I Saw My Ex Boyfriend With His New Girlfriend (My Ex Boyfriend Has A Beautiful New Girlfriend)

When two people's lives merge, there are many bumps and rough patches to work through. Sometimes a breakup is a rough patch that can be overcome if you're willing to keep forging ahead. You just need to have a little guidance to make it safely to the other side. Part of that is to understand why your boyfriend left you in the first place.

Guys aren't complex when it comes to relationships with people. They stay around people that they get along with and like being around. Guys have two attributes that can determine how they respond to other people and when those are ignored they feel there is no reason to stick around. Those two attributes are: respect and admiration. A guy's mind functions on knowing that he is admired and respected (or can at least have self-respect). How do you play into the equation? You let him know that you are happy and that he is the one that makes you happy. When a guy feels he can no longer make his significant other happy he will feel he is worthless in the relationship. His goal and purpose is to make you happy, if you fail to show him that... he will leave. That's actually a leading reason many guys tend to leave a relationship.

The next time you're around your ex and he does something that makes you smile, let him see that smile and just watch how he glows from your expression. He might readjust himself so his chest sticks out or rearrange his stance so his feet are shoulder-width apart in the "confidence" stance or he just might have a huge grin on his face. If you want to get your ex back you have to show him you're happy with him and what he does for you.

What To Do If You See Him With Someone New

Nothing is more painful than seeing your ex boyfriend with another girl after your break up. Yes, the sight of him walking hand in hand with another woman, smiling, and cuddling with each other can be too much for an ex to bear. So what do you do if you want to get your ex back but he has already moved on?

As some people would say, it ain't over 'til the fat lady sings. In this case, it ain't over until the wedding bells toll. You still have a shot if you want to get your ex back.

What you should bear in mind is that, whatever plan you have, you must not look like the evil, bitter, psycho ex girlfriend. You have to get him back with class and right under his new girlfriend's nose. This will test your ability to control your emotions and work your charm.

First thing you need to do is get a hold of yourself. You may still be fresh from crying and hurting due to the break up. And I am pretty sure seeing him moved on to another girl that fast is a reason to cry again. But if you want results fast, you need to wipe those tears away and get into battle mode right away.

The next step would depend slightly on how you broke up. If it was done in a mutual and civil way, it'd be a piece of cake, if not, though it's still possible, it will be a challenge. The next time you see them and find yourself in a situation where it is impossible to avoid them, walk up to them and say 'hi.' This will make you look cool and sane.

Your ex may be surprised that you have collected yourself well; at the same time, his new girlfriend will not be uneasy seeing you if you approach them that way. She'll know that you are perfectly okay with their relationship.

Once you have done this, you can now start to become their friend. By being their friend, you can 'infiltrate' their base and start making your ex get to know you in a whole new way. This is your chance to make him fall for you again, and his current girlfriend won't even notice it.

Remember that you need to avoid spending time alone with your ex so as not to raise doubts. It would even be better if you spend more time with his girlfriend. That way, you will be able to gain their trust.

Some people may look at this as a shrewd way of getting your ex back. Some may even look at it as 'stealing' him. You can't really say it's 'stealing' because you are simply being their friend; you are showing your ex and his girlfriend just who you are as a person. If your ex takes the bait and falls in love with you again, it's not your fault anymore because you have not shown him anything more than you are showing his current flame. Sounds like a good plan, right?

If you really want to get your ex back, there's no reason to think of this in a negative way. You are NOT stealing him. You just want to get him back. It's all up to him if he takes the bait or not.

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