Toxic Relationship
These are people who are not worthy of attention. For us to be filial, Vietnamese people often say that if our biological parents are ours, we need to be filial, but no. It's a wrong practice. Because really, if parents want their children to be filial, they must be like that. If parents are toxic parents, they are parents who make their children lose the slightest bit of self-confidence and live their whole lives in panic, fear, and thinking that they are children. Children who don't have any talent or value at all are toxic parents and shouldn't deserve to be paid anything, you will know who the toxic parents are. However, in this life, there are not always only toxic parents, there are also brothers, relatives, friends, and social relationships. So these relationships can that relationship become a toxic relationship or not to help you understand what is a toxic relationship and a toxic relationship so you can avoid it and find a way. So what is a toxic relationship, a toxic relationship, according to Dr. Lilian Glass, a psychologist in California, in her book toxic people The old 1995 version defines toxic relationships as relationships in which there is no mutual support, only competition, denigration, and lack of cohesion and respect. is one of the definitions I find quite clear about toxic Hoa Nghe relationships and based on that, you can also see that the first sign of a toxic relationship is lack of respect. This lack of respect can be a lack of respect in terms of parents and children. Parents not respecting the privacy of their children can be a lack of respect for friends like talking to each other. Don't even look at each other and talk but you sit right there and just call you instead of you call that guy that kid that kid and I'm sitting right there For example you can talk like that in the third person Singular if that person isn't there but if you're sitting right there and he's talking to you and someone in the group like oh my god that creep is nothing mom say like joking but repeating it over and over knowing that I know this is not a joke anymore, it's very annoying. That lack of respect can also come from the fact that husband and wife sit and talk to each other. without any affection at all, but I told him to do this and do that, he did that. I see children now, too, seeing the way they tease each other like that. You, me, me, myself. For me, I don't think it's very good. But maybe it's not at the level of a toxic relationship. That depends on many other signs, but first of all, it's a lack of respect. Is one party not paying attention to the other? For example, the children are doing homework and want to have a moment alone in their room to watch movies, play games, or are choking or something. Then the mother just opens the door and runs into something. Are you doing something funny? That's disrespectful, just like yesterday. Do you remember the story of that kid who watched a movie like that and then his mother started a post on Facebook saying he's a girl? If I watch 18+ movies, that 's one of those disrespectful things, and when it comes to friends, that's disrespectful. You can see the most obvious thing about going out without ever saying anything. Now telling me is like isolating myself from the group. Even though I really want to hang out with friends, I have also been a victim of that kind of isolation and I don't understand the reason why. After all, I've been playing with a group for quite a while and I feel happy. I really like playing with people, but when they invite me to hang out, I never stop asking them. I think I heard it was because people said I was like a star and asked people to be like me so the group didn't like it so if I didn't play I felt like very strange Because I've never felt like a star, I don't want to be a star, if you watch my clip where being a celebrity is so hard, you'll know what it's like to be a human being. Being famous is so hard, so I'm actually not famous at all, so far I don't have any subscribers. Trieu is far behind the three bastards or livestreams, but I still understand those things, so I made that clip. The only thing is that I realize that in such a relationship I am not respected, so gradually I no longer hang out with that group anymore. And sometimes I also realize that I am one of those people who are There are toxic actions towards your friends, for example, do you know? The group of friends I'm with right now has a friend who often tells people to eat here and there. I told you, every place you took me to was all trash. Next time, don't take me to those places anymore, you hear me? Or maybe I won't listen to you anymore? At that time, when we were talking, I thought it was normal, but now Thinking back, I see that such an action also shows my lack of respect for that girl. Sometimes you also need to pay attention to the fact that you are the culprit, not the victim. But I thought I was the main character in my life and everything I did was right, but that's not true. I'm just a normal person like everyone else. I lack knowledge. I can completely do stupid things, so that 's why I often make knowledge clips and I hope you will share the knowledge so that others can also have knowledge. But if you have knowledge, it will naturally change and it will work in a much more wonderful way. That 's the first sign that you're in a toxic relationship. respecting the second obvious sign is insulting you. If we talk about toxic relationships, the most obvious is talking about parents. In Vietnam, parents often talk to their children in this way. In general, there is not the slightest bit of love at all, while in my folk songs there are a few lines that say "love it until it's sweet, hate it until it's dusty" and then everyone who talks to you calls you this dog. You idiot. You're like a cow, who gave birth to you? Why are you so stupid? You're so stupid. You're a bad child. You're a bad child. Your mother's hands are evil. Mom. After others say it, they say it's just that I love her for her name. But that's what I said. When I was a child, those same people never felt love when they heard their grandparents say those things, but why do they say the same thing to their children now? That's a toxic relationship. a person who is always scolded a person who is always insulted but still attached to the person who insults me, this is most obvious in the relationship between children and parents because at a certain age, children can If you can escape, you can go to work and live to support yourself. But it's really difficult. If you have seen the movie Beauty and the Beast , you will see most clearly the people in this world. In a toxic relationship, it is often very difficult for them to escape, and the case of C Bell in the movie Beauty and the Beast is also the clearest case of love. Stockholm syndrome abusers, I will say that in a toxic relationship, you often think that when you are scolded, you will be scolded. When you are beaten, you will be swallowed whole. If you get scolded, get beaten, you will step out of that relationship. Why do you have to stay with someone who is so toxic to you, but he doesn't have to wake up? At some point, naturally, the minds of people who are being abused have a mechanism called a coping mechanism like A This guy beat me because he loved me, he abused me. You're cursing me because you love me, that guy. Before he fined me 500,000, now he fined me 400,000. Well, it proves that he loves me, so I have to protect him. Oh my god, it's a devil, but that's it. Thinking like that, it's very difficult for those people to see. If those people watch my clip, I hope they can see some of it, but actually I don't know if they will see any of it. It's okay because the people who have the clip don't click, so I don't know if anyone will watch it. I'm so miserable. I ask to click Subscribe and share but no one shares. Subscribe But never mind, I can't ignore that problem. You see, when a person is humiliated and beaten but still stays with the person who insulted him, still plays with the person who insulted him, and still allows the person who insulted him to play with him, that is a clear sign of that person's problem. If you're in a toxic relationship, a toxic relationship, this is a parent, child or lover, but friends and bosses are a bit difficult. Because if friends fight, it's very difficult to have that happen. If the boss hits you with fate, the boss will often hit you but it won't bring back the fate. The boss is stronger than the boss. Just to let you understand, the second sign is the humiliation, it can be mental, it can be physical. These are all signs that you are in a toxic relationship and you could be the culprit, not the victim. You can see what I'm saying or not. And the equally obvious sign that you are in a toxic relationship is control due to lack of trust. What is this, Leo? Can you elaborate? Can you go up again? Have you seen cases where people in love nowadays feel like wherever they go, they have to Facetime to let the other person know where they are so that the other person can check to see if it's true what you say you're going out with? to your friend, are you telling the truth that you went to that place so I can see that you're not lying to me? Is that a sign of a toxic relationship in a love relationship ? Friendship or any relationship in general is like that, it needs to have trust, you believe that whatever that person does, that person will not lie to you, but there is no need to have something to check and monitor. But in toxic relationships, it's because that person doesn't have faith in the person they love, so they always have to check and monitor through forms such as location settings such as You have to have a Facebook password, an email password, you have to Facetime everything to make it clear where you're going, and not have to meet another guy and let that guy have the upper hand on you. It's a sign of a very toxic relationship. I'll be honest. I've seen a lot of people like that but I don't understand how they can still endure this kind of behavior. People complain so much. It also forced Face to sa, it installed all kinds of location settings, which makes me so angry. When will I leave it? Oh my God. But do you know why? That's it. That's it. I already know the word benevolence. I don't want to hear it anymore. It's my fault. It's because of you that you're stupid. I'll just accept it. I've never loved anyone before. I've never checked and monitored them. Most of the Ngos I love are beautiful girls. My lovers are all beautiful. It's all plain but I never check it all Even though I know there are a lot of guys who like those girls Because they're so pretty There's definitely a lot of guys following them Because I know the reason is very simple: You chose me , I'm better than all those guys, so I don't have anything to worry about. Before I got to her, there was already a flock following her. When I got to her, there was still a flock. According to her, she's a valuable person, so she definitely won't leave me for someone else because she chose me, not other guys. There's no need to worry, so I never have any control over it. It's nothing and really, never in my relationships have I had to fight or have I had any doubts about where she goes and doesn't meet anyone because I know. If her heart is with me, then I don't need to do those stupid things to be able to chain her heart and make it soft and tight. The most important thing is what I want to tell you. If you have the opportunity to talk about this toxic relationship, don't do that. It's nonsense. If you're in that relationship, either fix it or leave that guy and leave that girl. That's it. Don't try to fix it. There's no way to fix it. Oh my god, love isn't about working on a construction project. You keep asking for it to be fixed all the time. Actually, I can explain this by looking at your past. When you were little, you saw your parents fighting all the time. Being jealous and jealous of each other. Growing up, you almost always loved like that. Because you only knew that it was the kind of love you thought it was. Everyone's love has to be like that. It's just like before when Vietnam closed, driving felt terrible. After all, when Vietnam opened, I discovered that life is not like that, life must have this, must have this. That's the high standard of living it must be. Those are the things that we need to compare between normal families and families with problems. If when we were children our family had problems, now we look at them as adults. like a normal family so I can know what's wrong with my family so I can fix it. This part is in addition to the toxic relationship but it helps you understand the reason why you love such nonsense. It's because of your childhood. Actually, there are many signs that show that you are in a toxic relationship and I think you can Google about it, but the problem is How to get out of it? If a toxic relationship is a toxic relationship, my advice to you is, first and foremost, the simplest thing to do is to speak frankly, you need to speak frankly to that person. The person who is the culprit is ruining your relationship. You become a toxic relationship It could be your lover You sit and talk Why do you keep trying to control me and force me to Facetime this and that? I chose You mean you are the best in the group that has I used to chase you, why do I have to do something like that? Do you know that the thing that makes the rope break and is not tied tightly means I'm even more afraid that one day someone will come to you and He will take you away from me. And if I continue to do these types of unreasonable jealous actions, it is very likely that it will happen and talk to my parents. They touch my privacy like that. I'm grown up. I have my own things. I want privacy. I don't want to be scolded so harshly by my parents. In front of my friends, doing that will hurt me a lot. Those are the ways that You can say it directly to let the other person know that they are causing negative emotions inside you. Of course it doesn't always work. It's very difficult to talk to your parents about it. But that 's the first way because you know, everything has to have a first thing to let people understand that what they do is not as good as they think, but what they think is that they are causing harm to the world. In my relationship with someone, maybe my parents are harming my children, maybe my loved ones are harming me, maybe my friends are harming me, if it makes me feel worthless, then I should speak up. all of that and if nothing changes, the next step is to find a way to cut off this toxic relationship. It would be quite easy if it was a friend. Because we often overestimate the relationship. In a relationship like this, the first and most important thing is the lover, not the parents, then the parents. Then comes the friends, then everything else. My parents raised me for countless years. In the end, which one does he love? He goes out late at night and buys things for that child, but his parents don't buy things. That's just not worth trying, so we can cut off our friends and lovers. Don't think that you can change your lover. If they don't want to change, then you definitely won't be able to change. Don't look at him like he's a sweetheart. How many couples do you have? This person and that person then think that I will be the one to change him, not like foreigners say, oh you go love that person Or are you trying to fix a building so now why? A bunch of girls all want to fix that guy so he can become the perfect person in the end. In the end, he's the only one who benefits, and the rest of us are just the ones who let him. That's it. It's very simple. You need to cut off those relationships. How to cut them off depends on you and your real friends. Because your real friends will give you advice will be to listen to the times when you are sad and then you should also listen to the advice of those friends because I meet a lot of people who go talk to my friends about this and that and finally go back to work. Exactly like what your sisters and brothers think, that is, they continue to live their lives with those uneducated people and even remove all their friends' piercings. It's so weird, but society is like that and they are all friends. He doesn't want to advise anymore because his mother advised you and you still won't do it. As for your parents, the speedy relationship with your parents, you can review my speed and stalking. Ok And this is just saying It's simple and short. Only when you can become financially independent can you completely separate from your parents. It's a bit difficult, but it will give you peace of mind. The third thing is also quite important: The part where you need to understand who you are is the truth in this life. Don't think you're a bad person. Don't think you don't deserve to be loved. Don't think you don't have any value. no you everyone on this earth was born we were once the whitest page we were a child i was also a child you were also a child John Zena was also a child was a kid th rock was once a kid but grew up Why does everyone have a different life it's because of your thoughts like mine Do you see me am I real this is A sign that shows that my future destiny in this country is to grow up and eat pretty food Or sell fortunes but do you see me as a disabled person? do you see me as a Digital paper salesman or something? No, it's because I've always thought that I can do everything and I can even do it better than many other people, so now I'm sitting here. become an inspirational person who helps you understand problems that you don't know why you're facing. Because it's because of your thoughts, your thoughts, you're a valuable person. Don't let others lower your value and you have to rely on those people to hope that you're not lonely. I also did a livestream talking about loneliness. Because actually in life, There will be times when I need to be lonely. Because on my journey to my success, I need to have loneliness. I can accept it. What about being so afraid of loneliness that I stay in toxic relationships just to feel that you have someone by your side. First, you have to talk to the person in your toxic relationship. It could be your parents, it could be your lover. Maybe you're a friend, then after talking, you feel like you don't understand, you always remember that it's not something that can be done at once. You need to always remember that you are a person. If you have value, don't let people reduce your value but you still hang out with them and still give them good positions in life like being able to consider you as a friend and consider that person as a lover. like consider that person as your parent, have value and appreciate the value of people, these are the spiritual things that help you develop.
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Good work. I believe that this article would make a good lecture in an Economics 101 class or even a Business Organization course.
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