My wife claimed to have a drink with her bestie, but she actually met her ex-boyfriend, and I exposed the lie

I went to high school with my wife, her best friends, and her ex-boyfriend. After the college entrance examination, the four of us went to different cities to go to college. After graduating from college, we all came back to chengcheng city to find jobs. My wife and I are civil servants at present, my wife's best friend is a teacher in our high school Alma mater, and my wife's ex-boyfriend is doing business.

My wife and her ex-boyfriend were high school sweethearts, but they broke up in college because they couldn't accept long-distance relationship. My wife and I started our relationship after we started working and finally got married.

When my wife and I were first married, her ex-boyfriend had a thriving business, but in recent years, there have been some problems. To be honest, after all, I had the impulse to say to my wife: Why don't we help out your ex-boyfriend? It's just, I didn't say it out loud.

A few days ago, the wife claimed to have a drink with her best friend, but she dated her ex-boyfriend instead. I trust my wife's character: she would never do anything wrong with her ex-boyfriend, but what I don't understand is why she lied.

Why would I find out my wife went to her ex-boyfriend? On the day of the accident, it suddenly rained heavily on our side. I called my wife because I was worried about her. My intention: Ask her where she and her girlfriends are drinking, and I'll pick them up. At this point, my wife volunteered to tell me that she was not with her bestie, but with her ex-boyfriend. Her ex-boyfriend dropped her off that day, about half an hour after I called my wife.

After wife gets home, ask me: you won't be angry because of this matter? Me: Why did you lie to me? Wife: I just want to be concerned about his business. Me: Is there anything we can do? Wife: business matters, we do not understand, he also did not open the mouth to borrow money. The matter was thus closed.

Emotional analysis:

If you trust your wife's character, there will be no quarrel between husband and wife. The reason your wife claimed to be drinking with her best friend was because she was ready to drink: a few drinks with her ex-boyfriend. Finally the wine did not drink, because the weather is not beautiful, rain. Your wife lied to you about this because she didn't want you to be paranoid about it. When you called her, she confessed the truth to you because she had figured it out and didn't feel the need to hide it from you. And you were able to let it go because you trusted your wife's character and there was no sign of a lingering relationship between her and her ex-boyfriend.

One detail: Don't say your wife cares about her ex-boyfriend, you care about her ex-boyfriend too, but you don't show it in action. Although your wife's ex-boyfriend is your imaginary rival, he is also your high school classmate. Maybe when you were in high school, you had a good relationship with him, but later you married your wife. Since he and your wife had a love history, you deliberately reduced contact with him. For businesspeople, you may not be able to help much, but the most cost-effective way is to lend each other some money if they need it. It's like your wife says: They're not asking for money, so wait and see.

In our life, what really decides our joys and sorrows is actually the worldly wisdom. No matter what kind of work we are engaged in, we are finally doing our own efforts for the worldly wisdom. Speak truth, in this day and age, between friends to borrow money this kind of matter has become extremely sensitive, or a homemade people don't want to borrow money in this matter easily owe debt of gratitude, or more unruly after borrowed money not in accordance with the contract time is money, leads people to be this man man, just don't want to and friends have borrowing levels of human feelings. When your wife's ex-boyfriend's business encountered a bottleneck, you and your wife are willing to take the initiative to care for and willing to help each other, it shows that the character of the three of you are more excellent.

Most of the time, when referring to the ex, no matter oneself, or their lover are more sensitive, in fact, some love is not the result of marriage, or because there is not enough love between the two sides, or because love is defeated by reality. Two people can have a brief love in the vast sea of people, in fact, is also relatively rare fate. If there is no harm when breaking up, both sides are more decent when breaking up, after breaking up can do no longer have the feelings of love, in fact, can be good friends. Just because a lot of people are more sensitive to the "ex" itself, or when breaking up, the interpretation of hate because of love, just make themselves and their former lover can only forget the river's lake.

After college graduation, people may not have too much initiative when facing what kind of work they are engaged in, but more often they are chosen by the job. During this period, most people want to have a good job, but most people's wishes are not in reality. There are also a small number of people who have the opportunity to work in drought and flood, but were voluntarily given up. Many students will end up in different social status due to their different levels of knowledge, family background and career planning. During this period, people will also have different attitudes towards life because of their different incomes. There is a large probability that people with more income will be more confident.

In this era of money on heroes, on the surface, everyone seems to drill into the eyes of money, in fact, the human touch is still rich, especially in the family level will be more obvious. Another phenomenon: if you leave home, in the struggle of the city if you can meet fellow villagers, between the fellow and fellow villagers will also appear particularly cordial. Therefore, the human touch has always been there, but sometimes everyone is busy with their own lives, so that the feelings between people do not get a good display, but also at some times, people will feel that there is a temperature between people. During this period, everyone needs to uphold the attitude of life: kindness, love, kindness.

My hometown is a county in Shanxi. For some well-known reasons, I have not been back to Shanxi for more than two years. Before my parents lived with me, I would miss my hometown, but not so much. Less than a year after my parents returned home, I often talked with them on the phone, but I missed my hometown even more. During this period, I also got to know some shanxi townsfolk in the city where I lived. Sometimes, I felt it was a very happy thing to talk with them in the local dialect.

In fact, only one or two of my classmates are still in frequent contact. Some of them don't even know where they are now, but I believe that if we meet each other one day, we will still feel very friendly. Perhaps in this era, when there is no special need for classmates, friends to help things happen, not to disturb them is the best attitude towards life. However, I always believe that as long as I am kind enough and can take practical actions to warm those around me who really need help, I believe that we will also gain happiness and more goodwill from it.