Is a Woman’s Intuition Really a Man’s Worst Enemy?

They say that a woman can tell right away when she encounters one of her own kind. That something inside of her clicks with an unmistakable sense of knowing. Like a sixth sense. Whether it’s a memory buried deep in her soul, or that she is gifted a fleeting glimpse of something more, makes no difference. The fact is that every woman possesses an innate knowledge about her great loves — the ones destined to imprint her heart and share her intimate life. The knowledge is there inside of her. She just needs to believe and trust in her inner-voice that little bit more so that she can break through the love-crud to see him clearly.

It’s all about her intuition.

What Exactly is Intuition?

Our intuition or “sixth sense” is a natural power that we all possess.

According to Wikipedia, intuition is “the ability to acquire knowledge without recourse to conscious reasoning”.

Basically, intuition is direct access to your unconscious knowledge and ability to comprehend something instinctively. It’s that inner-voice that speaks to you even when you don’t have any physical proof of its existence.

All of us have access to our intuitive resource of intelligence, but a woman’s intuition is something else altogether. It’s her super-power.

They say that a woman’s intuition is a man’s worst enemy. That her intuition is extremely powerful and some men know or even learn to fear it.

It’s true that a woman’s intuitive intelligence is a force to be reckoned with that can help us when we are making decisions about anything from work-related tasks, to life-altering choices, to trusting our instincts in love and relationships.

The late Swedish actress, Ingrid Bergman often reminded her sisters about the value of their intuitive knowledge:

“You must train your intuition — you must trust the small voice inside of you which tells you exactly what to say, what to decide.”

Guess what else?

Intuition is a Woman’s Greatest Asset When It Comes to Love

When a woman learns how to cultivate the connection with her inner-voice and trust these intuitive powers given to her soul at birth, she can very well learn how to avoid unnecessary pain when it comes to understanding relationships and avoiding the love-scene riff-raff in the form of notorious Players, Bad Boys, and Macks.

Learning to slow down enough to recognize and listen to your intuitive intelligence can reveal the truth, warn you of danger, or help you see the situation in a new way.

So, is a woman’s intuition really a man’s worst enemy?

Decide for yourself. Here are the 3 most dangerous type of men and the ways to help strengthen your intuition so that you may better recognize them before you (preferably) get burned:

#1 The Player

Every smart woman knows the world is full of predatory-type men whose interests begin and stop with himself. You know the guy. The one who offers a smooth dialogue, working his way in with his offbeat charm and sexy-strong demeanor. He is ace at the game, leading you to believe one thing, when, in reality, he wants his cake, and wants to eat the entire slab, too.

Players are sexual con artists and the key to their game is the ability to skilfully pull off the lie. He makes you feel like the definition of Sex on Fire — desirable, special and seen. As if you’re the only woman in the world.

Until he abruptly puts on the brakes and moves on to his next kill-thrill.

Intuitive Super-Power Defence — Self-Reflection

Women are so powerful.

There are so many answers that live within us. You have just got to take the time to know yourself internally and form a bond with your inner-self.

If you find yourself constantly questioning the motivation and sincerity of your lover, then you are probably on the right track. Trust your gut feelings.

Real love doesn’t game women for the thrill of it, nor does it seek to breed insecurity. Real love is real respect.

You’ve got to dig deep inside yourself because when you know how to understand yourself and your intuitive intelligence, it will be easier to gain clarity over the situation and decipher what feels right with you and what doesn’t.

The key is to not sell yourself short for anyone in this world or settle for less than what you deserve.

Learn to trust yourself through understanding who you really are on the inside. You will never lead yourself astray.

#2 The Bad Boy

Like the player, the bad boy is a master at wordplay. He is dangerous, charming and alluring, yet hard to catch and even harder to keep. All women know the type as soon as we meet him and yet, we are still attracted to him like a moth to a flame.

Why is that?

His deepest secret is his disrespect for women in general, believing that a woman is best when she’s on her back. He understands that women are emotional creatures and has no qualms about using her feelings to evoke a potent response so that he can better support his own self-fulfilling prophecies. Usually before he vanishes into the night, never to be heard from again. Ever.

It’s a jungle out there, baby.

Intuitive Super-Power Defence — Listening

There’s a voice inside of you that lets you know when something feels wrong. You can just feel it. Do not silence that voice.

Listen to and become attuned with your feelings — How do you really feel about the situation; physically and emotionally? Does he uplift or confuse you? How does he make you feel when in his company?

Love may be subjective and abstract, but you can feel the energy of love when it enters your life. The vibe between you will be meaningful, close, passionate and authentic.

Stay aware of your inner-self and look for synchronicity. Such moments let you know when you’re in the flow — in the right place, at the right time and with the right person.

How you feel is a vital component to what your intuition is trying to tell you. Listen to it and then weigh up the positives and the negatives.

#3 The Macks

At first glance, Macks seem to have real potential. Just like bad boys, Macks are pretty cool and loads of fun, only this type is a serious career guy, and, as such, is usually highly successful in his chosen profession.

He says the right thing at the right time, is responsible and respectful, and he pulls out all the stops to shower you with romantic interludes and love.

You just know that he will make a great partner/husband/father some day.

The problem?

He is addicted to playing the field with a revolving harem of ladies and is commitment phobic. Think Ryan Gosling’s character in the 2011 film, Crazy, Stupid, Love.

His game was built around generating so much attraction in a woman that she eventually surrendered and accepted being in his harem just to be close to him. He’s a player, yes, but the difference between the Macks and the Players is that Macks don’t stoop to deception to seduce a woman — they eloquently put their cards on the table.

Still, the only way this guy is going to put a ring on your finger is when he gets bored with the game.

Feeling super special? I think not.

Intuitive Super-Power Defence — Visualization

It’s important to envision what healthy love “looks” like to you and how you want to experience love in your life.

Here’s a quote from Clinical Psychologist, Kristen Hick:

“Intuition is the voice inside of you that gives you intangible information about someone, about who they are. More importantly, it provides information about who you are and how you feel with that person. This is key in dating mindfully.”

Putting it into practice means opening your mind and your heart to find the answers, and to let your spirit guide you toward a nurturing kind of love that lasts, rather than getting entangled with someone who doesn’t prioritize you.

No woman wants or deserves to play second to someone else. She is worth much more than that — more love and time; more honor and respect; more honesty and communication.

If your guy is acting shady or rubs you the wrong way, don’t ignore your natural intuition. Instead, identify the qualities that you are looking for in a partner and meditate on a loving person who has your best interests at heart.

In Closing…

Your intuition is like a muscle. As you strengthen it, the more comfortable you get with trusting your intuitive powers, and the more you will feel confident enough to make the hard choices about your love life without overthinking.

Just like trust is important in any relationship, trusting your intuition is the key to avoiding getting involved with dangerous men and finding real love. If you feel bad, tricky vibes, walk away. If you feel good, positive vibes, move forward.

It will pay off in the end. Trust me.