Humans logo

Why do people have sex?

Sexual life

By Md. Rasel AhmedPublished 9 months ago 5 min read

Sex has become a more discussed topic around the world recently than at any other time. Sex is also called a basic human need. If a person's sex or sex is interrupted, it affects the person's creativity, fluency and even health. Sexual intercourse brings a feeling of happiness in married life The relationship is so sweet that the husband and wife can not leave each other In a word, healthy normal physical relations are the key to the happiness of married life People usually engage in sex for three reasons: to have children, to satisfy sexual appetite, and to maintain good relationships. But there are many other reasons behind sex. For example, overcoming depression, exercise, curiosity, or attraction and love for a partner, increasing social status, selfishness, etc. Another special reason is ancestral sexual culture. Which we have been carrying in our brains since ancient times. Physical needs are the biggest reason. Because secondary sexual characteristics develop in the body during adolescence. At this time, teenagers want to know many things. At this time, they are not only encouraged by the changes in their bodies, but also curious about the changes that are happening in the opposite sex. Which makes them interested in their future sex life and it continues to grow day by day.

Marriage is a social bond that socially and religiously allows physical relations. The practice of living together is widely practiced in Western countries. Due to the decline of social values, examples of this practice have emerged in our country these days, but it is socially accepted. The so-called living together is not recognized in our country's society. As a result, this relationship is considered as an illegal premarital sexual relationship. Physical relations before marriage are prohibited in all religions of the world. There are strict prohibitions in this regard. Even severe punishments are prescribed for those who do this. There must be a reason behind this provision. And the reason is to keep themselves away from social, religious and mental degradation. There are many men in our society who develop love relationships only for the purpose of enjoying a woman's body and do not want to take responsibility for the relationship once the work is done. It is not that women do not do this too, but the number of such women is comparatively less. The fear is that these days many young girls consider this type of physical relationship to be modern. However, the problems that arise as a result of physical relations before marriage are faced by women! The bottom line is that physical relations before marriage can put women at risk and can lead to various serious problems in their lives. So be careful and know about the unwanted problems. Unwanted pregnancy: The most terrible problem that can arise from physical relations before marriage is unwanted pregnancy. Lack of prior planning for contraception, sudden sexual intercourse due to emotion, etc. are some of the reasons for this. Girls usually bear the marks of physical relations. Whether a girl has had physical relations or not can be detected through medical tests, but boys cannot. Similarly, only girls have to go through all the problems of pregnancy. As a result, women have to feel guilty towards their family, society and themselves. Risky abortion: If you get pregnant as a result of physical relations before marriage, then there is no other option but to have an abortion. Abortion is a risky process. In addition to physical damage, you also have to face mental damage. There can be various physical problems during an abortion, including excessive bleeding. It also has long-term side effects. Such as problems with later pregnancy or inability to conceive, etc. If an abortion occurs before the birth of the first child, problems with later pregnancy often occur. The psychological damage of an abortion is also not small. Many people become mentally disturbed after losing a child. Many even become deranged. Birth control pills and other risks: Many people take birth control pills or other drugs due to physical relations before marriage. Continuously taking birth control pills can prevent unwanted pregnancies, but it can also lead to serious problems. One of these is the loss of the ability to have children. Taking pills for a long time before the birth of the first child can be risky for later pregnancy, and there may be repeated miscarriage problems. In addition, problems such as hormonal problems, obesity, reluctance to eat, inability to produce children, etc. can also occur. Risk of engaging in physical relations at an early age: From adolescence, adolescents develop an attraction to physical matters. As a result, they tend to engage in physical relations without thinking about love. But the consequences of physical relations at an immature age can be fatal. This can result in sexually transmitted infections and all kinds of terrible diseases like cancer. Young girls are especially at risk. The risk of cervical infection and cervical cancer is highest. Psychological fear: Physical relations before marriage means having sexual relations for the first time. In the context of our country, this act is done secretly by lovers, which later becomes a cause of mental fear or distress for a woman. Especially in many cases, lovers put pressure on their underage lovers to have sex. Later, when the relationship breaks down, this puts such mental pressure on many girls, which gradually takes the form of distress. Such as reluctance or fear of physical relations, fear of marriage, hatred or fear of men, etc. As a result, just as a love relationship can break down, so can a marriage relationship. Problems in marriage after marriage: Having physical relations with a lover before marriage can lead to various problems in married life. Women are the object of their husband's infidelity. Even if they are married to their lover, he can make various accusations and doubt their character. During a quarrel, they may say in words that since they had physical relations with him before marriage, they may have had many others. In short, a woman may have to hear various harsh words at every stage of marriage. Loss of attraction in marriage: Many love relationships end in marriage. Since they have physical relations with their husbands even before marriage, many people may lose attraction in their married life. The marriage relationship may sound like a breakup because the husband and wife do not get anything new from each other. Many people get involved in physical relations after completing the engagement or exchanging rings, thinking that a strong bond has been formed. After engagement, there is a risk of marriage breaking up, along with the fear of losing marital attraction. Social humiliation: If the physical relationship before marriage becomes known, women become victims of various humiliations and gossip. Society sees her as a criminal. Her life becomes toxic. If an unwanted pregnancy is discovered and it becomes known, the results are terrible. The girl is socially humiliated.

breakupsdatingdivorcefamilyfriendshiphumanityhumormarriagesciencesingle

About the Creator

Md. Rasel Ahmed

Reader insights

Be the first to share your insights about this piece.

How does it work?

Add your insights

Comments

There are no comments for this story

Be the first to respond and start the conversation.

Sign in to comment

    Find us on social media

    Miscellaneous links

    • Explore
    • Contact
    • Privacy Policy
    • Terms of Use
    • Support

    © 2026 Creatd, Inc. All Rights Reserved.