Love or money?

I did my research on the relationship between cash and money and a very big question that am sure it has crossed your mind someday, “Money First or Love First?”. I had to think like for many days and I thought it’s better to take my opinions online to find put if am right about it. The question is so confusing and definitely it doesn’t need you to overthink about it since everybody has his/her own idea of lifestyle. Probably, you have already answered your own opinion in your head.

First of all, my opinion doesn’t mean its right to everybody. I just happen to think like a normal human being without favouring any side of the deal. I can’t say love first because romance without finance is not really a thing. On the other hand, I can’t say money first because money without love is useless, like you all just be blowing up some cash on someone you are not even intimate with.

For example, picture this, you have all the money in the world but you lack love. Who can you spend the money with? Who can inspire you to work harder? You are in love but you are broke. Where will you take your partner and have fun, and the place doesn’t matter, what will you buy her to make her feel proud and loved. So, confusing huh? Let me break it down for you so you can say the relationship between the two.

MONEY FIRST

Now let’s focus on money first. When you get some cash enough to handle all your bills and some for fun, you definitely feel great and with a peace of mind. You can call whoever you want and make plans of wherever the place you wanna go and have fun. You can buy a lot of things for you, you can get a lot of girls to the parties, hire a cabin house and do all the shit stuff you like doing. You can build empires, nice houses, buy awesome shoes, clothing and all the riches in the world. However, without someone you love, you will definitely not be happy at all.

Myself, I believe having money and being in love is the best feeling ever. Imagine the things you can do with your lover that you cannot do alone with money. Trust me, even if you hire like 100 sex workers with the money you got, you will have sexual pleasure but not satisfaction since there is never a better sex like the sex you have with someone you love.

LOVE FIRST

Love is the greatest and strongest feeling in the Universe, that feeling that makes you do crazy things even for some, to an extent of killing. Love is crazy, sacrifice and trust. However, love in this generation has really changed to a commercial need. Love is 21st century is expensive since the globalisation of women empowerment. Imagine been in love and both of you can’t afford to pay simple bills. That’s definitely crazy because you need to pressure some feelings on one another. Anyway, I’m not saying you cannot fall for a broke person or something like that, love is definitely unpredictable and you can find yourself tripping in your crib with a broke love life. However, there is always a start to everything and I bet that you can begin as broke and you build your strength and focus on making each other happy.

LET’S AGREE

Both are important but you got to have some cash to make the partner happy and am not talking about any gender specifically. Anybody in that love triangle can provide for the other. Stop the stupidity of “Men are supposed to provide”. Who told you that and love is two sided? Anyway, we have different opinions and we can come to an agreement that they aren’t that far from the truth that we know.

Love first then focus on money first. Vice versa is greed!!