Men are conquered by you will have the signal: three initiatives

Some people always think that love is to rely on blindly pay, unconditional good to him to get, have such an idea, often, in the end, is also experienced the cruelty of love, men are fickle that kind of people.

We always take it for granted that the pain of love to each other's body, of course, to be abandoned, not to be treated well each other must escape, but also from their own body to find the reason.

Sometimes the better you are to a person, the less you can get the ideal result. Sometimes the other party's ruthlessness is likely to be your habit.

Trying to get a true love with humble flattery and unconditional obedience is a fool's dream. No one will indeed reject a person's kindness to himself or herself, but he will only treat you as a free babysitter, and he will not think highly of you from the bottom of his heart, let alone cherish you.

Love, by conquering, no matter who is the initiative, this truth is true. Although it is said that women chase men between layers of yarn, as long as women are willing to take the initiative, it is often easier to get the love they want.

But if you want to get the same sincere treatment, want to let him care about you from the bottom of your heart, cherish you, in the final analysis, or rely on their personality charm to conquer each other, let him turn passive into active, willing to be impressed by you, willing to pay for you, good for you.

If you want to know whether a man has to pay true heart to you, you can see his initiative degree. If a man is conquered by you, then there must be these three initiatives.

Actively care about you, express your love for you

It is not only women who have a soft and attentive side, but also men, who are usually only exposed to the women they love.

Most of the time, men are careless, they are not careful, not patient, not caring for others, and very informal, this is the stereotype of men.

But, if you only see men like this, then obviously, you don't have his heart.

Once a man's heart to a person, sometimes more careful than a woman, will put all the care and love into action, warm you, and surrounded you.

Once the big fire on the network "memo" let countless women FOR it envy, men love all the preferences and taboos are all recorded in the memo, every word is countless love, let a person moved.

Really like your man, often not rhetoric, rarely use some vulgar love words to express your love, because true love is often very deep, not a few light sweet words can be expressed.

They will turn into practical actions, into silent care, remember your hobbies and taboos, remember your period, insight into your emotions, and when you need to use a silent company to warm you.

Men are conquered by you, they will take the initiative to care about you, with actions to express their love for you.

Take the initiative to pour out their thoughts to you, the soft spots exposed to you

Men are very good faces, are very strong, easy won't expose their soft ribs, and won't show their fragile side.

Even if there is a full of mind, will not easily open the mouth, will not say the export of the mind is melted in the wine, in the smoke, in countless sleepless nights.

When they encounter troubles and pressures, they will choose to digest them alone. Men's self-esteem does not allow them to give in, do not allow them to babble about everywhere, for fear that they will be looked down upon and do not want to be sympathized with.

But in love, such behavior is often easy to make the relationship between two people cold, just like a door, shut each other out of their world, between two people separated by a thick barrier.

To a certain extent, closing the heart door is a sign of distrust. Although it seems to be close on the surface, in reality, there is a very long distance between the heart and the heart, and it is difficult to achieve true communion.

Only when the man completely plays the bottom of the heart to accept you, he will expose his mind to you, will spread the soft ribs in front of you, all self-esteem and face are not as good as two hearts and hearts tightly close together let a person warm.

Those who do not love you hide everything from you. Those who love you are willing to tell you anything and will not close you out of their world. This is a trust, but also recognition.

Being open and talking about the future gives you a sense of security and belonging

Many men always think that women want too much, but in fact, what women want in a relationship is security and a sense of belonging.

Is should that sentence: do not love you of people always think you want too much, love you of people always think to give you not enough.

Not enough love your man, he will feel a sense of security is too illusory, will complain to you quite a lot, obviously is his own do not in place, but still, abandon you petty, make a mountain out of a molehill.

He will never understand the sense of belonging you crave and will always leave you with a sense of uncertainty and a sense of uncertainty about the future and the way forward.

It is not that he does not understand, does not understand, is the too straight man, but is not sincere to you, and you are only temporary, never want to go with you for a long time.

Maybe he thinks you're not good enough and he thinks he can find someone better. Maybe he's still watching and weighing the pros and cons. In a word, he's not completely open to you.

Only when a man is conquered by you, he will do his best to give you a sense of security and belonging, will take the initiative to open up your relationship, will take the initiative to talk about the future, and burn Bridges for you, give you wholehearted protection.

Love is always accompanied by initiative, especially for a man, as long as he moves the heart of a person, it is bound to expose the active side.

If you're in a relationship where the woman is the one making the first move, even if you can make it work, it won't last and you'll end up feeling exhausted.

If a man likes you, he will have the above three initiatives, only exposed these ways, only means he is completely conquered by you, and only to this extent, you two will be long.