Life is like a play, and when do we play "self".

I really like a friend in the circle of friends. She is a charming existence. In addition to looking good, thinking and action skills are even rarer among us at the same age. She likes to study the knowledge about psychology and believes in the energy from the universe. As soon as the social page is opened, it is full of her various experiences on psychological research. What she often tells me is: to believe in the law of attraction and learn to think in a positive direction, then you will be attracted to beautiful things. Because there is a dialogue in the universe, and we can all receive information about the universe. In her body, one can always feel the endless positive energy. During the conversation, she was shining like a star in front of her. Sometimes I always feel like~ Ah... How good would it be if you could become as confident as her and get along with others?

We have all thought if we could become someone else...

If you can become as good-looking as her, will others like me more? If you can become as confident as her, will people be more fascinated by me?

We've all had it before: If we can become like others... can we be like this... a beautiful fantasy.

But what the author wants to tell us is: no matter how hard we try to be others, we still cannot be others in the end, we can only be ourselves after all. Instead of following closely, it is better to find a version of your own, that will be the most comfortable. For example, if you want to be a good social person, but your personality is extremely introverted, then you cannot make yourself good at socializing in a super lively occasion, but on the contrary, you can use what you have. Good project, to see yourself: (Although introverted, but love to dance, and the rhythm is very good), then you can choose to jump on the dance floor, talk to people on the dance floor, and that model, just It will be his own version of what the author said, a look that makes oneself and others feel comfortable.

My friend asked me: Do you want to be like me?

I used to say: Yeah!!! I really want to be as powerful as you~

But after reading this book, what I want to be is to use the appearance of a friend as a temporary template, and then slowly find out my own version.

Stepping out of the comfort zone does not mean that we have to lose the comfort zone. Instead, we are still in the comfort zone with one foot, and then stepped out to challenge and learn new things with the other foot, and use what we already know to explore new ones. Things, combine the new with the old and expand your comfort zone.

I really like the point of view the author mentioned in the book. It is only a simple narrative, but the reflection brought out is profound and far-reaching. Every time you finish reading a chapter, it takes time to digest it, and then you can go deeper. Experience what the author said.

Because there are others, we can slowly play ourselves.

As usual, what we often say is learning to love ourselves well, so that we can have the strength to love others (me too). However, the author's point of view is that there is no one else, how to be yourself?

It seems to be true. If we didn't get along with others in the process of growing up, how would we know our own strengths and weaknesses, let alone how to love ourselves.

When we get along with people, there will be happiness and sadness. But time and time again, because of others, we can also make ourselves more like ourselves in the process of how to adjust ourselves and adapt to others.

I also recommend this book with high gold content to my charming friend who likes to study psychology. I am grateful to the Law of Attraction for bringing her to my life. She has learned a lot from her. She always shared good energy with me without hesitation. He is someone who can make me feel at ease to be myself.

Thank you very much for reading here. I really recommend that if you are feeling helpless about your own confusion and lack of direction, you can take a look at this book. After opening the book, you will be able to share the author’s unique philosophical style. Thinking and getting various reflections, you will be more comfortable with [be yourself].