My sister beat up my cousin after she insulted our dead mom.

I’m basically making this account to applaud my sister (also because I’m stupid and forgot the password to my main after I got a new phone). My sister doesn’t normally fight anybody but it’s like I saw a whole other version of her. A little about me: I’m 26 with two siblings; my 23 year old brother and 28 year old sister (who has a 2 year old boy). My dad is still here with us today, thank God. Unfortunately, my mom isn’t. She was terribly sick. We were all very close and we never fully recovered years later especially not my dad since they’ve known each other since they were teenagers.

Anyway, this happened at a family get together at my grandparents house. It was pretty chill, nothing formal. I’m not gonna make this long but it was going pretty well. I was occupied with my other family members and helping out with the dishes and stuff. We were all talking, laughing, cleaning, etc. until we heard what sounded like yelling and a ton of movement upstairs. My brother, my grandma, and I booked it upstairs and we IMMEDIATELY had to step in. I didn’t want my grandma in the middle of it for obvious reasons so I urged her to stay back instead.

My sister and cousin were brawling. I’m talking fists everywhere. My brother and I were trying SO HARD to separate them but we eventually had to get out of the mess because things were being knocked down (my grandma’s vase was smashed in two). The police were almost called by my dad because it was that bad. My brother told him not to and that we’ll figure it out. At this point, most if not all of the adults heard the fuss.

When the fight FINALLY ended (physically at least) and we were all able to get answers out of the two, it was revealed that my sister and cousin first got into it over my cousin being disrespectful in a certain situation (I was unaware of it) and the fight escalated to the point where she referred to our mom (her aunt, mind you) as “your dead bitch mom” in an attempt to get at my sister. Cousin didn’t deny it but insisted that my sister called her a (rhymes with bore) and shit went sideways.

Long story short, my cousin left after (but not without trying to get the last word in and flipping everyone off). My aunt was pissed although it was hard to tell who she was pissed at. Not a single person wanted to continue the get together so I quickly helped clean and feed my nephew and escorted my crying sister outside so she can clear her head.

This was the whole situation. Of course nobody blamed my sister but my sister felt embarrassed she was part of that stupidity. I told her that although she could’ve chose a nicer word to call our cousin, I understand why she went off. My dad is probably the angriest for obvious reasons…but damn. I don’t think I’ve seen a fight that bad (at least in my family).

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If someone called my mom a dead btch, I would fight too. Your sister is a top btch.

Tell her I said that. We must respect Mom's if they were top B*tch Boss Moms who loved their kids and family.

Hands will be flying if someone disrespected my mom.

Your cousin is lucky she only caught your sister's hands. If someone said that to me, I'd be rallying my whole friend group for a massive beat down (only child so but if I had siblings they'd be involved too).

I’m not a violent person but if someone said the words “your dead bitch mom” to me I’d probably fly off the fucking handle too. Call me whatever you want but say something bad about my deceased mother, all bets are off and I’m throwing hands.