her smiling in front of a sunset, and her bio mentioned her love for hiking, reading, and making homemade pizza. As someone who shared those same passions, I felt a spark of hope. I liked her profile, and soon after, she liked mine back. That was the moment we both had the chance to start a conversation.

The messaging feature on Coffee Meets Bagel isn’t like other dating apps where you can chat with anyone you like. You have to both “like” each other first, which means the connection is more intentional. When she messaged me, I felt a mix of excitement and nervousness. Her first message was simple, but thoughtful: “Hey! I see we both love hiking. Do you have a favorite trail?”

We spent the next several days chatting back and forth, exchanging stories about our hiking adventures and favorite books. Our conversations felt easy, natural, and comfortable. We even talked about the types of pizza we liked to make—mine with extra cheese, hers with all the veggies. It was fun and refreshing.

The First Date

After a week of messaging, we decided to meet in person. We agreed on a cozy coffee shop near a trailhead, perfect for grabbing a drink and then heading out on a hike together. When I walked into the coffee shop, I spotted Emily right away. She was even more beautiful in person, and her smile made me feel instantly at ease.

We spent the next few hours hiking through the woods, sharing stories about our lives, our families, and our dreams. There was something special about the way we connected. It wasn’t rushed, it wasn’t forced. It felt like we had known each other forever. By the end of the hike, I couldn’t believe how much we had in common and how easy it was to be around her.

When we said goodbye, I felt a sense of excitement mixed with a bit of disbelief. Could this really be the beginning of something? I didn’t want to get ahead of myself, but I knew I wanted to see her again.

The Growing Connection

Over the next few weeks, Emily and I went on more hikes, shared dinners, and explored more of the city together. We laughed a lot, had deep conversations, and began to see how much we truly enjoyed each other's company.

One night, while we were walking along the waterfront after dinner, Emily turned to me and said, “I never thought I’d find someone like you on a dating app. But here we are.”

Her words hit me in a way I didn’t expect. I had felt the same way, but hearing her say it made everything feel more real. We didn’t need to rush anything—our connection was strong, and we were both in it for the long haul.

From Coffee Meets Bagel to Forever

Months passed, and our relationship continued to grow. We traveled together, met each other’s families, and celebrated all of the little milestones. I was falling for her more every day. And after a year of being together, I knew with absolute certainty that Emily was the one.

One evening, while we were on another hike—the same trail where we’d met—I took a deep breath and turned to her. “Emily, you’re my best friend, my partner, my soulmate. I can’t imagine my life without you. Will you marry me?”

Her eyes filled with tears as she said yes, and in that moment, I knew that Coffee Meets Bagel had given me more than just a date—it had given me a future.

Reflecting on the Journey

Looking back, it’s incredible how a simple decision to try something new led me to find the love of my life. Coffee Meets Bagel may have been just a dating app, but for me, it was the place where everything changed. It wasn’t about endless swiping or superficial connections; it was about finding someone who shared my values, passions, and dreams.

Online dating might not be for everyone, but for those like me, it’s a powerful tool to meet people who are truly compatible with you. I never would have guessed that my soulmate would be a few clicks away, but sometimes, life surprises you in the best possible way. Thanks to Coffee Meets Bagel, I found my partner, my best friend, and my forever.