That's Life

Hi...

Hope your day is treating you righ...

"That's what all the people say"

That phrase comes from the song "That's Life" by Frank Sinatra...

But why am I giving you the fragment of a song? The answer is simple, that's life, many do not understand the BIG meaning of this little phrase, some assume it to be very literal, others do not find the way to represent this analogy and others, of course, find the meaning. The interesting thing about this simple phrase is that it doesn't have a meaning as such, although it doesn't seem to. It doesn't really have an OWN meaning of the phrase, however, it does have an existing meaning...

What does that mean?

EACH PERSON GIVES IT THE MEANING HE/SHE WANTS

That means life, many literally spend their whole lives trying to find meaning in life, they wonder day and night why live, what is the reason to get up on a Monday to start the work week? What's the point of going to work if in the end I won't be happy? What is my purpose in life?

There are those who spend their whole life searching for meaning in their own existence and some simply stop searching and just do what they "should" do... With this I refer to the so-called "MATRIX", the Matrix will be a subject for another occasion...

If I have learned anything throughout this life is that the meaning is what we want to give it, the purpose of our life we give it, no matter what it is, however many do not interpret well and are based on fun and instant pleasure to establish their "path", despite this, let me tell you that with that you will not get anywhere.Life is about enjoying, with responsibility, the real fact of living is not based on getting high, partying, drinking until you puke, most people who do that....

Why do they do it? It's a good question we should all ask ourselves.... Why?Questioning our daily actions and decisions is what we should all do to take care of ourselves and others. The meaning, sense or purpose to our life is something that we give it, based on our goals, for example, your goal is to lose 25 pounds in 2 weeks, and you will do everything possible to do so at that moment you are giving meaning to your life, you are giving a reason to change and be better.

This is how we should always do it, set small and big goals to give meaning to our own life.Now, what happens next when we achieve our goals? The answer is really simple, take care of ourselves, take care of ourselves, keep improving as people, keep improving as a friend, boyfriend or girlfriend, husband or wife, improve as a person is the meaning of our life, be better every day, our purpose is to help and protect others.

Some people will tell me, how can I help or protect others if I can't even help myself? How can I help me? If you want to heal, start forgiving, forgive all the people who have hurt you, forgive the bad actions of others, forgive everything, once you get rid of that big weight off your shoulders, you will start to get better, as I like to say...

"When you discover the why of your chains, you will begin to be free."

Discover the cause of your suffering, the cause of your pain and, as you leave all that behind, you will find the way to be better. For those who need help or advice, feel free to contact me by Instagram.

Without further ado, I bid you farewell

See you next time

~Lonely Writter