Narcissist

The narcissist is the opposite of a warrior. He or she is nothing more than a coward. They are so developmentally arrested; their behavior resembles that of a five-year-old in an adult body. Their tactics are yet more sophisticated over time, but inside it is the same person, terrified of being exposed, rejected, and abandoned. That's why they go on demolishing others to get a momentary high of superiority.

This should not be a surprise to anyone who actually knows someone who is like this. The trouble is learning what we should do after we have come across someone like this. Believe me; I know all too well about not recognizing a narcissist because they are so good at using the so-called sophisticated tactics that they don't even see that they are the actual problem.

I know for myself that it is hard to even work with or work around a narcissist because they make sure that they are the ones in the spotlight. The funny thing about the spotlight is that it will and always shows that person's true self. If you are the type of person to call them out on their narcissistic ways, they will automatically get defensive.

I do not want to be around someone like this because I know that it will do certain things to you. It will start to make you doubt yourself, feel alone, scared, and live in fear for no good reason at all. We all know that a narcissist does not play far, and what is also interesting is that most of the world's narcissists may not even realize that they are a narcissist. I try my best not to judge these people because many of them are blinded by what others say, think, and do around them.

Getting your inner power back is a life-changing event, and once you look at you the person a bit closer, you will see that there are some deep issues that you need to fix for yourself. Life should not be competing with others; it is about helping to uplift others and bring out the best in each other. When I know who I am in this world, I don't have to think about competing with others because no one can live my life like me. I am the only one like me, and once I realized this fact about myself, I noticed things changed for the better, not for the worst. Now I am not saying that we will not have some problems because as long as we live on this earth, we will have issues come up from time to time. The real question is this, what are you personally going to do to help yourself first and then help someone else.

You have to make it know what is hurting you, and once you do that, you have to take the time to see if this person, place, thing, or environment is worth you doing anything about! To all of the narcissist out here in the world, I want to say that if you are the kind of person that may not even know you are a narcissist, but you still find yourself trying to help others, and you know in your heart that you are a good person, then lean into the good side of you. Don't be afraid of the good because it is not there to hurt you but help you become the best version of yourself for others.

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