Get My Boyfriend Back

If you have tried to get your ex boyfriend back take a close look at what you have done to get him back. You may not have got the result you wanted so a rethink is called for and a new strategy implemented.

Please, please never use any of the following tactics.

Begging him to come back

Pleading with him

Promising to change your ways

Saying "I'll do anything you want"

Trying to use logical reasoning

Sending gifts, for any reason

Bombarding him with texts and emails

Trying to reason, using logic and arguing with your ex boyfriend simply does not work nor will telling him how much you care. On the contrary it will probably push him further away. Men are not programmed to respond to that kind of reasoning on a deep emotional level.

So repeat the following until it is permanently etched on your mind.

Stay cool, remain aloof. this must be your mantra.

But if you are desperate to get a boyfriend back you are probably asking how it is possible to remain aloof. The hard and fast truth is that you simply must because if you use any of the above banned methods to get your boyfriend back, and he does return, it will be on his terms and life will be hell for you.

Face up to this reality as the future success of your relationship cannot be based on the terms of your ex boyfriend, it must be a level playing field but preferably slightly in your favour.

As hard as this may seem at this precise moment you must get out and about and begin to carve out a new life for yourself. A few simple steps at first perhaps regenerating and developing relationships with friends, a coffee together, a shopping trip or lunch are perfect to get the ball rolling.

As you rebuild these friendships you will become independent, build more confidence and feel much better about yourself. This will show in the way you walk, talk and smile. Come on get that smile going again.

I always feel that life with choices is an enriched life and now you will have a choice, do you get a boyfriend back or would you like a new boyfriend? This is the new you, independent and confident doesn't it feel good.

If you still want to get your ex boyfriend back remember the mantra, stay cool and stay aloof. Don't take the aloofness too far just leave him thinking you may be interested again. Do you see what you have now achieved; you have reversed the situation making him want you.

So if you see him, smile, be polite but then quickly move on telling him you have made arrangements to meet a friend. Repeat this without showing too much interest in him and his attitude will change towards you.

The more he can see you are attractive and popular with others the more attractive you become to him and he will realize what he is missing and want you back.

You set out to get a boyfriend back but using psychological tactics it is he who now wants his ex back and that ex is you. The lady has won the battle of the sexes but remember you must be the one in control.

My very best wishes to you.

There is a hidden, emotional need in a man’s heart that leaves him feeling constantly unsatisfied. Most men don’t realize what it is, and that it’s tied to the quality of their relationships. Once a woman makes it “click” for him, he’ll go overboard to prove his love for her.

Because 99% of the time, there is only 1 thing your man can hear that will change his mind and heart.

And once you say this to him, or even send this simple phrase in a text message...

It will flip his world upside down and you will suddenly find him chasing you...

And even begging to be with you.

Here’s what I’m talking about. Good Luck!