Love is a Delusion. Here are 10 Reasons Why!
I’m going to be honest: I’ve never been in love.

I’m going to be honest: I’ve never been in love.
Now, don’t get me wrong: I know what love feels like. When someone is willing to put their life on the line for you, when they are there for you no matter what happens, that is real love. The amount of commitment and sacrifice you put into a relationship like this is mind-boggling – so much so that most people would never find such an ideal partner in their lifetime! But despite knowing all this about love, I still haven't been able to experience it myself. So why not? Well…the answer may surprise you:
Love is the most confusing thing in this world.
Love is a feeling, it's your mind playing tricks on you and convincing you that what you feel for someone is real. It's so easy to fall for someone who doesn't even deserve it and when they leave, it hurts so much more than if they had been just an average person or friend.
Love is also a mental construct; an idea created by society which says we shouldn't love anyone because that would be too selfish but instead we should focus on ourselves alone, becoming better people first before caring about others around us (a selfish act).
But perhaps the biggest reason why love can be such a tricky concept is because it isn't really all there exists in life - nothing else matters except our own happiness! This means no matter how many bad things happen around us (or even within ourselves), we need not worry as long as only good things happen too! But despite being told otherwise by everyone else around us...
Love is a potent mix of dopamine and oxytocin, which is why we get addicted to it.
Love can be addictive because it has the same chemical makeup as other drugs like heroin and cocaine. The good feeling you experience when you're in love triggers your brain's pleasure center to release chemicals called neurotransmitters that signal the body to make more of them—and these chemicals can lead to cravings for more of what you're feeling right now!
Love is also an evolutionary survival mechanism: When we feel loved by someone else, our body releases chemicals called opioids (like oxytocin) that tell us everything is okay so we don't have any reason not to trust them or anything they say about us because they won't hurt us even if they are being mean or cruel just because they want something from us."
Love involves obsessive thoughts and behaviors…just like other addictions.
Love is an addiction, just like any other addiction. It's not just a feeling or emotion; it's a compulsion that you have to do something about, even if it means sacrificing your life in the process.
Love is also considered a mental illness because of all the crazy things people do for love, like getting married or having children without being married first (which makes sense since marriages don't last).
Love can be deadly: People who care deeply about one another are more likely than others to die young—especially women over 40 who are struggling with cancer or heart disease because they're consumed by their feelings of love at this stage in life
The more you love someone, the less it feels like love.
When we begin to feel as if our loved ones should be providing us with everything we need and want, we lose sight of the fact that they are only human. They will never be perfect and this can create frustration for both of you. When this happens, your expectations become so high that when they don't live up to your standards (or at least try), it's easy for both parties involved to become disappointed in one another — which leads back down an endless spiral toward resentment and anger.
Expectations are the root cause of all heartbreak. When you expect something, you obviously compare it to reality and suffer because of the differences.
A lot of people believe that love is a delusion because they compare the one they see in their head to reality and suffer because of the differences. The truth is, there is no such thing as a perfect match in this world. It's an illusion created by lonely people looking for someone to validate their existence.
If you're looking for someone who will make you feel good about yourself, then it's likely going take more than one person or relationship before you find happiness again – and even then, it won't last forever because nothing does (except maybe some drugs).
Love involves obsessive thoughts and behaviors…just like other addictions!
People who are infatuated with someone feel addicted to that person – just like people who abuse drugs.
When you're in love, it feels like the world is all of your own. You're never alone and the person you love makes your life better. You feel safe when they're around because they make you feel secure. But when someone comes along who loves you as much or even more than your current partner does, disappointment sets in quickly because there's no way for either party to win this game of love: both will lose out eventually!
When we fall for someone else instead of ourselves or our own needs (which are often neglected), we become addicted to that person—just like people who abuse drugs by taking them every day or injecting themselves with heroin every day until their bodies can't handle any more damage anymore...
It’s way easier to fall out of love than it is to fall in love.
Love is a delusion. That’s the first thing that needs to be said, because it gets right to the heart of the matter.
Love isn't a feeling—it's a decision. Love isn't something you feel when two people are together, it's something that happens in your head as you're watching them interact with each other and see what kind of person they are (or aren’t). You don't need to fall in love with someone for them to be able to make you happy; all you need is someone who makes your life better!
Everyone has different standards for what they consider ‘love’.
Everyone has different standards for what they consider ‘love’. Some people are only interested in the physical and sexual aspect of a relationship, while others want to know that their partner is willing to be there for them emotionally and mentally as well.
Everyone has different standards for what they consider a relationship. Some people want to know that their partner is willing to be there for them emotionally and mentally as well as physically; others want nothing more than sex (but maybe some emotional support). You might think this makes sense since each person has his or her own set of criteria but it doesn't really matter because everyone's happiness comes first! If you're not happy in your relationship, then there's no point trying hard not making it work because eventually one day something will happen which makes one person feel differently about things altogether so then another thing happens which makes one person feel differently again...
A lot of people don’t know how to love themselves, so how do you expect them to love others?
When you love yourself, you will be able to love others.
You can’t expect someone else to love you if they don’t know how or haven't learned how.
It is important for us all to learn how to love ourselves first before we can expect anyone else around us do so as well.
There is no such thing as a perfect match in this world. It is an illusion created by lonely people looking for someone to validate their existence..
You know what is a perfect match? A person who loves you for who you are, not for what you look like or how much money you make.
Love is an illusion created by lonely people looking for someone to validate their existence. The truth of the matter is: there is no such thing as a perfect match in this world! It's just an illusion created by lonely people who have failed to learn how to love themselves and instead chose instead to fill themselves up with other people's validation so that they can feel better about themselves..
Conclusion
The truth is, we are all alone. We can’t rely on anyone else to make us feel good about ourselves or trust that they will be there when we need them most. This means that the only way to find happiness is by finding your own path and doing what makes you happy!
About the Creator
Courtanae Heslop
Courtanae Heslop is a multi-genre writer and business owner.



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