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How you perfunctory life, life will perfunctory you

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By JCNSIUDHPublished 4 years ago 3 min read

Lazy to live with heart is actually a common problem of most people.

When I first started working, I had the same decadent time as Xiaoxuan. I felt tired every day. After work, I rushed into the house and used takeaways and instant noodles for dinner. I didn’t have any hobbies and didn’t want to socialize. Life is dead.

At that time, my cousin was cooking at home, so she asked me to eat together at night.

I still remember the first time I entered my cousin's house, I fell in love with the cleanliness and warmth of the cottage.

Simple beige furniture is well placed and can function without taking up too much space. The floor and windowsills are spotless, and the dining table is covered with a beige floral tablecloth, which looks simple and elegant. There was the smell of cream in the air, which was the fragrance of the essential oil that my cousin had just finished smoking.

On the sill by the window is a row of small succulents, and there are crystal drops of water hanging on the round leaves. There is an oil painting hanging on the wall in the living room. My cousin said that it was the result of an oil painting class some time ago.

We chatted while eating shrimp fried rice, minced garlic green bamboo shoots, and stir-fried bacon made by our cousin at the table. When I complained to my cousin about my busy and uninteresting life after work, she shared her experience with me.

Never perfunctory every morning and evening that belongs to you:

Get up early every morning and prepare yourself breakfast, sometimes millet porridge, eggs and bean paste, sometimes milk, whole wheat bread with nuts and fruit. Eat a full meal in the morning, and you will be full of energy when you work.

When you get home from get off work, wash your hands and face first, wash your tiredness, and then prepare a hearty dinner for yourself. My cousin said that food delivery can never replace the happiness of cooking by yourself. If we perfunctory food, the food is just something to eat. If we are willing to cook by ourselves and treat the ingredients with heart, they will be deliciously rewarded and eaten in our mouths. also feel happy.

Never perfunctory every inch of space at home:

Never store rubbish at home, clean regularly, throw things out regularly, and keep the room tidy at all times. Leave room for green plants and a small space for exercise in your home. After a busy day, at least a neat and comfortable home is waiting for you.

Weekend time is not to be wasted. Going out for a bike ride with friends, watching a performance, or painting a picture or reading a good book at home can increase the richness of life.

People who live with heart will always be rewarded by life. No wonder every time I see my cousin, I feel that she is full of energy and vitality.

That precious dinner time completely rescued me from a sloppy and improvised life. I took care of my life like my cousin and cultivated my little hobbies. In the little changes, I also saw life. Surprise yourself.

Sometimes, we feel that study and work are tired enough, and we always want to avoid all kinds of troubles; in the face of various options in life, we always want to choose the easiest and easiest option, but what we don’t know is that we perfunctory because of fear of troubles its own life.

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