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My Ex Says He's Still Attracted To Me (What To Do When Your Ex Says He Still Loves You)

Are you worried about your relationship, saying to yourself my ex says he's still attracted to me? If so then it's important that you don't make the mistake that most women make in this situation. This article will tell you what to do when your ex says he still loves you.

By Jade AubrePublished 4 years ago 5 min read
My Ex Says He's Still Attracted To Me (What To Do When Your Ex Says He Still Loves You)
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Once upon a time, there was a couple who were in love, but once in a while they would fight. Over time, these fights turned into really nasty brawls and things got so bad that they had to break up.

Now, while the couple still loved each other dearly, every time they got back together, they ended up doing the same thing over and over again: fighting.

In the end, so many things affected them that they just couldn't get past these differences as they only just grew and ended up unable to be happy together.

Now, obviously this is NOT something you want to be faced with when trying to get your ex back, however it is something that over 80% of couples will experience after a break up!

Sadly, most people don't even realize what is causing these issues, and therefore they never actually work to solve the core problems. And trust me, you can love someone, but at the same time you can hate what they do!

That is why you need to consider these next 3 things before you try and get your ex back, to ensure that you don't encounter the same heart breaking problems all over again....

1. Can I Change?

You need to really look yourself in the mirror and ask yourself if you can change, and if you can commit to the kind of change that your ex wants to see, and the kind of change that you want to see.

If you really cannot do it in a way that makes YOU happy, then getting back together with your ex is not a good idea right now.

2. Will my Ex Change?

"It takes two to tango", and of course in every relationship there needs to be effort from BOTH sides. Look at your past relationship and everything up until now relating to your ex.

Have they made a real effort to change or try and work things out? Or do they always slip back into the same destructive behavior which causes the relationship to become unstable and unhealthy?

If your ex really cannot change, then you will ALWAYS be faced with the same issues you have faced before in your relationship, and these same issues will ALWAYS lead to more heartbreak and more pain.

3. Can we move forward? -

So let's say you want your ex back, but they have done a few things which really tick you off and you just can't seem to get over it. It may be that they have lied, hurt you, or even cheated on you.

If neither of you is able to really forgive, so that you are not always throwing this in each other's face, then you really will never be able to move forward, and once again will be spiraling back into an unhealthy relationship once again.

5 Reasons Why You Should Take Your Ex Back!

Are you unsure as to whether or not you should take your ex back? Are you confused and maybe worry about whether or not your ex feels the same way? Did you and your ex have a few things which are still not worked out?

Don't worry, because I have 5 clear cut reasons which will help you decide whether or not you should get your ex back....

5. The breakup is good

The breakup was good, but once you get back together, you can be even better, because you now know what exactly went wrong the first time. Sometimes you have to breakup to realize this, but now you can work on changing the things that were wrong into learning curves.

You can learn a lot from a breakup away from your ex, but you can learn even MORE when you take your ex back, especially if your ex adapts new habits or even if they keep their old habits.

4. Your ex is still not over you

You may not realize it, but your ex is not over you. If he/she spends a lot of their time trying to make you happy and keep you safe, then obviously they are not over you. Take note especially, if your ex is always avoiding dating someone new.

3. Mistakes

If you cannot learn from your mistakes with your ex, then you will end up finding the same issues in the future, no matter who you date, because it will be psychologically ingrained in your mind. That is why you should take your ex back and see really what it was that was going wrong, if your ex has still not changed.

2. It's easier

It's actually a lot easier to get back together with your ex, than it would be to start dating someone new. Your ex already knows all of the awkward and weird things about you, but your ex also knows other things about you, which means you have a higher chance of making it work there, and moving on from the past, than you would with someone new.

1. Regret

You may not think about it now, but imagine if you realize later in your life, that your ex actually was the love of your life, but then it's too late to get them back? Well then you would feel regret, and trust me, regret is VERY hard to live with.

The last thing you want, is to be regretting a decision you didn't really make, because you were unsure at the time. If you get your ex back now, then you don't have to worry about this.

Pay Close Attention Here-

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