
We've all experienced moments when we've lost hope in ourselves or when our confidence in life has been shaken. Whether this loss is due to something big or small, the feeling remains heavy on the heart. In those moments, we wonder: Am I really useful in this life? But is it worth all this pain? Often, no, and often, we're exaggerating too much.
We feel disappointed when we don't get the results we expected, or when we fail to achieve a goal we've worked hard for. It may be as simple as a love confession that was rejected, a failed attempt at reconciliation, or even a lengthy study that ended in disappointment. But these disappointments are not the end of the road; they are steps from which we learn, just as we learned how to walk as children.
While losing self-confidence may be the result of a painful experience, it is also an opportunity for a deeper understanding of life. We tend to imagine life as we want it to be, not as it is, and so we feel frustrated when reality hits us. But this doesn't mean surrender or loss. Rather, it means turning a new page to make something of our past mistakes and old actions.
Life isn't as easy as some people think, and the results aren't always what we hope for. You have the right to be sad, to break down, and to question yourself, but don't let the loss of hope become a heavy burden. Instead, let it be a lesson that guides you, not an obstacle that prevents you from moving forward or a branch that blocks your path.
Even in love, when you're rejected, don't lose your self-confidence. Rejection doesn't diminish your value; it's just an experience. Don't let love be your weakness. It's about feelings, not your energy. A path is an option, and winning is another option.
Always remember that life still holds so much for you. Don't give up now; every moment of weakness is an opportunity to strengthen yourself. Learn from your disappointments, and don't just cry over them. You're not a little person who thinks they can repeat a game if they lose. You're someone who can do what others can't, not someone who waits for words from anyone.
Don't be alone in your sadness, and don't hand over the key to your life to others. You are the hero of your story, so don't be a mere secondary player. Take control of your life, and don't let those who don't care about you lead it. Life is yours, and you deserve to live it to the fullest, not waste it on trivial matters.
There are those who have lost their lives for things that have no value. There are people who wanted to live the same life as you because it was comfortable. Your life wanted to become stronger, but you failed. You will never know the blessing of happiness until you lose it, and you will never know loss if you conquer it. Work hard, not with spirit. You are a hero, not an NPC. You have always failed amidst sadness. You will never achieve the happiness you desire.
Wake up before real sadness overwhelms you.
Note: (This is the first time I've written an article about profound matters, and there are still many more to come. However, it will always be limited due to the limited time I have to think. There are some meanings I don't know if anyone will understand or not, so I hope this is the beginning of a successful career. Thank you for reading.)



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