Silence is a kind of wisdom

Once you, do not always like to get together on various occasions, meet acquaintances to chatter for most of the day, and arguments with people also want to theory a right or wrong.

Nowadays, you are becoming more and more silent.

You will generally take a detour in crowded places, meeting acquaintances is at most a greeting, and arguments with people also no longer distinguish right from wrong.

Choose silence, not that you are afraid of things, but you increasingly understand that the more you say, the more likely to attract right and wrong, the less gossip, and the more quiet the mind.

Every flower comes into the world quietly and leaves in silence. If we listen, in the quiet as if there is deep thought, and in the silence, there is beautiful eloquence.

Silence is a kind of wisdom, knowing the silence of people, and have long understood the meaning of "silence is golden.

Silent people, know the truth that more words will be lost

The old saying goes, "Cultivate yourself to clear your mind as the important, involved in the world to be careful with words first."

Meaning that if a person wants to cultivate their own, we must learn to clear the mind, and look at the gains and losses, of a person in society, the first thing to learn is to be careful what you say and do.

When you are in the process of interacting with people, the most important thing is to learn to control their mouths, what to say, what not to say, must be weighed clearly.

Some people, can not always control their mouths.

In the workplace, encounter good things, and they are eager to show themselves, and a mouth does not allow others to speak.

In life, when you hear others talking about gossip, you can't wait to join in and always rudely interrupt others, and then express their views.

Perhaps the momentary expression does let you out of the limelight, but what you do has left a bad impression.

As the saying goes, "too many words will be lost," and sometimes, the more anxious you are to express yourself, the more it will cause unnecessary trouble.

Some of your words may inadvertently hurt others, and one of your opinions may unknowingly offend people.

So, when you get along with people, you should speak when you grasp the right amount, you should not speak when silence is the best way.

Silent people understand that shallow talk is not good

In the process of interacting with people, learning to treat each other sincerely is the most basic respect.

But a person who is too enthusiastic and reveals their heart to anyone is not a good thing.

Maybe you do not know the truth, but you will know how important it is to keep quiet in front of and behind people.

Some people are superficially close to you, pretending to care about you, but in fact, just to pry into your life, prying into your privacy.

If you do not guard against it, to tell him all their private affairs and secrets, the other party will only take the opportunity to use you, in the critical moment to trip you up.

Therefore, there are times to keep silent is to protect yourself.

If you are still talking about yourself to others, and people just met soon after the other party as very warm friends, will only put you in a dangerous situation.

Silent people, do not argue but win the hearts of people

The old saying goes, "The water is deep and does not speak, people are stable and do not speak."

A truly wise person, never know people do not judge people, know things not to say, see through not to break.

But in life, but few people can be aggrieved not to refute, be misunderstood not to explain, and argue with people regardless of right or wrong.

One must be wounded to be silent and focused, whether it is a spiritual or physical trauma, it is beneficial to growth.

A silent person, not that he is not good at expressing or itself is wrong, but he knows that some words are equal to nothing, some things are equal to nothing.

You know, gossip is the most hurtful.

So, if someone hurts you, take a step backward, put those irrelevant things behind you, and laugh it off.

Keeping silent, keeping your mouth shut, not gossiping, and talking less is a kind of wisdom and cultivation.