Lying, is it natural?

Lying is to lie, to tell a lie, to tell a lie, to tell what one believes to be true to be untrue to the deceived person, so that the "non-existent thing" will make the listener believe that it is the "existing thing"; or the real thing, intentionally said to be non-existent. Or something real is deliberately said to be nonexistent.

To lie is to mislead others into believing what is true and what is false. Lying is purposeful, to achieve a certain purpose and distort or embellish the facts so that the listener mistakenly believes that the "truth" of the liar's mouth is the real thing so that the listener makes a wrong judgment.

Lying has a purpose, then lying is not a passive behavior, but an active behavior, to achieve the purpose to deceive others using behavior. In other words, no matter what the final result of lying is, the subjective deceptive nature of lying still exists.

Since lying is a subjective and conscious act, its perpetrators are not limited by age, race, education, and experience, etc. As long as a certain aspect of interest is involved, lying will naturally arise. There is no absolute good and evil in the world, only absolute interests.

There are interests, there will be lies, and this is the standard of the adult world. So as a white sheet of paper, children, between them or between them and adults whether there is an entanglement of interests, they also have a lie? If so, are they born to lie, or do they lie with a purpose?

There was this little boy who kept ridiculing his classmates around him during class, and when the teacher saw this, she told him not to verbally hurt his classmates. However, the boy did not listen to the teacher and continued to do what he wanted. The teacher had no choice, so the classmates moved away so that the boy and the non-talkative girls sat together.

After school, the mother asked the little boy if he was happy in class that day. The little boy then cried to his mother that the teacher did not pay attention to him, transferred his favorite classmates, and was mean to him and scolded him. When the mother found out, she immediately complained to the school about the teacher's lack of professional ethics and discrimination against children.

In the face of the little boy's mother's complaint, the school found the teacher and consulted with her about the situation, as well as retrieving surveillance for verification. Then feedback to the parents and informed the teacher that there was no problem with the teacher's mistake at that time, the little boy distorted the teacher's behavior when he told his mother what happened.

The little boy's mother did not believe, sure that their children are not going to lie, if the teacher did not do this, the children will not say that. The school teacher will take out the monitoring of the class to the boy's mother to prove the teacher's innocence.

The boy's mother watched the surveillance video and was silent. The boy has always been in her impression, a very well-behaved, understanding, and never lies child, but why in the classroom behavior and their complaints about things so far apart? Why is the child lying?

Yes, the child is innocent, not so much heart, but that does not mean that the child is completely innocent, children also know how to look at adults, but also know the preferences of adults and defend their interests. Although there is still no idea of monetary benefits, the favor and recognition of adults are very sensitive.

A child who is held in the palm and taken care of by adults is very sensitive inside, and he can catch a small change in the attitude of adults towards him. Perhaps to please adults, to make adults pay more attention to themselves, children will speak in the direction of their favor.

Lying is always with some purpose and is deceptive, but lying is not necessarily an attempt to cause harm to others. Most lies are made to induce others to go the wrong way or to think in the wrong direction for their benefit. However, some lies are told with good intentions and a desire for the good of others.

It is often said that a lie of kindness is also a lie, but its purpose is different from ordinary lies. A lie of kindness is also a deception, but it is to make the person not hurt or no longer anxious inside, and thus tell a lie to deceive the person to think in a good way.

For example, in order not to worry about the children who are wandering outside, the parents who actually live a very hard life but always tell their children that they are doing well. Children who are out there in very hard times also always tell their parents lies to avoid their parents worrying so they mistakenly think that they are living well.

Lies are not scary and they are not always hurtful. The birth of a lie depends on the circumstances and the purpose of the liar. If it is only for their benefit, then the lie will hurt people; if it is to make other people's hearts feel relieved, then the lie will often be well-intention ed.