My Ex Asked Me About My Love Life (My Ex Asked Me If I'm Seeing Someone)

When your boyfriend or girlfriend (even your husband or wife) dumps you, you may be surprised when they contact you after some time. What does it mean? Does it even mean anything? How can you tell if your ex is just trying to be pleasant or actually has a desire to get back together with you? Are there signs your ex wants you back that you should be looking for?

It may seem unlikely that your ex wants you; after all, they dumped you, right? However, there are instances where your ex no longer wants to be an ex but rather your current lover. How are you to know which is which? Actually, there are several signs your ex wants you back that you need to watch out for. These signs can be quite subtle and unless you're looking for them, you may miss them.

Seven Tell-Tale Signs Your Ex Wants You Back

Sign 1 - Your Ex Tries To Get A Hold Of You First

One of the first signs your ex wants you back is their constant trying to get a hold of you whether it is by phone, text or email. Many times the reason they contact you is just to hear your voice and to know what is going on in your life. They may want to gauge how attracted you are to them still and if they even have a chance of winning you back. It is the little things your ex does and says in this stage that can help you to determine if your ex wants you back.

Sign 2 - Your Ex Asks If You're Dating

If your ex is trying to find out if you had moved on, if you are dating another partner or maybe if you want to get back together - you don't need more signs. Desperate ex will try anything to find out if you have someone else. They will ask you or your friends. It is not so hard to recognize it.

Sign 3 - Communications Tend To Last Long Periods

If you look for more signs your ex wants you back, look at how long the phone calls tend to last. Does it seem like your ex is trying to find ways to keep you on the phone even if you have things you need to get done? If so, then he/she is trying to keep you occupied so that you don't end up with someone else in your life.

Sign 4 - Your Ex Wants Your Opinion Again

When you were still dating, did your ex ask your opinions on things? Do you find them doing the same thing even after the relationship has been called quits? If so, then it's a sure sign that they are looking for what you think on matters that are big and small. It means that your opinion matters once more and they want you back.

Sign 5 - Your Ex Is Sharing Your Interest Again

Another one of the signs your ex wants you back are them sharing very similar interest that you have. Do you find that your ex is asking questions about the kinds of things you like or maybe even joining in on the fun and interest? If you discover your ex is sharing these interests now when they wouldn't have before, then you can be sure that they are looking for a second chance to be with you.

Sign 6 - Your Ex Looks For Ways To Be Alone With You

Signs your ex wants you back include his/her trying to find ways to be alone with you. When you're with a group, do you find them trying to sneak ways for you two to be alone together? Does your ex steer you away from the crowd, just so that you can talk one-on-one with each other? If so, then chances are they want to be with you.

Sign 7 - Your Ex Tells You They Want You Back

A surefire sign that your ex wants you back is when they tell you outright that they desire to have a second chance to be with you. They may think, "why beat around the bush? Just tell my ex and get it over with." If you find yourself in this situation, it's up to you now to determine whether or not you want to have a second go around with them.

Once you've gotten all the signs your ex wants you back, it's the time to decide whether or not you want them again. If the relationship wasn't abusive and things just kind of fell apart and you would like another chance, work on those issues that drove a wedge between you and your ex so that things don't fall apart again.

4 Behaviors That Kill Your Chances With Your Ex

If I had to get my ex back today, there are four things I'd avoid doing like the plague. These mistakes are so easy to make that if you're going through the pain of a breakup right now, I'll bet you've already made at least one of them. Heaven knows, I've made them all, and more often than I care to mention. So learn from my failures and you'll have a much better chance of success with your ex.

1. Don't hang out with your ex. Lots of couples try to ease the pain of a breakup by staying friends. But your ex lover is the last person you should be looking to as a source of comfort and companionship. It might SEEM like good idea at first not to let him or her disappear from your life altogether, but for now that's exactly what you need to do. You can't be friends as long as the pain of the breakup is still there! And you certainly won't be giving them any space or time to miss you.

2. Don't get stuck in the past. Avoid the places you two hung out together. Tune out the songs that remind you of him or her. Think of something besides all the good times you had together, it will only make you feel worse. Besides, when you look back you tend to forget about the bad stuff, which tricks your mind into believing your relationship was perfect. And there's no such thing as a perfect relationship. You accepted your partner with flaws, so if you must think back, remember those flaws. Write 'em down if you have to. Then turn your attention back to here and now. Move forward, with a positive outlook, and your ex will see how strong and "together" you are.

3. Don't believe there's only one person who can make you happy. There's no truth to the notion that you have only ONE soulmate and if you blow it with that person you're "done". Life will go on with or without your ex and very soon you will wake up and realize the breakup doesn't hurt so much anymore. Just like countless others who have loved, lost, and loved again, you'll move on. Maybe to a fresh start with your ex, maybe to a new "soulmate".

Keeping your perspective on this keeps out self destructive thoughts like "life's pointless unless I can get my ex back". He or she is NOT irreplaceable. (Besides, desperation and hopelessness won't help you win love back.)

4. Don't miss a chance to improve yourself. That's right, take a good look at yourself. In fact, it's a good idea to look at your own flaws even more than your partner's. What can YOU do to make yourself more attractive to your ex? If you don't change a thing, you're still the same old person he or she didn't want around anymore!

Think back to other relationships and see if there are any patterns that you ought to break or bad habits that are getting in your way. Are you a couch potato? Too needy or insecure? Jealous or controlling? Now's a great time to hit the gym, work on anger or jealousy issues, change your look, and generally clean up your act. Move toward becoming the person your ex will want back.

Here's the bottom line: Don't get stuck in the "friend zone" or frozen in the past. Don't act desperate or unwilling to change. Whenever I've tried and failed to get my ex back in the past, it was one or more of those behaviors that killed my chances. Believe me, avoiding them will make you much more attractive to everyone around you, not just your ex!

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