Whether two people are suitable, three things are enough to prove

The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of time and money.

It's not that marriage is too difficult, but that there are too few suitable people.

Want to know whether the two are suitable, three things are enough, the sooner you see through, the sooner you know how to respect and understand, not love, but if not suitable enough, rather than a little earlier to fulfill and let go, is also a relief and gentle encounter.

First, the worst emotions, the two can still tolerate and accommodate each other, not a party's excessive humility and understanding, but the tolerance and understanding of both sides, there must be a mutual tenderness and patience.

Secondly, when encountering the resistance of reality, whether they can still respect and understand, that is, whether there is basic maintenance of feelings, moderate aside from the temptation and baptism of reality.

Third, in the face of third-party temptation and testimony, one can have minimum discernment and stubbornness, and still, guard the initial love and affection.

The person who is suitable for a lifetime together, not too perfect, but certainly enough to fit your personality and preferences, but also to match your conditions and habits, not humble catering, but just the right meeting, just the right adaptation, and coordination.

Too deliberate love, it is difficult to get along for a long time, but also easy to encounter things after the exposure of aggression and inferiority complex, only an evenly matched encounter, it is possible to fate witnessed happiness.

Three things are enough to prove whether two people are suitable or not

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When the worst emotions, can still tolerate each other

Emotions are the most important thing in life, no matter how mature you are, no matter how stable and sensible you are, as long as you live in this ordinary world, the people and things around you are inevitably affected and tainted and finally grow emotions is a fact, is that these conditions, the two have no mutual tolerance is the test and proof of love.

Many lovers are in love, everything is very good, also very complete and romantic, but they think things are too simple, never happen what dispute on the judgment of happiness is destined, as well as a happy must, this is possible? There will certainly be loss and regret, and there will be the result of sadness and tragedy, not alarmist, but the truth is inherently cruel and worth every person knowing and seeing through.

The worse the emotions, the more test the lover's patience and tenderness, as well as sincerity and depth of love, whether they are willing to restrain their emotions to love someone, to be able to control their temperament and habits to love someone, this is a very remarkable and serious thing, perhaps that one or two arguments and coldness, enough to drive away the original happiness, or away from the marriage that belongs to you.

The worst emotions, but also the most can witness who is your fortune, who is your life clouds, and how to choose, all depending on the heart of perception.

02]

Meet the reality of resistance, with or without understanding and respect

The more you unravel the mystery and treat it frankly, the more you can see where your happiness is, for example, two people talking about love does not hurt, once landed in actual life, there will always be this or that bad situation, always inevitably sad situation, not you are not good enough, not the other party is not cute, but you are in the reality of things is lack of thought and consideration. Relaxed to take into account and thorough, but also the lack of rational choice.

In the actual life of a person, for example, you will not think and take into account, even the emotional instead of rational weighing, and then every time deep understanding and familiarity may be a brutal slaughter of yourself. It is a cruel slaughter of their own.

The more emotional the choice, the more difficult it is to live in peace and stability, the more impulsive the love, the more difficult it is to maintain and continue in familiarity, not afraid of the friction of true love, but from the beginning of the lack of rational selection and recognition, must go through pain and hardening is the truth.

When the reality of helplessness comes, the real people for you will still know, will maintain respect, even if the heart some can not accept and recognition, still willing to give you tolerance and understanding based on love, in the name of love to accept all the reality of the tragedy.

The beginning of love is the feeling of enabling, and the end of love is the reality and reason of the game and confrontation.

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The temptation or test of a third party

Here the third party, can be the opposite sex, can also be the same sex, and even can be loved ones and career, more can be interests and personality traits.

There is a particularly amusing story, thought-provoking, and comprehension, the story of the boy and girl is a friend matchmaking, but when the girl took the initiative to find the boy dating, but found that the boy was preoccupied with the busy care of his flowers and trees and grass, there is no time to take care of the girl's visit, the two in their world focused on about three hours, which is the girl's greatest regret and helplessness.

Other girls, perhaps half an hour to leave, and even no longer have any contact and association, but this girl is very ideas and perseverant, has to figure out what kind of person he is, only willing to give up.

Later, I learned that the boy is not in love, but slow, and particularly calm and slow, he does not easily accept the opposite sex but also does not like to share too much time and energy in the interaction of the opposite sex, if there is a fate, there will be a natural development, if not, the natural will go apart and parallel.

And the girl on the side of understanding him, but also happy to patiently accompany and wait, and finally there is a marriage facilitated, this love also thanks to the boy's friends set up and help, which explains a lot of stories and personality, but also to dispel the girl's most basic misunderstandings and worries.

There are many third parties between them, however, the pros and cons are half, for example, their intermediaries are both enabling and helping, or a kind of buffer and lubrication, while the flowers and trees raised by the boy are third parties with seductive power, may well be the key to collapse, may also be the cornerstone of the romance that leads to marriage, the key lies in how the girl knows his mind through just the right way.

The real suitable men and women, there will always know and understand, there will always be tolerance and understanding, or sooner or later, there will always be the ultimate acceptance and recognition, and appreciation and companionship.