WHO IS A FRIEND?

A friend is someone we turn to when our spirits need a lift..

A friend is someone you have conversations that lifts your mood and your spirit with..

A friend is someone that would go out of his/her way to make you feel better

A friend is everything one could ask for..

A friend is a person who makes the world we live in a better place.

What is the biblical definition of a friend?

In a biblical context, a friend is someone who demonstrates loyalty, affection, and mutual respect, offering support and encouragement, especially during difficult times, and is willing to lay down their life for their friend.

In the Bible, a friend is characterized by unwavering loyalty, self-sacrificial love, and a willingness to stand by someone through thick and thin, as exemplified in verses like Proverbs 17:17 and John 15:13.

What is a friend likened to?

A friend is often likened to a comrade, pal, buddy, or confidante, someone you trust and enjoy spending time with, and who provides support and companionship.

can you come to think of a life without a friend?... no right? we all need friends, even if it is just one person , we all have that one person we call a bestie, best buddy yeah, someone that you laugh genuinely with, a person you don't have to hide your feelings from, someone that you cry with without being judged, someone that has your back no matter what, corrects you when you are wrong... though misunderstanding arises and things threatens to fall apart or life just happens, it takes only true friendship to stand and go through everything that threatens to split your beautiful friendship.

real friendship lasts a lifetime.

We don't talk about this enough, it's said that a lonely person tends to die faster.. so we all need a friend.

moving on...

HOW TO KNOW WHO IS TRULY YOUR FRIEND?

let's dive into characteristics of a true friend

a true friend is loyal, trustworthy, honest, empathetic and understanding, supportive and encouraging, has a forgiving spirit, shares interests and values.

so we are going to pick it one after the other..

1. Loyalty

Loyalty means standing by each other even when times are tough. A loyal friend does not abandon you during hardships but instead remains a source of unwavering support.

2. Trustworthiness

Trust is the foundation of any strong friendship. A true friend is someone you can confide in without fear of betrayal. They respect your secrets and never use them against you.

3. Honesty

A true friend tells you the truth, even when it is difficult to hear. They provide honest feedback, not to hurt you, but to help you grow and improve.

4. Empathy and Understanding

Friendship is built on emotional connection. A good friend understands your struggles and joys, often sensing your feelings without you having to say a word.

5. Support and Encouragement

Life is full of ups and downs, and a true friend is always there to lift you up. They encourage your dreams, offer motivation, and stand by you even when you doubt yourself.

6. Forgiveness

No one is perfect, and conflicts are inevitable in any relationship. True friendship involves forgiveness and moving past mistakes rather than holding grudges.

7. Shared Interests and Values

While differences can exist, strong friendships often thrive on shared values, interests, and experiences. These commonalities create a deeper connection and understanding.

stay with me now, let's look at the different types of friendships

The Different Types of Friendships

Friendships come in many forms, each playing a unique role in our lives. Here are some types of friends you may encounter:

1. Childhood Friends

These are the friends we grow up with, often forming bonds during our early years. They hold a special place in our hearts because they have witnessed our growth and changes.

2. Work Friends

Colleagues can become good friends, providing support and companionship in the workplace. These friendships can help reduce stress and create a more positive work environment.

3. Online Friends

With the rise of social media and digital With the rise of social media and digital communication, online friendships have become more common. While these friends may not be physically present, they can still offer meaningful support and companionship.

4. Best Friends

A best friend is someone with whom you share a deep and unbreakable bond. They are the ones you turn to in times of need and the ones who know you better than anyone else.

5. Seasonal Friends

Some friendships are temporary, lasting only for a specific phase of life. While they may not be permanent, these connections still add value to our journey.

The Impact of Friendship on Mental and Emotional Well-being

Having strong friendships positively impacts our mental and emotional health. Studies show that people with close friendships tend to be happier, less stressed, and more resilient in the face of challenges. Good friends provide emotional support, reduce feelings of loneliness, and contribute to a sense of belonging.

Conversely, toxic friendships, those filled with manipulation, jealousy, or negativity can harm our well-being. It is essential to recognize unhealthy relationships and set boundaries when necessary.

How to Be a Good Friend

Just as we seek good friends, we must also strive to be good friends ourselves. Here are some ways to strengthen your friendships:

- Be a good listener: Pay attention when your friends talk, and show genuine interest in their thoughts and feelings.. don't always be the talkative, psychology proves that people tend to get closer and find comfort in who listens to them the most.

- Show appreciation: Express gratitude for their presence in your life, you might say.. ''oh I'm not touchy feely''.. but try the little things matter, don't always be on the receiving end, show some appreciation today.

- Be reliable: Keep your promises and be there when they need you.

- Offer support: Celebrate their achievements and stand by them during difficult times.

- Respect boundaries: Every individual has different needs; respecting them strengthens friendships.

- Do not criticize, do not look down on them, respect your decisions and opinions and do not try to force your opinion on them.

Conclusion

Friendship is a priceless treasure that enriches our lives in countless ways. A true friend is someone who stands by you, supports you, and brings joy to your journey. While friendships require effort and commitment, the rewards they bring make them one of the most valuable relationships in life. Whether old or new, friendships should be nurtured with love, trust, and sincerity. After all, life is better when shared with good friends. appreciate that friend today.