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Allowing The Holy Spirit

Allowing the Holy Spirit To Take Control

By Oluwatosin AdesobaPublished 11 months ago 4 min read
Allowing The Holy Spirit
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Allow the Holy Spirit to Take Control — A Deeper Reflection

In our daily walk with God, we often speak of surrender, but what does it truly mean to allow the Holy Spirit to take control? Many believers invite the Holy Spirit into their hearts, yet struggle when it comes to actually letting Him lead. We are often tempted to live according to our own understanding — making decisions based on feelings, logic, or even fear — instead of yielding to the gentle yet powerful guidance of the Spirit.

Who is the Holy Spirit?

The Holy Spirit is God’s presence within us — the very Spirit of God dwelling in the hearts of believers. Jesus promised that after His ascension, the Father would send the Helper, the Comforter, the Spirit of Truth (John 14:16-17). This Spirit is not a distant observer but an intimate guide, empowering us to live holy and purposeful lives.

When we give the Holy Spirit full control, we are not inviting a guest to visit occasionally — we are making room for the King to reign fully in our hearts. It’s an exchange: our will for His will, our weakness for His strength, our confusion for His wisdom.

What Does It Mean to Let the Holy Spirit Take Control?

Daily Surrender

It’s not a one-time prayer; it’s a lifestyle of laying down your plans, desires, and fears at the feet of God.

It’s saying, “Holy Spirit, I trust You more than I trust myself.”

Listening & Obeying

The Holy Spirit speaks — through the Word, through that still small voice, through conviction and even through circumstances.

Allowing Him to take control means being sensitive to His leading and obeying promptly, even when it doesn’t make sense.

Allowing Him to Transform You

The Spirit works from the inside out, shaping our character to reflect Christ.

This means allowing Him to expose and cleanse areas of pride, bitterness, fear, and self-sufficiency.

His goal is to form Christ within you (Galatians 4:19).

Walking by Faith, Not by Sight

Control often feels safer in our hands because we want to predict outcomes.

Allowing the Spirit to lead requires trust — faith that God’s way is better, even if we can’t see the full picture yet.

Romans 8:14 reminds us: “For all who are led by the Spirit of God are the children of God.”

What Happens When the Spirit Takes Control?

✅ You Bear Fruit — The evidence of the Spirit’s control is the fruit of the Spirit: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23). These qualities grow as you surrender.

✅ You Experience Peace Beyond Understanding — Even in trials, there’s an inner calm because the Spirit assures you that God is in control (Philippians 4:7).

✅ You Gain Power for Purpose — The Spirit doesn’t just comfort; He empowers you to live boldly for Christ, to serve, to witness, and to overcome temptation (Acts 1:8).

✅ You See Transformation in Your Life — As you follow the Spirit’s lead, your desires shift, your mindset renews, and your life aligns more with God’s heart.

Why Do We Resist?

Even as believers, we often hesitate to fully let go. Why?

Fear of losing control — We think we know what’s best for our future.

Comfort in the familiar — We prefer routines and predictable outcomes.

Pride — We believe we can manage life on our own.

Yet, scripture reminds us: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight” (Proverbs 3:5-6).

Practical Steps to Allow the Spirit to Take Control

Start your day with surrender — Before you check your phone or plan your schedule, pause and pray:

“Holy Spirit, lead me today. Speak to me and through me. I yield my plans to Your perfect will.”

Invite Him into every decision — Not just big ones, but small ones too. Whether it’s a conversation, a financial decision, or your response to conflict, ask:

“Holy Spirit, how would You have me respond?”

Spend time in the Word and in worship — The Spirit speaks through Scripture, and worship softens your heart to His voice.

Pay attention to conviction — When you feel that gentle nudge warning you about a choice or prompting you to act in kindness, obey quickly.

Trust God with the outcome — Letting go means you release your need to control the results. Trust that God’s plan is good, pleasing, and perfect (Romans 12:2).

The Blessing of Surrender

When we allow the Holy Spirit to take control, we are not losing — we are gaining the fullness of life God intended for us. A life led by the Spirit is a life filled with purpose, power, and peace.

So today, ask yourself:

Have I truly yielded to the Holy Spirit?

Am I holding back areas of my life, or am I fully surrendered?

What would it look like for me to live completely led by the Spirit today?

Prayer:

Holy Spirit, I surrender every part of my life to You — my mind, my heart, my plans, my desires, my fears. Lead me in the way of truth. Teach me to hear Your voice and to trust Your guidance. I let go of control, and I invite You to reign in me completely. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

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