The biggest lie in the world: the children who know how to eat candy

The phrase we heard most often as children were "Can you understand something?". It seems that children who know how to behave will be loved and achieve more. But is that true?

It's good to know how to behave, but it can also lead to a gradual loss of the ability to say "I want to, I don't want to, I'm sad".

I remember when I was a child, as long as there were children at home, I had to pretend to share the toys that I could not give up. Sometimes, the visiting friends love it and we all have fun playing with it.

But more often than not, they do not care, throwing their toys around, is considered by adults to have a personality, they complain a few words but are considered "petty".

Because the family is poor, when they see a roadside snack or a toy, they crave it, but they don't dare to show their mother a little desire. Occasionally the courage to raise the want, the mother's first reaction is to ask the price, as long as the price is slightly expensive, the probability is also hopeless.

Even after growing up, when faced with what you want, the first thing you consider is not how hard you can get it, but how much it will cost. The love of life is slowly wearing off, and hobbies are disappearing.

People who know how to do things one day do not know how to do things, they will make others think unreasonably.

The first of these was the founding father of the United States - Franklin, who had opened a new and brilliant page for the newborn United States in politics and diplomacy, but even such a person, he was troubled by the "know-it-all" as a child.

Franklin showed amazing talent as a child, and his elders always thought he would become an accomplished scholar. For Franklin to achieve more, his father asked him to help his older brother, John, publish a newspaper.

In the beginning, John always hoped that Franklin would "know how to do things" and obey his arrangements, so Franklin kept doing odd jobs like delivering newspapers.

As the newspaper became bigger, many gentlemen came to the printing room. The company's main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public.

But Franklin was afraid that his brother would not publish it if he knew it was written by him, so he found a way to change his handwriting and wrote an anonymous article and put it at the door of the printing house.

The next morning, John found the article and was very complimentary and gave it to those contributor friends. They read the article and agreed that it was written by a learned scholar, and Franklin was very happy to hear it.

It was encouraged by this that Franklin handed several articles to the printer, in the same way, all of which were unanimously approved by everyone.

One day, Franklin admitted what he had done, and everyone was impressed with Franklin. Only his brother John, worried that he was blind, criticized. Franklin was naturally angry and argued with his brother, and the brothers turned against each other for years.

Franklin has always been understanding in front of his brother, so when he ever disobeys his brother, he is considered unreasonable by his brother.

It is more important to know yourself than to know things.

People who know how to do things always don't want to bother others and are afraid they will pass on negative energy to others, but people and their energy flow, and only by communicating with people can we allow positive energy to replace negative energy. Knowing how to heal yourself is far more important than knowing how to do things. Because we all need to get out of the funk.

Knowing how to behave is not about not bothering your friends, but knowing how to ask for help appropriately. A trustworthy friend is better than a million friends. To be a responsible adult is first and foremost to work hand in hand with people and face life head-on.

May all the people in the world who know how to do things, know themselves.