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How To Put A Smile On Her Face This Valentine's Day

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By Amanda J MollettPublished 5 years ago 3 min read

It is almost time for valentine's day, so what is the most romantic thing you can do for your wife this year? Well... husbands buckle up, I am going to take you on this ride to show you some romantic gestures to show your wife how much you love and appreciate her this valentine's day. Forget Cupid, you do not need him this year . You just need a little magic.

Whether you are looking to make someone feel special, bring romance back into your relationship, impress someone new, or propose to your gifrlfriend there is ideas and advice for everyone.

For the men who hope to propose-

For many women and families there is much respect for a man who asks permission to propose. However, some fathers, mothers, brothers, or grandfathers have since passed away. So how do you ask permission? Some single mothers think it is romantic for the boyfriend to ask their sons or their children . This let's them know their kids would be as important to you as they are to them. It also shows them that their kids like you and can have a good relationship with you. For women that have relatives that have passed, some, not all, would like to be proposed to at their graves. Maybe even with their pictures around whatever area you ask in, so that they feel that person's presence. Some women would like to have someone around that would be taking pictures or video of the proposal for a keepsake. This is a romantic way to remember the proposal forever.

For the men who are dating someone new-

Take your date some flowers, chocolates, maybe a bottle of their favorite pop and a card. This also is nice for trying to make someone new to feel special and have a great first date. This ensures that there will be a second date. Show them the amazing you.

For the men who want to rekindle your love and bring romance back into your relationship-

Write a love letter

Write a poem

Sing a love song to your partner

Write a love song

Take pictures together

Get pictures done for your spouse

Dress nice for your date. Show up with flowers, maybe send flowers to your spouses work to surprise them.

When I asked Amber what her ideal date with fiance Jeff would be she had this to say. "Ideally...it would be going to a concert .Other than that...probably a nice restuarant then maybe going to do something fun...arcade, bowling, axe throwing. I like it when we go and do active stuff."

One couple had their first date on valentine's day six years ago, now they have been married for four and a half years. It all started with a date at home where she cooked dinner for him , then they watched Nicholas Spark's"The Notebook" , and went outside to look up at the beautiful star lit sky.

Many people look at valentine's day like it is a greeting card holiday, or it was invited by the candy companies. Many people do not believe in having to show your love this one day, and I have to agree with that. My belief is that you should show your loved one every single day love and affection. Valentines day and your anniversaries are just the days that you need to show it ten fold. That's the days to spoil your loved one. If you do not celebrate calentines day do it on your anniversaries. It is very important to show love and affection every day , but sometimes you need to be spoiled and you need to spoil your loved one too.

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About the Creator

Amanda J Mollett

First, and foremost I am a mom…always . I am a proud mom of a graduate & artist. I am a author/writer and a journalist. I have multiple certificates in journalism and various writing certificates such as novel writing and creative writing.

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