People's hearts are separated from their bellies, it is rare to recognize

It is said that "the heart of the people" some people hide well enough, and can easily cheat a lot of people.

If you mistake bad people for good people, you will face a miserable life.

Instead of being deceived, you should learn to distinguish between good and bad people, and no longer be deceived by the appearance or falsehood of a "good person".

1. The attitude towards parents

Some people pretend to be more than good outside, a home will be the original shape, after all, in front of the parents what to pretend, what temperament each other understand.

So, you want to see how a person's character, look at his attitude toward his parents can be.

There is a male colleague in the office, and both intellectual and emotional intelligence is quite high, leaving a very good impression on everyone.

Look at his usual talk, I always thought he had a good temper, but once I overheard him on the phone with his parents, face impatient, said not a few sentences on the phone and hung up.

I thought this was just a "special case" and would not normally do so, but after paying careful attention, I found that he is really rude to his parents and likes to hang up the phone at the drop of a hat.

A person even their relatives are not willing to treat properly, it can be seen that the character is general, if its friendship, I am afraid that will be stabbed in the back.

2. attitude toward interests

How many people because of the immediate benefit and the struggle, sometimes even brothers are difficult to reach an agreement in their interests?

In those years there are many tragedies arising from disputes over interests, thinking that they can take advantage of, but in the end, it is a loss and a loss.

I have a friend who likes to take advantage of cheap, together with the supermarket to buy things, at first she did not buy, until the discovery of a full reduction, only to take a thing to put together a single, rightly counting the reduced part as their discount.

Unfortunately, the bargain is not so easy to take advantage of, once the harvest and pay mismatch, the final harm is their own.

Although some things are "clear to the observer, the authorities are confused", but the loss to eat more, sooner or later will understand, just need to spend more time.

In the financial crisis, how many people went bankrupt overnight, and how many people were separated from their wives? We can't be responsible for other people's lives. All we can do is live in the present moment.

When the outcome is not yet determined, try to save more, be in a better state, and deal with the unknown everything.

3. Attitude towards the weak

In some people when the tiger falls, how many "dogs" do door-to-door bullying? Quite a few, one is more powerful than the other.

Some people are born of women, but advocate male superiority over women, with rules and regulations to bind others, self-righteous machismo is not in the bullying of the weak.

The surface is pretending to be good, but behind the scenes, the words and actions may betray you.

Like those "hypocritical" people, the surface pretends to be kind and generous, and helpful but encounters the poor, disabled, elderly ...... is two faces.

Even, sometimes the anger will be vented on those weak people.

In a short film, a boy ordered a take-out, but the delivery man delivered not the one he ordered, he began to relentlessly difficult delivery man, not only letting him go back to change the pizza three times, but also telling him to compensate, or complain.

If the boy's mother hadn't seen the boy's approach and let him experience the work of a delivery boy, I'm afraid it would have been difficult for him to understand the "weak" and to truly realize his mistake.

If fear and respect for the strong are instinctive, then the ability to understand the weak is not easy, is the performance of a person's quality.

The more quality people are, the less they will take pleasure in bullying the weak.