Why Is It Hard To Trust Someone?

I think the issue of trust is one of the biggest problems of our time. People have problems of trust both in their daily lives and in their private relationships. So why did this happen? Has there been a change? Or did we come to this situation because anyone can easily learn about a situation that already exists? Maybe that's all, we don't know. Why is it so hard to trust someone? The question may actually turn on different lights in everyone's minds. Some may respond by being influenced by their private life and some by their business life. In this article, I will focus on the reasons, which, in my opinion, are two main factors. The first of these is the idea that humans are inherently insecure, and the other is the loss of trust with the effect of technological developments. Now, let's examine these situations under some headings.

It's Hard To Trust Someone Because He's Human!

In the Far East culture, there is a belief called Yin Yang, that is, the balance of good and evil. Frankly, although I do not dwell on this subject in detail, it is believed that life continues mainly thanks to this balance. Differentiation from one side affects the whole life.

Just like this logic, I think people are born with a sense of trust and distrust. Of course, there is also the scientific dimension. I don't think I need to mention that you will not look at it scientifically while reading this article. It's hard to trust someone because when I say they are human, what I really mean is that even someone who says 100% trust me or people trust you can let you down. Think about it, has there ever been someone in your life that you trust and say that you would never do that? Of course it has been or will be. In this case, I will have explained better what I mean since you actually learned this by experience.

Isn't trust an issue that everyone cares about, especially in relationships? You meet someone, he says trust me and you say he trusts you… You say, but on the one hand, you think to yourself “what if you go away one day”. In fact, you take this feeling one step further and say to the person you love, "I'm afraid of this, I mean, I'm afraid that one day you will leave me...". He or she will probably reply to you with sentences such as "Don't be silly or is it okay...". Not long after, life puts a test on you, and the person who says those words in the slightest distress leaves you first... Because he is a human and has insecurity. It is impossible to trust, even an angel, especially if it is supported by selfishness. In short, everyone wants to trust someone, but he carries with him the possibility that that trust will fail. For this, I say be careful while trusting the people you will take into your life. Especially in this period, the loss of trust supported by financial or career-based selfishness is quite high. In short, when someone says "trust me" to you, think again.

Has Technology Made Trust Difficult?

You can trust someone and say "what's up with technology". However, it's pretty relevant to me. Were there any murders or breaches of trust before? Or has it multiplied today? I think the situation is that there used to be a lot of similar incidents, but it was unheard of. In this case, he could trust everyone blindly because people did not know. As technology began to be used, news or daily events came to the fore more. In fact, when two people were fighting, someone took a video and put it on the internet. When we look at it in this context, I think technology has damaged the sense of trust a lot...

Especially the use of social media has shaken the foundations of many relationships. It has become controversial because of the use of social media by men or women. Especially if you are with a selfish person, your job becomes very difficult in this situation. It's okay when he likes a picture, but when his partner likes it, the discussion of the day begins. Selfishness and jealousy go together and the result is insecurity. Of course, there are differences as a result. Take a look around, there are so many divorced couples that the courts can hardly keep up. Because the concept of family is almost non-existent. Everyone is after the freedom that is not there, but they are not aware that man has not been free since creation.

I could write for hours on this topic. I'm a writer, I don't know if anyone can read. Because the truth hurts and not everyone can handle it. I mean, even though it's really hard to trust someone, try to trust a little bit. Because unfortunately, for happiness we have to rely on something, even if it is not human...

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