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When things aren't always going the way it should the way you deal with it is what makes it a better experience, during life there is always obstacles that try and stop you from being and living a positive life, life is always full of challenges. Usually these challenges try and stop you from being capable and being the person that you desire to be but when you surround yourself with positivity it usually works out better, you will feel like a light feather inside for awhile but you begin to hear your own voice which fills you up with comfort even during the boring moments of your every day to day life. People will lie, steal , control and stop you from living the dream that you desire and living the life that you deserve to stop you from being better than their own lives. You would be surprised at what people will do to ruin someone else's journey of greatness but when you put your own belief in yourself first your journey becomes successful and then satisfying to the way that you desire it to be. Dedicating your time to the things you love fills your time up with positivity and great things to fill your time and surrounding yourself with positive things and positive people is what helps makes life more rewarding and interesting. During the courses of adult life it isn't always easy to get started and sadly enough you isn't always going to have people who believe in you the way that you believe in yourself. Its hard to live a life that's satisfying when you want to be around the people you thought you once loved trusting the new direction and new journey isn't always easy but when you get the feel of it and practise it after awhile it becomes so natural you wouldn't have it any other way. We can not let people live our own journeys for us we live it for ourselves and once we stop being reliant on them you become reliant you don't rely on anyone else anymore.

Being bored isn't being depressed being bored is just apart of everyone's journey when you begin not to live by your emotions they don't hold you and stop you from doing what you want and becoming what you want. Do you wonder how successful people make it in life they most probably were spent a lot of dedicated time putting in the hard work towards their dreams and goals instead of surrounding and chasing after people who bring them down it is a hard successful road to start with but when you dedicated everything you have to living your life and pursuing your dreams things become achievable and like I said before satisfying. Starting out isn't always easy neither is the finishing line because when you cross the finish line there's still always work to do but if you contribute a couple of hours a day to the things you love things will progress despite the hardship and emotional state trust in your self intuition and keep moving forward no matter what kind of day you have.

Our thoughts try and control our emotions but its ourselves that control our emotions our emotions are controlled by the self discipline we have

in ourselves, discipline is something we inherit and learn along the way trusting in your knowledge and wisdom helps you to gain these skills if your someone who doesn't learn from others but enjoys others company its because you are reliant and independent and later on in life will become reliant on yourself the more you do it the more natural it will become. Self discipline is a good skill to gain especially when you want to live the working life you desire, its more satisfying than relying on others that only want to make a scene in your life or control you so that you don't advance and do better than them. Being committed to the things that you are interested and that you love do take a whole lot of discipline dedicating time and skills to gaining this good habit helps you to advance and grow and come to a point in life were you hope and want to be one day.

Being in control of yourself is the best thing to possibly ever have you are not only in control of yourself you are in control of your own happiness and those in your inner circle or family for that matter. Separating yourself from the people that try and control us is an breakage of emotional attachment at first but when you stay committed and stop procrastinating you start to see the results the key to over coming the final processes to protect your happiness is an emotional rollercoaster but the rewards of being in control are the best ever.

Life doesn't have to always be so boring with negativizes and drama once you separate yourself from that life then you are able to move forward and enjoy your own and those that you choose to surround yourself with those who are of good energies. Good energies are good for confidence and independent striving good energies are always mocked by the negative energies its sad to say good verses bad. Good energies are the way people are meant to live so don't feel bad about the negative stuff in your life as you are choosing to depart from it good energised people that's the way life is supposed to be. In the last 10 years I've been trying to find peace in my life which I have finally found it was not an easy thing to do but being consistent and disciplined really works well to achieve the out comes that you are hoping for.

The more you try to find peace the more obstacles there are trying to stop you from being about a joyous spirit its quite sad now days people use joyous spirits of others to feed on there own down fall sadness because they don't know to do it themselves. Now it sounds harsh to have said that but think of all the times they put you down or hurt you and really receive these tool helping techniques to help you over your struggles that you face when it comes to those you have conflict with.

In general there are obstacles that we go through but its how we handle them that makes a difference during each course of difficulty not only does it make a difference in our lives it makes a difference to those that see us handle them in a different way to how they would handle them.

Obstacles are always there to teach us and grow us to the lessons that are taught through them obstacles try to hold people back but when you remove those obstacles away from your every day to day task and dreams they are then able to be achieved. Not allowing your emotions to hold you back or stop you from doing the things you in your routine is the key to success removing your emotions and your limitations allows everyday to be more rewarding. Not having the support can put the wrong limitations on yourself things and routines just take practise the more you do them the more easier they become along with applying everything else. Once you gain the capacity after doing things for awhile your positive energy starts to flourish and before you nothing else wont even be as hard as it they used to be.

After removing yourself away from the negative energy and situations that you know aren't your own you have time to focus on your positives and to continue to feed those positives. The negative forces and energies try to stop you from seeing the positive energies the negative energies happen to try and stop the good energies from entering into your life completely. I say positive and negative instead of good and bad because it sounds so critical saying it wrong like good and evil and so harsh it sounds and not a very good way to deliver it to you lot reading this book. Learning from other peoples point of view with what the receiver might be thinking when we critic and think were better than every body else even though people have more things and material things doesn't make that better person than everybody else people are better than others in different ways and that's were conflict happens today society is about image and not about the values of a person which can leave that person feeling like they don't belong in this world because of not feeling good all because of peoples opinions and critical ways. Being positive can lead you to being different and come from a different back ground that's where we all need to learn to enjoy the journey you choose to live. It takes practise living and enjoying the journey that you are on because there is a lot of trail and error that will try and take you away from the journey that you are living being on a good path takes a whole lot of courage and fertility to keep going no matter the obstacles and distraction always get back to that journey regardless of what you face. There are a lot of things and people that will try and bring you down but don't let that stop you only you believe in yourself the way you do no one else will.

Happiness comes from deep within your soul happiness is that glow rich feeling in your soul which satisfies you in everything that you do your happiness should be with you through every test and every trail and taking the wisdom and lessons that you have learnt through them to help you through every other moment that you will face through out your day and through out your journey. Its true that your able to be completely be happy all the time but if you only put in the hard yards to make it work when you begin to learn how to do that you wont care the opinions of others and will continue to put you and your loved ones happiness first. { Happiness doesn't just come like that you have to go and do the things you love to get you to the place of happiness and the level of happiness you want to be at it is an un certain road at first I must admit but when you put in the hard yards you are able to live the life that you desire and to achieve the things that you want to achieve. It takes consistency to see results in anything that you do from your normal every day routine to getting up for work and anything from getting up out of bed to see another day of greatness to being a mom and being you. We all may not get it at first but ir takes practise to get things right but even still you are able to learn new things along the way that might involve learning about others around you.

Every day might be the same old routine but there are always new challenges and expectations to fulfil throughout your day but mix things up to set new challenges to experiment together new outcomes for different events.

After all the tension has died down and things are going smoothly try not to start something new and just enjoy the breaks its hard to rest when you start seeing the finish line in things take the advice and just rest and enjoy the rewards. Revisit what you've already done and working on and grow iit instead of beginning something new.

As you get older events change who you are and change your life its important to hold it together because you are still are growing and have many days ahead of you things will seems different at first but when you get a feel of who you are you learn to work with it and embrace in being in control.

Time is really important and the way we use our time is what matters the most is it me or has our days become longer as we grow older its our laziness that gets in the way of how we use our time and sometimes its our emotions without us even knowing it. When we feel all heavy and can't be bothered that's our emotions telling us we need to take a break its not a bad thing to take a break when we need to its a good thing.

Doing things regular takes courage and consistency not being distracted is the opponent of doing great things being committed to your dreams and living the life that your living is a whole new era. Some people don't have the resources to get them to where they desire themselves to be and others well are fortunate to have the tools and resources and some learn the hard way to get them where they are in their journey.

Having a good prospective of the journey you live in is the best way to be and go about your day once you over come the negative energies you can really start living your life and embracing in the good things to that are un folding as you put in the hard yards. When your vision is clearer your belly is cleaner now this could mean your house your health your bank account your cupboards and any other thing that is apart of your journey. Having a clearer vision means that you will be able to have things the way that you desire them to be instead of things just being there having detail and direction to the way things should be and not where they are just sitting. When you have more time on your hands your able to put more energy into your every day life at home Choosing the path that your on is a positive and not a negative do not let anyone else try and make you think the life that you live is a negative people will dish your life or anyone else's that's self made and looks better than there own to make them look better. My out lay of this book is on positive and negative energies and what it might look like from another persons point of view.

The key to staying positive is not judging anyone that doesn't look up to our standard or anyone who is less fortunate than you are not two people are the same but we all go through some sort of struggle its just that some are better at keeping it a secret than others. Some people go wrong with judging people and its only natural to judge a books by its cover but when you put into practise not to judge, you start to meet some amazing people. This planet is made up of people and for every living thing in this planet sadly enough there are a lot of negatives that come with the positives that's just the way that society is in this century. As global warning is happening times are changing really putting on a stand still with our future and careers or even just our daily lives. We all go through change but todays society the world is changing history is replaying for example in Afghanistan, Iraq and even n our own country with affirmations of coiid and its protestors along side of these negative forces in the current world we live in, there are positives with change to poverty and children and families being together for longer addictions being broken and replaced with healthy events and healthy new habits put in place to help and support the sub categories of those who are seeking change and who are still moving forward despite the changes that are going on around them. In life in general there are different areas of interest and of conflict these different areas of interest have positive and negatives but with forces of positive are working together and are pushing back the negatives Its like a negative plus a positive battery generate power to a object the more positives we have or you have in your life generate light and happiness. Happiness is generated from good things and the more you try and fix the negatives with what you can change the rest of the negatives will leave your system. Your system needs to be generated with positives for it to flourish with goodness and rewards from your hardship that you out put into your input. Sometimes we are not able to see some of the future ahead of us but when you understand the concept of something then your able to for see most things and then things will start to work out for you. When your not happy with something you can not proceed and do that one thing that you are not happy with because it ruins the rest of your day and sometimes even weeks until your happy and do something about the one thing that will change and satisfy you to your true inner happiness. When you surround yourself with positive energy you strive better and do better there's only room for positive energies once you really get the flow of that positive vibe flowing through your atmosphere you wouldn't have it any other way. Moving towards positive energies can be scary at first but when you move slowly it works in nice and slow to a pace that you are able to relate to and work with. Some people don't relies what that some people don't experience negative forces in there positive energies and forces in there life and haven't had to experience a hardship time lets not be hating on the club now good on them for living a safe and provided lifestyle there parents would have had to put in the hard yards to provide it for them its not all so easy when you come to think about it. Keeping your lifestyle fresh and clean from dramatic situations is possible it starts with putting yourself first and investing time alone and re thinking the type of company you spend your time with if someone is bad news that's a sign to spend less time with them because they might just bring trouble with them. Its been awhile since I had to think about this one lately I don't have to think I just listen to the first conversation and body language then I can usually pick up what they have to bring to our friendship or what values I can connect with I've learnt not to judge so instead I have put these things in place to save a little mess here and there. Learning not to judge has really helped me to make new connections with like minded people and it helps not to be isolated.

People are meant to connect not to keep isolated from one another were just separated into different categories because of our characters and personalities which stop us from connecting with different types of people. Being comforter able in your own skin helps you to relate well to others the key is if you have baggage don't share that baggage all the time most people strive on positivity and don't wont to here peoples negativity or negative stuff in their trunk. Negative and positives come in different forms of inputs and outputs its kind of refreshing to see and here it from different angles One thing I have learnt is that when there is hardship there are positives and finish lines of all the things that you've been working on but don't get caught in the moment where you forgot to see the completion of your hard work and efforts. The key to not focusing on your struggles is to focus your attention on someone else and just be willing to listen, take breaks and be productive in something else keeping on top of other things keeps the doctor away when you have a good balance in all areas of your life. Its hard getting used to the good journey that your on with the goodness of that vibrant ness that's within yourself sometimes it almost feels like your empty inside but if its all glowing and rich then its defiantly good. When you work with the goodness of that new vibrant feeling of positivity keep working with it and not against it keep that peace within you and stay committed to focusing on you and your loved ones staying focused becomes so natural and easy after awhile and wont even take much effort after awhile. Things will work out for your good and happen for you when you learn to get past the negative forces for yourself and not others when you do it for yourself your true inner happiness comes to surface and you will learn how to stay that positive person around other people. It gets easier to maintain the positive vibes once you put it into practise just like anything else you get better at practising the things you love, it takes time to get it right but even still you are always learning.

So let me leave you with this friends stay positive, stay committed even when things aren't working where've all l heard this before life is to short to mopping around there's always time and room for things to become better. So every day get up with a fresh cup of coffee and start every day brand new with a plan and a good routine to get your through the day.

Zoolander

Written by

Kelie Howard.