Will My Ex Boyfriend Regret Leaving Me (Will He Ever Regret Breaking Up With Me)

Do you want to make your ex boyfriend miserable? Do you wish he was feeling some of the unrelenting emotional pain you are? It's so difficult when you've been dumped by a man you love and you suspect that he's moved on with his life without so much as a second thought to you. You're frustrated, sad and angry over this. All you really want is for him to regret the break up and beg you to come back to him. It can't be that hard to make that happen, can it? It's actually not. You can make your ex feel just as miserable as he's made you feel and all the while he'll start wishing he had you back.

The first, and arguably most important step to make your ex boyfriend miserable is to dump him too. You're likely wondering how this is even possible given the fact that he's already broken up with you. Your boyfriend has enough emotional insight to know that you're the one in pain right now. He likely knows that if he called you up and told you to come over, you'd break a speed record getting there. He knows you're desperate and he knows you want him back. Your first goal is to prove him wrong.

Gather yourself, put away the tears, dress in an incredibly hot outfit and call him up. Ask him to meet you. When that happens arrive a few minutes late so you can make an entrance. Be cordial to him but not affectionate. Ask how he is, make a bit of small talk and then you're going to emotionally slap him. Tell him that you asked him to meet you so you could thank him for the break up. He won't know what hit him. Explain that you've given things a lot of thought and you realize now what a good decision it was. Don't explain beyond that. Just wish him well and walk away. In one full swoop you've just made him feel the same unrelenting sense of rejection you feel.

The next part of your plan to get him to ache for you is to stop talking to him. Forget his phone number and delete his email address. Don't reach out to him in any way for a few weeks. Instead, start living your life again. Go out, have fun, smile and laugh. Do the things you've missed doing. Flirt a bit with other men, go to the spa or do some volunteer work. Do anything it takes to start enjoying your life again.

Once your ex hears about your behavior, he'll be saddened. He'll realize that you've moved on and all chance he had with you might be slipping away for good. Once that happens, expect a deluge of phone calls and text messages. The moment a man realizes that he can no longer have a woman, he wants her. So become someone who is just out of his reach and he won't be able to stop thinking about you.

How to Get Back Your Ex Boyfriend in 5 Steps

It won't be simple for your ex boyfriend and you to get back together after a break up. Fortunately, it is not the end of the road for you as there are ways to go about it. Break ups happened to us at one time in our life but don't just take out the full blame on yourself. No one ever started their first date with a step-by-step training manual that teaches on how to manage a break up. Much less on how to get back lost love after a break up. The following 5 simple steps will help you achieve your objective of getting back your ex boyfriend:

Step 1 - Purge every negative thought. It will aid your ex boyfriend and you to become leveled headed. Stop feeling pity for yourself and have the will to be strong.

Don't allow your emotion especially depression get the better of you. If you can't keep a clear mind and maintain a balance emotion, you can't achieve your goal.

Step 2 - Accept the break up. Wishful thinking isn't going to let you time travel back to the past and change things over. There is no point in allowing your mind to wander back into old times.

Now is the time to concentrate on what is going on and let go of the past relationship. As you start to realize that the relationship wasn't perfect in the first place, you are going in the right path. Thus, paving the groundwork for your ex boyfriend and you to get back together. You may have most likely sugar coated all the unpleasant things that happened. Since the relationship didn't break down overnight, don't expect to be able to repair it in a short time.

Step 3 - Don't disturb your ex boyfriend. Guys especially ex boyfriends just hate it when girls obsess over them. You may feel the need to see his face or hear his voice as a means to seek relieve but if you seriously want him back, you need to cool off for a while. Never call him constantly, text messaging, emailing, go see him at his place or where he hangs out. Provide him with ample time to actually miss you and realize what a big mistake he had made. If you mess up this step, it will be much harder to get him back.

Step 4 - Change yourself for the better. If possible, invest in yourself on some trendy outfit, new makeup and a different hairstyle. Lose the pounds you picked up and change your dieting habits to healthy food. Once you look good on the outside, you will also start to feel better about yourself on the inside. As you feel better inside, you will be happier and more confident. While you are happier and more confident, the people around you will perceive this new image of you. Everyone including your ex boyfriend will notice this quality in you.

Step 5 - Take it slowly. At some point, your ex boyfriend will mostly likely contact you if you had acted on all the first 4 steps. Picture his astonish face when he sees the "improved" you. This will make him regret breaking up with you in first place. If you do meet him, maintain a minimum of physical contact with him.

After seeing you have become happy, confident and looking good, you will make him want you more. At this point, it will only drive up his desire for you if you minimize physical contact with him. This will probably help ensure that you don't jump back into a relationship only to break up a short time later.

Following through these steps will not be easy to do in the beginning. You may be tempted to call him or see him but you have to stand firm. These steps will help you get back your ex boyfriend.

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