Romance 101- What is Love?

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It’s funny how a four letter word can either break you or mend you.

Love has many meanings, love should make you feel amazingly ecstatic.

Love doesn’t hurt, Love is kind, Love is pure, Love is true, Love is forgiven, Love is trust, support and commitment.

Love is respect, Love is affection.

Love is caring, Love is faithfulness and Loyalty.

Love is more than intimacy.

Love is the key that opens the heart.

Love is a dream for two lives to share.

Love is the thread of life.

Love is a gift we can give every day.

Love is a work of the heart.

Love is the heating sensation and joyfulness you experience, when your partner walks in the room.

Love can’t be measured, Love is peace, Love is sincerity.

Love is NOT cheating.

Love is NOT lying.

Love is NOT toxicity.

Love is NOT abuse.

Love is the most powerful emotion that SHOULD NOT be taken for granted.

You know you’re in love when:

- You think about your partner and smile uncontrollably.

-You're proud and satisfied with them.

- You crave their attention and presence.

-You appreciate the small gestures (cuddling, movie nights, long hours on the phone, walks on the beach and etcetera).

-You appreciate the big gestures.

-You appreciate everything they’ve done and are still doing for you.

-They will do anything to see you smile.

- You don’t want to let them go.

- Future mindset.

- Long lasting commitment and happiness.

Relationships are NOT perfect!!!

Relationships will sometimes get *boring* after you’ve been together for years, even months. It’s up to you and your partner to make your relationship worth fighting for.

You and your partner will encounter difficult days, it won’t always be laughter, smiles and fun.

Live in the moment and make memories together.

Love isn’t just a feeling it’s a commitment to love everyday, physically, mentally and emotionally.

You want someone to never give up on you, love you unconditionally, support, trust, and build a future life with you?.

The feelings and mindset should be reciprocated.

Step out of your comfort zone and love without regrets, love with true intentions, feelings and emotions.

Relationship isn’t what the movie makes it seem.

You tend to quit when it stops being fun and then go look for someone else?

You go searching for someone else because the spark and butterflies are gone?

"A relationship is like a house. When a lightbulb burns out you do not go and buy a new house, you fix the light bulb"- Unknown

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Relationship problems are like maths equations.

First- figure out the issue/how to solve it.

Second- use different techniques.

Third- work until you find a SOLUTION.

Fourth- the problem is solved.

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Stay faithful to your partner and build a life together.

Build a life you always dreamt of.

A life together travelling, owning houses, cars, and lands.

Procreate & build an empire with your new family.

Don't stay mad, Don’t let petty arguments ruin something great.

Keep your arguments and issues off the media, fix them in private.

Cherish every moment together.

Show the world what it looks like being in love.

If you’re in a monogamy relationship all your focus should be on your partner. Nobody should come between the love you both share.

If you’re in Polygamy or Polyamory relationship the love, affection, support, and trust SHOULD be share EQUALLY.

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Why cheat when you can just leave??

If you’re unhappy speak to your partner about it.

Work towards fixing the problem, Don’t ignore it.

Communicate, Communicate, Communicate!!

I can't stress this enough, communication is very important in a relationship. Communicate with your partner at all times.

Your past relationship left you broken, you thought you will never find love again.

Every person that comes along to love you and mend your broken heart is NOT going to hurt you.

Don’t dwell on your past relationship.

Please heal from your past heartbreak before getting into a next relationship!!!

If you don’t heal you’ll have the mindset that the new person is going to hurt you.

That’s not always the case.

That new person could be the one you prayed for.

Don’t let your hurt overshadow your new relationship.

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Being in love is the greatest feeling ever!!

You look your partner in their eyes, and feel a sense of happiness, acceptance, warmth and security.

They love each and every part of you.

Internal and External, they love you.

You don’t want it to end because heartbreak hurt like hell.

Love like there’s no tomorrow.

Grow old together, Glow together.

Love in every season.

Every weather.

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Quotes

“True love exists, you just need to find the right one who is worth loving”- Allandra M.

“I see a future with you because you're my lover, my soulmate and my future husband”- Allandra M.

“I see a future with you because you're my lover, my soulmate and my future wife”- Allandra M.

“Please don’t play with someone’s heart. If you know deep down you don’t want the person, LET THEM GO!!!”- Allandra M.

“ Broken people don’t know what it means and feels like to be loved the right way”-Allandra M.

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I believe there’s someone out there for everyone.

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