Ladies around the world
Attention, attention, and more attention.
A man showing anger and persistence to get you back isn’t proof of love, it’s a knee jerk reaction. A man kissing your ass and making flaccid attempts to be nicer for two weeks isn’t proof that he’s trying, it’s proof that he knows how to defuse your dumb ass long enough to hook you once again. Now me using the word dumb ass towards women is not used in a bad way here. I am only explaining the actions that we do when we have been sucked back in the sack with men. I am not male bashing here I am only raising mental awareness to our women no matter what color your are. You are still and will always be a women first. Take away a toy, a little nigga cries, take away a relationship on convenience, a big nigga cries. Just because he cries doesn’t mean you give him what he wants. Grow some balls! You’re not soulmates because you like the same shit and have become comfortable enough to role play during sex. Show me something deeper that pet names and zodiac signs. A lot of you girls don’t know what it’s like to be loved by a real man. You know lust, you know joy, you know passion, and you know fear of abandonment. You’ve put all you faith in this promise that prince charming will come for all women, but now that you’re getting older you realize that you’ve never truly been loved. Stop chasing your idea of what love should be and recognize what love is. Love isn’t promising to act right after he fucks up; love is him acting right from the start so he wont fuck up. Love isn’t telling a grown man to change so he can keep you, love is a grown man changing on his own because he can’t imaging life without you.
I know all to well about feeling abandonment issues and I know all to well what it is like to feel hurt, pain, and being played. We as women give so much of ourselves to men that we have a tendency to loose ourselves in them then sit back later on wondering what the hell just happened here? I know relationships are not easy but if you are making the steps to change you for the better that is great just as long as you remember who you are in the process.
The world that we as strong black women live in today have to do it all. Trust me it is not because we wont to do it all it is because this is the way the system of our government was set up. They figured that if they can take the black man out of the homes and play on the black women mental state of mind then their issues will be solved. However; this did not solve the problem it only added more to the problem and this is why many strong black men leave their homes because of the way the system is built. We as women do love our black men but the problem comes when black men think that they can do what these white men do and they cant. We all have been in the mindset of wanting to be in someone else’s shoes or change of lifestyle but the real question here is this would you really want to change life styles with someone else that you already know is not doing as good as you would like to think they are? Of course not, no one really wants to trade places with someone else because first of all you would not be able to drink from the tears, blood, and sweat that they other person had to go through to get where they are today.
Just because someone else’s lifestyle may look good on the outside you might want to take a step back and look at the person’s heart before you put the mental picture in your head that you want to be like them or have their lifestyle. You might be asking for trouble not evening knowing it. So in closing this piece this morning I just want to say strong black beautiful women please stay woke. Gard your heart, mind, and body at all cost for you not them until you know for sure that they are real and for you.
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Theresa Evans
I am a woman on fire for the love of life and being able to reach one life at a time through my words. If I can reach one then I can teach one the art of healing one's self from the inside out all mentaly
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