The #1 Reason He Doesn’t Treat You Like A Priority Anymore

As soon as he begins to push you away, you know.

It’s tangible.

He gives you no attention. His hugs are icy. Without you, he creates plans for himself.

When it happens, terror sets in.

He is leaving you. You are aware of it.

To save your relationship, you must take action.

Bring him back to you immediately. You must demonstrate to him all that he is missing by being without you.

As you get moving, thinking of surprises for him, sending enticing texts, and attempting to hide any signs of desperation…

You never even notice that you’re pushing him away.

Dance of Intimacy and Distance

If we could constantly be near the person we love, it would be amazing.

We wouldn’t argue. We would never feel apart.

We would constantly feel close and bonded.

But intimacy doesn’t function that way.

A dance is more akin to intimacy.

You’re encircled in each other’s arms at times. You could occasionally be on the other side of the dance floor. You move constantly — together, afar, together, apart…

However, it doesn’t seem like a part of the dance when the person you love drifts away.

It appears as though he is leaving.

It seems as though he is no longer in love with you.

He appears to not want to be with you.

Furthermore, you can’t rely on the dance to bring him back to you.

You want to halt the dance, go up to him, and re-encircle yourself in his arms.

You can’t, though.

Considering that you don’t want to force him to return to you.

Due to his love for you and inability to live without you, you want him to come back to you on his own.

Why Does He Push You Away?

Men’s desires for personal space in a relationship differ from women’s.

Before they are ready to feel close to you again, some guys require a lot of space.

Some guys just require a brief gap before they are prepared to reconnect.

Not all guys are adept at politely requesting the space they require.

Perhaps in the past, when they sought some privacy, their ex-partner insulted them, accusing them of being heartless and callous.

Consequently, they are unsure of what to do when they experience a boiling desire for space.

They just recognize the need for a break from intimacy but hesitate to ask because they fear how their spouse would respond.

So, without first having a meaningful conversation with you about it, they end up using that space in an unhealthy way.

They emotionally withdraw. They behave crudely. In the hopes that she won’t require as much intimacy for a few days or weeks, they push their lover away.

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Steps You Can Take

Being with someone who suddenly closes in on you is quite difficult.

Even more difficult is when he pushes you aside rather than politely requesting space.

Being in a relationship with a person who has comparable intimacy requirements is considerably simpler.

Find someone who enjoys being near about as frequently as you do.

You will still have to cope with moments when he needs space and you want to be near, whichever you decide to go with.

In these cases, you should take the following actions:

• Respect his demand for privacy
• Respect the urge you have for emotional connection

This implies that…

Give him what he requests if he pushes you away or pulls away. Give him some room. Recognize that everything is a part of the dance.

Don’t dismiss your need for connection when he is unable or unwilling to make an emotional connection with you. Go out and make connections with the others you care about. With your ladies, spend time. Phone your family. Stay away.

Don’t isolate yourself at home to think.

You have a valid desire to be near the people you care about. But occasionally, you won’t be able to get the folks you really desire. You thus require a network of emotional supporters. For various requirements, you need a variety of individuals you can rely on.

You require company in order to have fun, people with whom to hold in-depth discussions, those who have known you for a long time.

They will serve as a constant reminder of your value.

They’ll remind you how much fun and enjoyable you are to be around.

When your partner is behaving aloof, you need to convey the message.

In the end, my biggest goal for you is to find a partner who can respectfully communicate his need for space.

Never would he leave for too long. Never would he make you feel unwelcome.

And it would be simple for you to let him leave because you know he will always come back and you have faith that the dance will bring him back to you.

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